In other words, you don't trust your gf and you're insecure. She should have told the guy that she'd ask you first to see if it was OK with you. Not a "permission" kind of thing, just out of respect. Imo.
Quoting: AnonymousGirl This very scenario happened to me. It wasnt that i didnt trust my gf, i didnt trust the guy. And you never should. You are not a guy so you have no idea the male psyche. They want to plant their seed as many times with as many girls as possible. And some girls are just whores who put out that non whorey exterior but deep down they will take any cock they can balls deep and still carry on with the bf like nothing is wrong, and they do that but current bf is usually financially secure. They dont want to fuck that up. And therfor will lie cheat and steal to keep that atm bf completely oblivious to any indiscrections.
So if that's the case, no man should ever be trusted since all they want to do is "plant their seed as many times with as many girls as possible"? Why have gfs/wives then? If that's how you are, since you're a guy, why did you have a gf?
And yep, some women are trashy, just like some men. It goes both ways.
Why are so many GLP men with women who can't support themselves financially? This isn't 1950.
my wifes extremely spiritual and trustworthy. Like I said I know what most guys are like.
Let me tell you a short story here..
My older brother was fairly successful.. good job, married the high school sweetheart etc had a kid, house, white picket fence the whole she-bang. His wife was a stay at home mom for like the first 10 years of the kids life..
We all lived together for awhile and were heavy into playing some online mmo eq2. Its like wow etc but anyways.. In this game I was trying to hook up with this married girl in our guild. My brothers wife was good friends with her in the game and kept in touch out of game as well.. So I made it pretty clear I had a huge crush on this girl who was married to another guy in the guild, and I said if I ever had the chance to meet her I would fuck her silly. My brothers wife got all pissed off and started spouting off shit like she was dead set against it. She was dead set against the online flirty stuff too and mentioned to me she thought it was still cheating.
So fast forward 5 years.. (nothing became of that girl and myself, she did divorce her husband but a few years after we stopped talking I met my current wife). Anyways, my brothers wife ( who was dead set against any kind of flirty behaviour) began an online fling with some guy in another game called WoW. Now I had no idea nor did I care as I wasn't living with them anymore, but it turned out she drove 5 hours, the guy drove 5 hrs, they met in Niagra,ON and she took his cock deep inside her. Multiple times... And is currently still married to and semi living with my brother who is a fucking cash cow.. 100k/ year.. works long hours but I digress.
So you see, through my life experience and what has just happened to my brother after 10 years of marriage, women, cannot be trusted.. It was the exact same situation as this OP.. driving to meet a guy friend etc... Although hes going to visit her, I don't know if they will be alone or what.. The point is, No matter what a women says or does, deep down they are conniving and deceitful. Not all of them.. But a high percentage of them I wouldn't give the time a day because you can pick out the whores and cheaters fairly easily.. They are usually superficial, materialistic and good actors/liars. Being an empath myself, (developed after my attempts to bang some other guys wife) I can pick out good and bad people just by being within 5 feet of them. Or by engaging them in close proximity conversation and dialogue.
So from this information, and to answer your question as to why I have a gf/wife; you have learned my wife is a spiritual person/empath, I am spiritual and psychic empath and we a slightly different than most people. We are not flawless by any means.. but we are in a relationship where true love is present.. As corny as that might sound, and as rare as it might actually be, it is the truth as to why I am with her.
She moved 14,000 miles to be with me when I made minimum wage. I supported her for 5 years while she never worked. Now she makes 80k a year and asked me to quit my job to take care of the home and basically cater to her needs. And I willingly do so with a smile and intent of pure love in my heart for her. We both struggle with issues of negative actions ( me more so than her), but we are just humans living in a physical prison world, trying to survive.
I dont know why, but I become rather negative when Im on this site. But I do find it entertaining, although it is detrimental to my spiritual growth. I think I'm here to possibly remind people sometimes who and what they are which has nothing to do with this thread.. Its just that if you searched my post history you would not see me as spiritual.. and probably think Im just some asshole lol. Its because I have a short temper and no patience for some topics and just sometimes spew out some foul shit lol.. Anyways, just rambling here for the sake of rambling..
I think the ultimate point though was that this world is pretty fucked up. Most guys I know who are living in ego comepletely absent of any spiritual truth or wisdom and (95%) of these guys I know, would fuck anything just to fuck it. Thats why I stand by my original statement; its not that I didn't trust her, I don't trust 95% of the guys out there not to force themselves on her.. And as flawed humans, its too easy to make that one mistake in the heat of the moment, then regret it the rest of your life. So in an attempt to avoid that situation, I don't trust any of her guy friends and she knows exactly why.
I'll give you another example.. my wife works in an office (I.T etc) she has such an outgoing personality but naive to the very factoid of info I'm trying to explain to you, that all/most guys want to do is fuck them senseless.. She kept telling me this black guy was trying to get to know her, trying to take her for lunch and shit or go for a movie etc, and he knowingly knew she had a husband).. She thought it was all harmless till I said and explained exactly what I just did here.. So she avoided him and told me about 4 weeks after she snubbed him off, he fucked 3 girls in the office.. all married women... all women who go home to a loving trustworthy husband each and every night and lie straight to their faces about their vowed monogamy by way of contractual marriage.
I hope this explains my point of view..
