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Partial custody Visitation and restraining order

 
Anonymous Coward
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06/17/2013 04:05 AM
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I don't really know how this works but I'm a father of a two-year-old little boy I didn't make it with my baby's mother I guess I can say there wasn't really a frame there she got pregnant a month After I met her three months later we broke up we had our ups and downs dering them 3 months but I still tryed to Makepeace and do whatever I could for my child even if we couldn't make it. I love my son with all my heart but I'm unable to be in his life unless she's in mine about 4 mons After our Separationi met and fell in love with someone after my son was born my babymothers was alwaing me to see my child she even met my girlfriend so she could know who our son would be around thing were going good for about a few mons this was was he was born my sons about to be 3 now and in the last 2 yrs ive only seen him 3 times my baby's mother got a restraining order on me so I didn't fight it I let her get it I don't mind not talking to or seeing her I just want to have a relationship with my son but she won't Allow it unless she's there Which puts me in a bad situation.
I was hospitalized a yrs ago on life support for 3mons I went paralyze from the head down I'm barely getting back to my usual self
I really need to know what I can do no ones went to court yet and were both on the brith certificate I don't want to fight or make things hard for my son all I want is for him to be happy, After all it's about what's best for him. Today's Father's Day she let him call me he wanted to come over she said no that she don't trust me to bring him back but I would never do that to my son I know how much he loves her please I need some help I don't need her in my life I would just like to get a restraining order partial custody and visitation of my child without any trouble from my baby's mother some one help me out.
Anonymous Coward
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06/17/2013 04:14 AM
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Re: Partial custody Visitation and restraining order
take her to court. you will get to see the child
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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06/17/2013 04:27 AM
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Even with a restraing order thank you for your help
LaniJane

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06/17/2013 04:32 AM
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Please don't think me callous, why did the baby momma get a restraining order against you?
"There are nights when the wolves are silent and only the moon howls." ~
George Carlin
Kelley_girl

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06/17/2013 04:35 AM

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take her to court. you will get to see the child
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Anonymous Coward
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06/17/2013 04:42 AM
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sounds like we a a woman beater up in here...possibly a pedophile
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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06/17/2013 04:44 AM
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Because she's said that if I'm not going to be there as a family then I can't be there at all the restraining Order is so that If she want to put me in jail again she can you know like if I don't do want she say when she says it she's kind of controlling I didn't do anything to get it but she did send cops to my home saying I called her and told her I had a gun that I would shot her I didn't fight it because staying away from her I best for myself and my son
elavatorshifter

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06/17/2013 04:44 AM
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Are You RH-?
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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06/17/2013 04:52 AM
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What is an Rh
And no I didn't put my hand on her or any other women my mother raised me better then that
Look I'm only about to be 23 all I was looking for was help I don't believe in hitting a women I've seen my own mother go Through that
I wants ready for a kid but no one ever is I love my son and he loves me I would just like to have him in my life as well understand
Anonymous Coward
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06/17/2013 04:57 AM
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Did you get caught fondling the child?
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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06/17/2013 05:05 AM
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Smh again I haven't done anything to not be able to see my child be leave his mother
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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06/17/2013 05:09 AM
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I don't even talk bad about she to him she just got married I even respect the man he's good to my son and loves him Which I'm thankful for I can't say the same about her feeling about my Fiancé that's been rite there for myself and my son you see my baby's mother doesn't like the fact that my son has a soon to be step mom
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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06/17/2013 05:12 AM
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I mean is there really something wrong with me having our son apart of my life like I let her have her family with our son I think not
elavatorshifter

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06/17/2013 05:17 AM
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RH Negative Blood Type-

You seem very concerned. Far from someone I would think would be abusing their child. But, that you mention it I surmise that you feel maybe someone is. If you are RH negative-they most likely are-you are powerless to do stop it. And the mother is powerless to. She is being mind controlled and will most likely have a completely different experience or recall nothing. Why u are not involved is they are traumatizing you also. Thank your off world Draco controllers that seeded you and it is all part of the process they use to make their half dominant (demonize you Both-to achieve total control). You are a Hybrid but you have no clue.

OR

Your just being railroaded like every other white dude out there-its about equality.

OR

She is probably a vamp and her coven is feeding on you--meditate--and cast a circle to reverse the curse.


unfortunately in all of these scenarios your hosed for now. But in a few years you will end up King of The Hill... I hope.


I dont really know honestly but shes a bitch either way and her essence is flawed-dont tell me the new boyfriend is a Mason.
elavatorshifter

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06/17/2013 05:23 AM
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You worry about you and know that in this entire Universe. The Universal Law applies. What goes around comes around. Your reactions to this will ultimately define you.

Consider the Dung Beetle---

and be patient and wait for Rebirth.

I sincerely feel for you. Her essence is flawed. But understand that is your son and NOTHING can change that. Distance and Time are only another illusion. If u are RH- you can communicate with him anytime and he will know.
elavatorshifter

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06/17/2013 05:23 AM
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Sorry if I killed your thread.
Anonymous Coward
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06/17/2013 05:29 AM
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Please don't think me callous, why did the baby momma get a restraining order against you?
 Quoting: LaniJane



in my experience its because women are lying bitches who believe they own the child



i like the way the man gets tarnished as a wife beater and peado.



my ex got a non molestation order against me because she claimed I pointed my finger at her in agressive manner. Added to my weird behaviour of growing my own food and refusing to have my son given the MMR my son was taken from me without evening being told there was a court hearing.


3 years later I am still fighting in court, bankrupt, £150,000 in costs and next month I lose my house


and the western world wonders why fathers are absent?
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06/17/2013 05:30 AM
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Please don't think me callous, why did the baby momma get a restraining order against you?
 Quoting: LaniJane



in my experience its because women are lying bitches who believe they own the child



i like the way the man gets tarnished as a wife beater and peado.



my ex got a non molestation order against me because she claimed I pointed my finger at her in agressive manner. Added to my weird behaviour of growing my own food and refusing to have my son given the MMR my son was taken from me without evening being told there was a court hearing.


3 years later I am still fighting in court, bankrupt, £150,000 in costs and next month I lose my house


and the western world wonders why fathers are absent?
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however I have just spent 4 days with him ... so ask me if it was worth it?
Anonymous Coward
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06/17/2013 05:35 AM
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Sounds like a'nuther wanabe 23.yr old gangstah.. "went paralyze from the head down I'm barely getting back to my usual self.." be needin all them Obama bucks, but can't be doin all that wif partial custody.

'yo-Yo.. where's my 10 bux bitch..'?
Anonymous Coward
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06/17/2013 06:12 AM
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God bless you if you are sincere. Get a lawyer. They don't listen to noncustodial parents who don't take it to the next level. They have all dealt too many times with bs talking deadbeat dads who don't care about their kids but just want to hurt their ex. You don't sound like that kind of man but you have to get this into the court system and let your presence be known.
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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06/17/2013 12:32 PM
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Okay thanks for the help and no I'm not in a gang I got the Nasal spray vaccine and ended up with GBS look it up my body Attacked itself Beating the outer layer of my nerves my body Shut down completely I'm lucky to be here
By the way it Says I scratched her on the restraining order smh really
Anonymous Coward
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06/17/2013 01:01 PM
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it is easy to get a restraining order so dont sweat that. but that can not stop you from seeing the child.like I said you need to take it to the courts they will give you some sort of visitation.
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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06/17/2013 01:09 PM
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Thank you This truly is very much appreciated
Anonymous Coward
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06/17/2013 01:17 PM
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and you must get in and do it as soon as possible
Anonymous Coward
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06/17/2013 01:23 PM
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Maybe if you would actually learn how to write the English language, rather than semi-retarded gibberish, you might have a better chance.
Anonymous Coward
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06/17/2013 05:26 PM
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Haha yeah okay thanks I'm getting on it now
(Sorry but I'm not asking for your negative comments)
Anonymous Coward
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06/17/2013 06:16 PM
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This is how it works in America,you just need to make shit up and get a restraining order. I got one against my wife,she is a addict and would show up where I live with my kids and then call the cops and lie to them trying to get me arrested. I went to court and they said that my statement wasn't strong enough of a reason so they told me to make something up.

Sorry to say this OP but write off your relationship with your kid unless you are willing to live in a world of shit because of the mother.

Your best move to to hire a Lawyer and only communicate with your ex through him/her.

She will poison your child against you but if you can document it,you can win a case against her for parental alienation.
Anonymous Coward
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06/17/2013 07:23 PM
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Thank you sounds like her move making things up lol thanks for the help
Anonymous Coward
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06/17/2013 07:35 PM
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Lawyer up boy
Anonymous Coward
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06/17/2013 10:39 PM
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Thanks





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