Complaintards

THEY COMPLAIN...

BECAUSE...

THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO LOVE THEIR BROTHER...

IF THEY DID...

WHAT WOULD THERE BE TO COMPLAIN ABOUT???

OR, THEY ARE FOLLOWING THEIR FATHER...

SATAN!!!

THE SUPREME COMPLAINER IN ALL HISTORY!!!

personally I don't give anybody the time of day to upset so I complain about them. I don't understand people sometimes, but who am to judge or complain. Let's all focus on ourselves and quit caring about what others do.
If everyone minded their own business and tried to improve themselves, we would be much better off. Along with acceptance of God and Jesus as is Son.

Interesting - so you wouldn't complain if you had an accident that meant most of what you had hoped for was no longer possible - not being antagonistic - just asking - yeah it's one thing to refrain from broadcasting an ongoing commentary of complaints to the world - that is pitiful - but I mean you wouldn't complain in your mind?

I have thought it would be great to have a site like "porn" for those who need to vent. You could pay to complain to a real person and save all your friends and family the "pain" of hearing you gripe about your life.

I think you just described an overwhelming majority of codependent attention seekers that pollute this site. I've seen four threads about relationship problems today, which is about five more than there ought to be. Have people always assumed that their problems are the center of our universe? Honestly, I'm really asking. Have people always been this way, or is this a new phenomenon in human existence?

You need to watch that outside your own ego and experience in order to understand it.
Some people are dominators, either physically or mentally, some are just vague and distante.
Those you speak about are the victims.

All them are trying the same thing. To draw attention and energy to them.

IF YOU DO LOVE YOU BROTHER...

NOT IN YOUR LOVE...

BUT IN "THE TRUTH"!!!

WHAT WOULD HAPPEN???

THE SPACE YOU OCCUPY IS ABSOLUTE...

OR PREDICTABLE...

MY MIND WOULD NOT REGESTER TO COMPLAINT...

BUT SOLVE TO THE RESULT...

OR WORK TO FINISH THE WORK!!!

COMPLAINING DOES NOT DO THIS...

COMPLAINING SUBSITITES THE WORK FOR THE COMPLAINT...

OR, ENDS IN TIME THAT IS WASTED!!!

I have a friend that suits your description to a tee, complete with Fran Dresher whine. Sometimes I have the patience to suck it up and listen and sometimes I tell to her to get a grip.

She's not happy unless she's complaining about something. We all complain at least once in a while but damn! I had another friend who would call me almost as soon as I walked in the door from work. She would blather on about how her new truck wasn't ready yet and she couldn't take her furs out of storage meanwhile I barely had enough cash to get a bus pass.

This is the same friend who asked me to help her move, there will be a bunch of people! she said. I was the only one that showed up and she hadn't even packed anything, I spent an hour and a half just pulling her bike trailor out of her backyard, I'm such a putz sometimes.

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SCIENCE DOES NOT...

AND CANNOT SOLVE FOR "THE TRUTH"!!!

WHICH IS ABSOLUTE...

THE BEST SCIENCE CAN HOPE FOR IS A TRUTH!!!

AND THIS IS HOW WE HAVE BEEN TOUGHT...

THIS IS IN FACT SLAVERY...

THAT IS DESIGNED TO TAKE OUR POWER AND AUTHORITY AWAY FROM US...

SHOULD WE BELIEVE...

AND WE DO BELIEVE THIS LIE...

WE ARE SLAVES...

WE ARE POWERLESS...

SO, WE COMPLAIN!!!

IT IS THE DRAGON SWOLLOWING IT'S OWN TAIL...

COMMON SYMBOL FOR SATAN...

I WONDER WHY???

NO I DON'T!!!

I KNOW WHY...

HE IS THE MASTER OF THE COMPLAINT!!!

I don't know, complaintard. Enlighten us.

all i know is
dont say " stop Bitching"
say "stop complaining"

it sends em in a nose dive,
cause they cant cry about the word "Bitch"

then i end it with a "fuck you"

So let me see if I get this right - when people who are fully mobile and financially comfy and well travelled whine to those who are semi house bound and living on the edge of poverty - they are trying to draw attention or energy to themselves?

It's what I'm beginning to gather - just that there is something over all pitiful about a person doing this.

It's one thing to occasionally share a vent session with a friend who has a similar severity of circumstances but a continual woe's me tale to the less fortunate - yeah -

So how would you or others suggest dealing with these attention seekers?

Ok so...what does complaining about "complaintards" make you OP?

During these years of wandering in the wilderness, Moses' patience was continually tested by the murmurings, grumblings, and complaints of the people. At one point, Moses' patience reached its breaking point and he sinned against the Lord, in anger against the people. When the people again grumbled against Moses, saying they had no water, the Lord told Moses to speak to the rock and water would flow forth. Instead, Moses lifted his hand and struck the rock twice with his rod. Apparently because he disobeyed the Lord in this act, Moses was not permitted to enter the Promised Land (Num. 20:1-13). That privilege would belong to his successor, Joshua.


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5I just ask this myself

Very interesting.

You sound like a sibling more than a parent. It explains why your seed is unhappy.

While I can understand those who complain once in while when encountering problem, chronic complainers who can work on their problem but choose whining instead, are (emotional) energy vampires. They seek pity attention/energy, that's why it's draining to be around such energy sucking pity seekers. While I don't mind supplying energy to those really suffering in bed or disability, I have learn to refuse to give pity to those who can help themselves but won't because it;s like wasting energy into a black-hole. It's much different from giving help/energy/attention to those who also strive to help themselves, it's empowering and it feel very good seeing they succeed in their small steps.

Many time, I have told those chronic complainers that those living in Africa, facing war, torture, mass rape and hunger, are much much more pitiful then these ungrateful complainers who can still eat three times a day, breath easily, have a cozy home to live and finance to support their lifestyle. But from my experience, telling the chronic complainers about suffering people in Africa, won't change their focus on their self concocted pitiful self. It's like they wake up for awhile realizing what I said about Africa was right, but then went back to sleep again and return back to the habit of seeing themselves as "I am the most pitiful people in this world". All about these kind of people is constant focus on I, I, I, my this, my that. Sometimes, when I look into their eyes, I was wondering these people might have been demon possessed because they are not responding to common sense reasoning. So far, I don't think I have any way to exorcise the demon if they want their demons to stay.

Complaintard is'nt a word! thanks alot, my whole day is ruined!! my favorite is the people, the slightest injury, out of the ordinary and they say, I have to go to the doctor, I need medicine, every or the slightest, and I have to go to the doctor, I think they have a medicine for that!!!!

Some people are selfish - bed bug friend just called me to complain some more about it

I have trouble getting out to do necessary stuff cause of chronic pain

Yeah some have it worse than me

Thing is I've had enough of listening to her complain about relatively small problems that she can solve

I'm permanently physically injured - for crying out loud

When she can see I'm in pain she asks in this kinda condescending tone - aren't there any little exercises you can do for that

God forgive me cause I really think this is the limit of my patience with her

I can no longer enjoy her company

She said she has such a difficult set of issies

Inn an effort to get thru I said mobility stuff
is a big challenge

no real response from her


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A lot of people live to complain. It is all they do and sfa will make then happy.

BS, people complain because they ain't got nothing else to do in their lives. They're fucking bored with themselves. They need to have their own asses kicked and forced to get out and live! Damn, people get a life! Fuck worrying about things you can't change.

I think they should stop adding tards to everything

OK Stoptard!

There's nothing wrong for not wanting disaster coming into your doorstep. Everyone including you, need a healthy boundary. To have a healthy boundary, sometime you need to be assertive. Perhaps you can tell her jokingly, "if you want to come, please bring some good news. Please don't keep telling your problem because it aggravate my chronic pain". If she still has some honor in her, she'll respect your term or boundary that her complains aggravate your chronic pain. But if she's just using you for her emotional dumpster, she'll use manipulative guilt inflicting response to make you feel guilty such as, "I am already so dreadful you can't even tolerate it?", to which you may response more assertively "Sorry, my pain is real, I don't want you to add more pain by your complain.". Remind yourself you deserve your own peace and happiness too that you can't let yourself just be emotional dumpster doormat which obviously won't make you happy. If she still keep being pushy and you really don't want her to be around but don't want to offend her, then tell her "Please don't come now. I need time to be alone now. Maybe next time".