glp help needed. ebay is acting like a bunch of morans!

So last week I'm bidding on two items from the same seller.

I ask if he would take $40 for both and he agrees. The bid on one item was $10 the other $5. He said just send the other $25 to his paypal account.

I said eBay will throw a fit if we take any part of this outside of eBay. But in the future, I'd buy items directly through paypal. And told him to add $25 to the shipping on the invoice.

I get an account warning saying my account was part of a deal to take the transaction off eBay.

So I call (the Philippines of course) and the lady reads my message where I said eBay will throw a fit if we take any part of this outside of eBay.

I said can you read that again, obviously if I said eBay would throw a fit I didn't attempt to take it out of eBay.

She goes on to tell me because I said future transactions. And that if an item is $50 they get 10% but if shipping is $25 they don't get anything. At this point I'm thinking well since you guys have hit my shipping for a final value fee for the last year or two, you guys probably owe me $1,000!

I said once I make a business relationship you guys aren't entitled to any fees.

She says well no worries it was just a warning. Isn't a warning the first step in action being taken against you?

Especially if these retards mix something else up, I've already been given a warning.

I also told them I didn't appreciate eBay giving my phone number to a "trading partner" a couple weeks ago and still hadn't heard back about that.