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Anonymous Coward User ID: 16499015 United States 06/25/2013 10:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I told her no, and she says he is an old high school friend who is just visiting as a friend. Would you trust that. If I say no way, she will think im jealous and controlling, If I let it happen the guy will keep trying to push his way into her life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 42136497 I wouldn't let some random girl I knew drive 2+ hours to visit me, I wont let some dickhead do the same to my girl. Voice your feelings on the matter and if she writes it off then take a SERIOUS look at your relationship. It always starts out small and ends up with you walking in while shes fucking him. |
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Thee Bob User ID: 28707337 Canada 06/25/2013 01:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I told her no, and she says he is an old high school friend who is just visiting as a friend. Would you trust that. If I say no way, she will think im jealous and controlling, If I let it happen the guy will keep trying to push his way into her life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 42136497 Can you say cuckold? In a Time of Universal Deceit, Telling the Truth is a Revolutionary Act - George Orwell Rachel Maddow is HOT!!! - Seriously I'd hit it. A VOTE FOR JUSTIN TRUDEAU IN 2015, WOULD BE THE MOST COWARDLY & IRRESPONSIBLE THING A CANADIAN CITIZEN COULD DO TO THEIR OWN PEOPLE. GUN GRABBERS ARE THE COMMON ENEMY OF ALL PEOPLE. GUN CONTROL HAS RESULTED IN THE SLAUGHTER OF 262 MILLION CITIZENS BY THEIR GOVERNMENTS OVER THE PAST 100 YEARS. THE LIBERAL PARTY OF CANADA & THE NDP ENDORSE GUN CONTROL, AN ESSENTIAL POLICY OF HITLER, STALIN, MAO, POL POT, EDI AMIN, QADDAFI, SADDAM, ASSAD, & EVERY OTHER TYRANNICAL GOVERNMENT THIS PAST CENTURY. CANADIANS MUST NEVER FORGET THE BETRAYAL OF BILLS C-68 & C-17. WE MUST NOT REST UNTIL THEY ARE FULLY REPEALED. C-19 WAS A GOOD START......BUT JUST A START. GET OFF YOUR COLLECTIVE ASSES AND MAKE AN IMPACT. WE HAVE 26 MONTHS. I, THEE BOB, SWEAR ON THE ALTER OF GOD TO FIGHT ALL FORMS OF CANADIAN TYRANNY AND SAVE MY COUNTRY FROM THE EVILS OF THE NEW WORLD ORDER. I WILL NEVER HAND IN MY GUNS. EVER. I AM A FREE MAN, I WILL NOT BE THE BITCH OF THE SOCIALIST ESTABLISHMENT. LEAVE ME ALONE. |
Thee Bob User ID: 28707337 Canada 06/25/2013 01:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So where did asshole OP go? This is a troll thread so don't waste any more time........ Quoting: Anonymous Coward 42195694 He is being cucked right now :african: In a Time of Universal Deceit, Telling the Truth is a Revolutionary Act - George Orwell Rachel Maddow is HOT!!! - Seriously I'd hit it. A VOTE FOR JUSTIN TRUDEAU IN 2015, WOULD BE THE MOST COWARDLY & IRRESPONSIBLE THING A CANADIAN CITIZEN COULD DO TO THEIR OWN PEOPLE. GUN GRABBERS ARE THE COMMON ENEMY OF ALL PEOPLE. GUN CONTROL HAS RESULTED IN THE SLAUGHTER OF 262 MILLION CITIZENS BY THEIR GOVERNMENTS OVER THE PAST 100 YEARS. THE LIBERAL PARTY OF CANADA & THE NDP ENDORSE GUN CONTROL, AN ESSENTIAL POLICY OF HITLER, STALIN, MAO, POL POT, EDI AMIN, QADDAFI, SADDAM, ASSAD, & EVERY OTHER TYRANNICAL GOVERNMENT THIS PAST CENTURY. CANADIANS MUST NEVER FORGET THE BETRAYAL OF BILLS C-68 & C-17. WE MUST NOT REST UNTIL THEY ARE FULLY REPEALED. C-19 WAS A GOOD START......BUT JUST A START. GET OFF YOUR COLLECTIVE ASSES AND MAKE AN IMPACT. WE HAVE 26 MONTHS. I, THEE BOB, SWEAR ON THE ALTER OF GOD TO FIGHT ALL FORMS OF CANADIAN TYRANNY AND SAVE MY COUNTRY FROM THE EVILS OF THE NEW WORLD ORDER. I WILL NEVER HAND IN MY GUNS. EVER. I AM A FREE MAN, I WILL NOT BE THE BITCH OF THE SOCIALIST ESTABLISHMENT. LEAVE ME ALONE. |
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Thee Bob User ID: 28707337 Canada 06/25/2013 01:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 4 hours roundtrip......hes so backed up he could shampoo a buffalo Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20521358 I guarantee the "Male Friend" is a 6' 6" :african: In a Time of Universal Deceit, Telling the Truth is a Revolutionary Act - George Orwell Rachel Maddow is HOT!!! - Seriously I'd hit it. A VOTE FOR JUSTIN TRUDEAU IN 2015, WOULD BE THE MOST COWARDLY & IRRESPONSIBLE THING A CANADIAN CITIZEN COULD DO TO THEIR OWN PEOPLE. GUN GRABBERS ARE THE COMMON ENEMY OF ALL PEOPLE. GUN CONTROL HAS RESULTED IN THE SLAUGHTER OF 262 MILLION CITIZENS BY THEIR GOVERNMENTS OVER THE PAST 100 YEARS. THE LIBERAL PARTY OF CANADA & THE NDP ENDORSE GUN CONTROL, AN ESSENTIAL POLICY OF HITLER, STALIN, MAO, POL POT, EDI AMIN, QADDAFI, SADDAM, ASSAD, & EVERY OTHER TYRANNICAL GOVERNMENT THIS PAST CENTURY. CANADIANS MUST NEVER FORGET THE BETRAYAL OF BILLS C-68 & C-17. WE MUST NOT REST UNTIL THEY ARE FULLY REPEALED. C-19 WAS A GOOD START......BUT JUST A START. GET OFF YOUR COLLECTIVE ASSES AND MAKE AN IMPACT. WE HAVE 26 MONTHS. I, THEE BOB, SWEAR ON THE ALTER OF GOD TO FIGHT ALL FORMS OF CANADIAN TYRANNY AND SAVE MY COUNTRY FROM THE EVILS OF THE NEW WORLD ORDER. I WILL NEVER HAND IN MY GUNS. EVER. I AM A FREE MAN, I WILL NOT BE THE BITCH OF THE SOCIALIST ESTABLISHMENT. LEAVE ME ALONE. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 31754688 Canada 06/25/2013 01:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31754688 In my opinion, as an adult, you either have character or you don't. Call me a prude or a snob, judgmental whatever, but I don't think a person with morals or character would try to get with a married person. To me, it says a whole lot about a person's inner core, and I really don't believe that can be changed. As for being naive, wouldn't I be naive to believe everything you just wrote? That most men are out to have sex with as many women as possible except you because now you've become an "empath" and fight your urges? If you trusted your woman you wouldn't be worried about "95%" of guys. As nasty as I know women can be, if I am in a relationship with a man, then I trust him and I am not the least bit worried about other women. If I was worried, I wouldn't be in the relationship because it'd be a sign that I really don't trust him. Saying you trust your wife but not the men around her is an attempt to disguise distrust. That's my take on it anyway. I do concur about what your saying but when I did attempt to get with another mans wife it was a few years before my spiritual awakening. Back then I was one of the 95% of males I'm talking about. As gay as this will come across to the 95%ers, when you truly awaken spiritually, you are drawing in more female energy.. You're still balancing male ego with female energy and you just change.. Everything changes about how you think, morals, ethics etc everything changes and becomes more aligned and centered. Its hard to explain but I'm sure there are other males out there who have gone through this.. "As for being naive" I'm not trying to prove anything to anyone just trying to relay my experiences. Im 34 now and had my awakening at 27. Prior to age 27 though I was just like every guy out there, and trust me, all they wanna do is screw girls. Its why I don't trust most males around my wife. Because I know males who are not spiritually awake, will have no morals or ethics and not care who they hurt.. all they care about is getting their dick wet. Unbeknownst to the majority of women, most are just naive to this fact as you clearly demonstrate in your lack of understanding regarding the male-ego driven psyche. "If you trusted your woman you wouldn't be worried about "95%" of guys" I've just witnessed a lot of shit in my life. I've seen the most sweetest and naive women have men force themselves on them, and they do nothing.. But you can see the awkwardness of the situation.. As bad as this short story will sound I have to relay it to prove my point. A friend of mine about 15 years ago was a bit of a crazy fucker.. known as a somewhat fighter/tough guy etc.. I would not want to mess with him because he would take a baseball bat and bludgeon my head in.. How do I know this? At the time he was just out of prison on a 2 year sentence for bashing some poor clerks head in during an armed robbery. So fast forward two years the guys out on probation/curfew stuff etc so we drank at his house a lot. A few girls game over so there was me, this nutcase, 2 girls and one other guy we barely knew. Well, this crazy fuck, (an alcoholic btw) (and we were in our early 20's...) So it was later in the night, we were all really drunk, and right in front of us all this guy started feeling one of the girls up agressively.. He was practically forcing himself on her and she did nothing but you could tell she was uncomfortable and wanted to leave but she sat/lay there practically let the guy finger bang her in front of us while her other girl friend was past out right beside her. To me, this guy represents the 95% of males. He is an extreme case and if he wasn't a complete whack job we would have stopped it from happening but we didn't. She never said no once to the guy.. but when he turned away she would mouth lip something like "help me"... So I did my best to somewhat end the party by forcing her to give me a ride home.. and believe me she was jumping up off that couch to leave.. but this is what I mean by naive.. Women don't know what some assholes are like and are capable of. It wasn't rape, but it was damn close imo. I never talked to or hung out with that guy again after that night but it was an eye opener for sure to see something like that take place and thankfully it didn't go on for very long before I could tell I had to do something. See women are weird.. For fear of losing friends or a friend, they may not stop the guy from advancing on her, even though she does not want it. Or maybe you could explain to me why that happened the way it did. I've seen other instances of similar things where a guy will force himself on a shy girl and she does nothing but let it happen. But you can see the awkwardness.. Hell this reminds me of another story.. WE were at this bush party, and this ugly motherfucker no one liked was hitting on this hot girl no one really knew.. And There must of been 50 or 60 people at this thing.. so It wasn't like it was obvious what was going on but this douche bag keep advancing on this one girl, grabbing her ass and tits, and kissing her.. And I noticed it because she was hot, and he was a fkn loser lol.. So she sees me see it happening and Im kind of shaking my head, so she comes over and stands beside me and whispers in my ear "help me"... She was in fear I could see it.. So When the fkn douche bag came by to pull his shit again, I said she was my cousin and told the guy he was 10 seconds from being knocked out cold on the ground if he didn't leave.. he did... But weird eh, how the girl wouldnt stand up for herself... |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 11217819 United States 06/25/2013 02:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I told her no, and she says he is an old high school friend who is just visiting as a friend. Would you trust that. If I say no way, she will think im jealous and controlling, If I let it happen the guy will keep trying to push his way into her life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 42136497 She clearly has no respect for you. That is fucked up. I sometimes think I am the last female on the planet who has not 'reconnected' with old hs male friends out of respect for my husband. Sure it would be fun to see some of them, if I was single, but not at the risk of making him sad or jealous... you don't do that to someone you love. No excuses. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 10735520 United States 06/25/2013 03:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I told her no, and she says he is an old high school friend who is just visiting as a friend. Would you trust that. If I say no way, she will think im jealous and controlling, If I let it happen the guy will keep trying to push his way into her life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 42136497 She clearly has no respect for you. That is fucked up. I sometimes think I am the last female on the planet who has not 'reconnected' with old hs male friends out of respect for my husband. Sure it would be fun to see some of them, if I was single, but not at the risk of making him sad or jealous... you don't do that to someone you love. No excuses. I'm the same as is my boyfriend. Neither of us would do that to each other. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 31903012 United States 06/25/2013 03:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I told her no, and she says he is an old high school friend who is just visiting as a friend. Would you trust that. If I say no way, she will think im jealous and controlling, If I let it happen the guy will keep trying to push his way into her life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 42136497 She clearly has no respect for you. That is fucked up. I sometimes think I am the last female on the planet who has not 'reconnected' with old hs male friends out of respect for my husband. Sure it would be fun to see some of them, if I was single, but not at the risk of making him sad or jealous... you don't do that to someone you love. No excuses. I'm the same as is my boyfriend. Neither of us would do that to each other. Good to hear someone else feels the same. Society is just one big clusterfuck of do whatever makes you feel good, despite how the person you claim to care about most feels. Even if the guy has no intentions of booming up with this chic, he is violating bro code. You know there must be very few qualilty single women out there when guys drive 2 hours to see girls that are already taken. Sign of the times I guess. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 31903012 United States 06/25/2013 03:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Of course he is. Men won't drive 2 hours to say "Hi!, How's life? It's great to see you." Regardless of what a lot of the women here say...there is only one thing on a man's mind 24/7/365. Men's balls do not take a break just because "You're his friend." He might pretend you're his friend so then he can hear your woahs and complaints about your life...then shmooze in and offer solutions...most of them ending with you mounted on his tool. You always say it just right |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 41358488 Canada 06/25/2013 03:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I told her no, and she says he is an old high school friend who is just visiting as a friend. Would you trust that. If I say no way, she will think im jealous and controlling, If I let it happen the guy will keep trying to push his way into her life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 42136497 She clearly has no respect for you. That is fucked up. I sometimes think I am the last female on the planet who has not 'reconnected' with old hs male friends out of respect for my husband. Sure it would be fun to see some of them, if I was single, but not at the risk of making him sad or jealous... you don't do that to someone you love. No excuses. I'm the same as is my boyfriend. Neither of us would do that to each other. Good to hear someone else feels the same. Society is just one big clusterfuck of do whatever makes you feel good, despite how the person you claim to care about most feels. Even if the guy has no intentions of booming up with this chic, he is violating bro code. You know there must be very few qualilty single women out there when guys drive 2 hours to see girls that are already taken. Sign of the times I guess. How do we even know the "bro" even knew about the bf? For all we know, OP's gf didn't even bother to tell this guy. The person committed to OP is the gf, not her friend. If this were the other way around, I guarantee the gf would not "allow" it. Fault lies with the gf. She should have just told this guy no from the start. What's the point in visiting now? If they were such good friends in the past, they'd still be friends to this day...Oh wait! I forgot, men and women can't be friends. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 41358488 Canada 06/25/2013 03:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10735520 I'm the same as is my boyfriend. Neither of us would do that to each other. Good to hear someone else feels the same. Society is just one big clusterfuck of do whatever makes you feel good, despite how the person you claim to care about most feels. Even if the guy has no intentions of booming up with this chic, he is violating bro code. You know there must be very few qualilty single women out there when guys drive 2 hours to see girls that are already taken. Sign of the times I guess. How do we even know the "bro" even knew about the bf? For all we know, OP's gf didn't even bother to tell this guy. Fault lies with the gf. She should have just told this guy no from the start. What's the point in visiting now? If they were such good friends in the past, they'd still be friends to this day...Oh wait! I forgot, men and women can't be friends. He want's to turn her into a twinky. The guy sounds desperate. Although the other poster above is probably right, I've probably just fallen for another fake thread offering my two cents! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 41358488 Canada 06/25/2013 03:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: AnonymousGirl How do we even know the "bro" even knew about the bf? For all we know, OP's gf didn't even bother to tell this guy. Fault lies with the gf. She should have just told this guy no from the start. What's the point in visiting now? If they were such good friends in the past, they'd still be friends to this day...Oh wait! I forgot, men and women can't be friends. He want's to turn her into a twinky. The guy sounds desperate. Although the other poster above is probably right, I've probably just fallen for another fake thread offering my two cents! Yeah well. Sometimes the troll threads can be interesting. They're where I always end up. Real news/conspiracies give me a headache. |
SevenThunders User ID: 15851599 United States 06/25/2013 03:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had an ex-girlfriend who rarely made friends with other women. Most of her friends were guys and I suspect she banged all of them at one time or another and just liked the attention having them around gave her. It's a kind of ego validation for some women. I actually got along with one or two of her coterie, but it's awkward at best. Just tell your girlfriend that no hetero just wants to be friends and that it makes you uncomfortable. Then let the guy come over but watch him like a hawk. With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible |
sunroomking User ID: 6233274 United States 06/25/2013 03:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I told her no, and she says he is an old high school friend who is just visiting as a friend. Would you trust that. If I say no way, she will think im jealous and controlling, If I let it happen the guy will keep trying to push his way into her life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 42136497 Here you go.....from a man with 50 years experience. No one drives 2 hours each way without somebody giving up some ass. Period. If she knows it is bothering you (obviously she does) and she does it anyways, she is going to fuck him. Even if she swears up and down that she wont and "nothing is going to happen I promise" she will fuck him or at least blow him. Then she will beg for forgiveness OR tell you its over. If she is bound and determined to do this, tell her to fuck off. Shes leaving you anyways, and if YOU dump HER you will feel better about it. Plenty of fish in the sea for sure. Buy Gold Buy Silver Buy Ammo have Faith. I carry a gun because it is my 2nd ammendment right, and a cop is too heavy. No good deed goes unpunished |
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sunroomking User ID: 6233274 United States 06/26/2013 09:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I told her no, and she says he is an old high school friend who is just visiting as a friend. Would you trust that. If I say no way, she will think im jealous and controlling, If I let it happen the guy will keep trying to push his way into her life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 42136497 Here you go.....from a man with 50 years experience. No one drives 2 hours each way without somebody giving up some ass. Period. If she knows it is bothering you (obviously she does) and she does it anyways, she is going to fuck him. Even if she swears up and down that she wont and "nothing is going to happen I promise" she will fuck him or at least blow him. Then she will beg for forgiveness OR tell you its over. If she is bound and determined to do this, tell her to fuck off. Shes leaving you anyways, and if YOU dump HER you will feel better about it. Plenty of fish in the sea for sure. Buy Gold Buy Silver Buy Ammo have Faith. I carry a gun because it is my 2nd ammendment right, and a cop is too heavy. No good deed goes unpunished |