First, sorry about flipping you off in the other thread. But I'm not a skank as you called me. I have an older brother who bless his heart has always thought with his penis and not his brain. He is a loving father to his son and endured years of crap from his ex. The sad thing was, after my parents retired, and raised their kids, they spent countless weekends traveling back and forth out of town, to help him out.

I myself was young when I married a man with kids and it turned out to be disastrous. It took a few years to get over it. I'm now happily with someone. We don't have kids and I think the whole situation just made me too afraid to have any. Oh well, such is life sometimes. Anyway, best of luck to you.