Guess Its Solo Til the End

Maybe you're not the one fucking up?

I appreciate it. But it would be too much of a coincidence not to be.

Maybe your gay? This guy here needs some companionship if you be interested. Hes talking to himself
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I wouldn´t say it´s you.
It´s just that relationships mostly are not based on some substance. It´s necessary for both persons to dig deeper and that scares the shit out of the people. Facing your own is the hardest and that is relationship is about.
Everything is in a transformation process, there is a call in the soul, some hear it, most not.

But right now, that doesn´t matter so much anymore.
Just let everything go.
This is the thing, that works best for me, besides everything.

Same situation here man.

Liquor is quicker if you want to dick her

I believe in "the one" but I also believe in free will, and I feel like my free will is going to (or has already) fucked things up with that person because for whatever reason I cant seem to get it right.

I try and let it go but thats what i always come back to..

hahaha i so get this! specially today.
this girl knew i liked her like 3 years ago.
gave me her number a month ago.
we went out to dinner a couple of times, to the movies and some other stuff. always great fun and good conversations.
now it was like a week ago i last saw her and shes really rarely replying to my messages anymore. even tho last time we had said wed date again tomorrow.

no idea what i did or said in the meanwhile since the last time i saw her.

but poof and its gone...

maybey you need to take a bath stinky.

Couldnt be more similar that what just happened to me. Freaky.....

You have to be more assertive when the time is right. After dinner ask her if she wants some desert and point at your dick! Dont make her beg for it.

what I´ve found is, that you need to see things beyond the paradox... things are changing, but I know how that feels.
Often it´s like that, you meet someone, you get closer and then transformation starts within both of you. It´s said, when two people are meeting, then no one stays the same, so that there are two new people emerging.

lol you couldnt be more wrong
im always fresh

you didn't live up to her unrealistic ambitions.

typical woman really. she either sussed out you're not loaded, in either the wallet or the trousers, or you had a spot on your chin, or something.

shallow tarts

stop blaming yourself. the right one is out there somewhere.

Thanks for trying to help. Maybe im just looking in the wrong place.

You need to start paying women to have sex with you.

Thats why its so important to have deeply held common traits to share, like sex, drugs and sex. It will save the relationship when words run out after a few days

meaning what tho? she did enjoy herself? did i make her aware of something that was new to her that she doesnt really know or feel comfortable with handeling?

worst part is her not just saying whats up.
cuz i mean if it was just like that and i did say something or she did think something she knows she could just say so and we could be somewhat friends like weve been the last 3 years

(like i said she knew i already liked her 3 years ago but she had then just started a new relationship that was no over 5 months ago, and that why she gave me her number last month)

instead now i have no idea what happened and i still get to see her from time to time and i hang with her brother occasionaly lol

makes it awkward for me while she knows whats going in

yea that couldnt really be it either. she knows what i do for a living and she knows i got more to come also. i guess i just turned out to not be her type after all? even tho she knew me for 3 years and gave me her number?

women.

The right woman dosent give a shit about what you do for a living, your material status means nothing to her initially

Aim for that one, infact aim for the one that have understanding and sees the world for what it is
She will be more more interested in your heart than your so called life

I don´t know.
But women are kind of paradox.
Often they are just scared of their own feelings.
Many women are really materialistic, it´s easier to be satisfied, than to be really loved..






Last Edited by A r c on 06/09/2013 05:40 AM

shes calling me. This should be good....

Thats good advice. I hear that fat woman need loving to, but you might want to put that paper bag over your own head, not hers.

tear it up man

good luck ;)

yea i get this idea aswell. so you have to be a douchebag to get them? i cant be one. it makes me not give a shit about her if i was. (well i guess thats the point but if i dont give a fuck i dont need her anymore?!)

this sucks. i always wonder. should i push on anyway? or let her do what she thinks is best (and leave her alone)

Similarly, i just lost my woman after 7 years a week ago. I felt/still feel that i gave it my utmost, but it wasnt enough for her. We had 8 years between us (she now 25 me 33) and as much as it shouldnt have affected us, i feel it was a major contributing factor to our demise. We ended amicably, and agreed we both tried our best but couldnt make each other happy. Breaks my heart, but must also move on - never know what God has in store for us.

Keep smiling and keep your chin up high friends.

aLaN