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Why are nice people treated like crap?

 
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Why are nice people treated like crap?
You do good deeds for people and are always there to help, yet those people that you do the good deeds for, also have people who treat them like absolute shit and yet they seem to be much better thought of.
What the hell is wrong with people?
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
People operate in three separate worlds (universes actually) each with their own rules and currencies.


Biological, Social, Intellectual...........

Social is all about conformity, niceness, repricocity etc.......


But that's all water off a ducks back to the biological world - it simply doesn't notice them - it's all about 'threat level' sex, food, territory, diminance etc etc - ie your typical gangster hoodie ghetto mentality.

Intellectual..................jeeze a great many people simply don't even register on the scale - but ethics, truth, fairness etc.
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07/22/2013 08:27 AM
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
Story of my life. You know it's true, do you really want an answer? You have Givers and Takers. They are attracted to one another. We are not that far removed from being animals or barbarians. With only a few exceptions, we are all basically selfish and look after ourselves first, myself included.

The worst of the lot see nice people as being easily manipulated and use them without conscious. Nice people are nice, not stupid. When they realize they are being used, then they harden their hearts just a little more.

Nice people serve a purpose higher than their own that they don't understand. It is my believe that they are more easily reached and guided by a higher power. You don't know His purpose. Maybe it is for when the selfish person comes before Him in the final judgement and they start complaining about their life. Then He will bring into account the things that He tried to do for them and will show how they reacted, by taking advantage instead of being grateful and thanking Him.

Sorry for bringing you-know-who into this 'cause I know how some folks on GLP resent that.

This world is not ruled by goodness, that is for the life to come. Try to hang in there and don't give up. Try to continue to be nice, you never know when you might reach the right person and change their lives. It's OK to have limits. Only a Saint can give, give, give and ignore how they are used. I hope you are a Saint.

Just remember the basic rule: No good deed goes unpunished!
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
Because this is Satan's planet and he rules here. WE made him king when we fell at Eden. And just about everyone today is in allegiance with him. Good people wither while evil people prosper.

Unless we overthrow Satan and make Jesus our king we will keep enduring this mess.

But you idiots do not even believe in Jesus or Satan. So you can never understand why things are so fucked up.
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I'm going through this as well, OP. It is so frustrating to have lived life being kind and helpful and then seeing jerks get ahead and never paying for their rude behavior.

Jerks can spot a nice person the way wild animals can spot the weak member of their prey herd. Too many people in life are takers and users.

After giving it some thought, I have decided that I do not want to change into some bitter, suspicious person. Instead, I no longer run repeatedly to help those who don't deserve it. My new way of thinking is that if you are having genuine problems and need emotional support, I am there for you. If you allow constant drama in your life and just want to use me as a sounding board while you vent and then do nothing to solve or mitigate your problems, that is not fair to me and I am not available.

This may lead to an awkward conversation with the jerk user about why you aren't there for them anymore but I am at the point in my life where I would rather make an ingrate momentarily uncomfortable than waste my life on those who don't really care about me.
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
Resistile evolution
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
Because this is Satan's planet and he rules here. WE made him king when we fell at Eden. And just about everyone today is in allegiance with him. Good people wither while evil people prosper.

Unless we overthrow Satan and make Jesus our king we will keep enduring this mess.

But you idiots do not even believe in Jesus or Satan. So you can never understand why things are so fucked up.
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hmm
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
Sad truth is nice people aren't respected. In this world to get respect on a deep, primal level you need to be aggressive.
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
Nice people are treated like crap, that's very true.
I would much rather be treated like crap on occasion, than be selfish and ungiving. A small act of kindness can go a very long way.
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07/22/2013 08:39 AM
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
Sad truth is nice people aren't respected. In this world to get respect on a deep, primal level you need to be aggressive.
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Yeah, you gotta learn to be an asshole.
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
The real question OP is would you rather be alone, be insecure, cope with it, or search for genuine people.
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
You do good deeds for people and are always there to help, yet those people that you do the good deeds for, also have people who treat them like absolute shit and yet they seem to be much better thought of.
What the hell is wrong with people?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16766028


Because the spirit of the world (evil) is against the spirit of righteousness/love, just take a look around you.

Labour not in vain, give your life to Jesus Christ and be a "soldier" for the truth, and you will not only be rewarded greatly in the kingdom of heaven but what's more you will have joy and freedom in your life!
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
Sad truth is nice people aren't respected. In this world to get respect on a deep, primal level you need to be aggressive.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15075800


Yeah, you gotta learn to be an asshole.
 Quoting: The Creature From Jekyll Is. 43841264


Been there, felt the same but opposite.
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07/22/2013 08:43 AM
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
You are talking about THIS world

nuff said
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
You gotta learn to be versatile. Be an asshole when you gotta be one, be nice when you think it'll be more beneficial.

There's a difference between being just nice and nice plus firm. If you're just nice, then yes, it may be seen as a sign of ''tree-hugger'' weakness and people are going to take advantage of that.

You can't just have one mode towards everyone. Won't work.
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
Sad truth is nice people aren't respected. In this world to get respect on a deep, primal level you need to be aggressive.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15075800


Yeah, you gotta learn to be an asshole.
 Quoting: The Creature From Jekyll Is. 43841264


^^^^
THIS
I am not very good at being one so I get taken advantage of quiet often,especially by the people I really care about.
But in the overall picture I would rather be me than an uncaring,selfish person.
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
I'm going through this as well, OP. It is so frustrating to have lived life being kind and helpful and then seeing jerks get ahead and never paying for their rude behavior.

Jerks can spot a nice person the way wild animals can spot the weak member of their prey herd. Too many people in life are takers and users.

After giving it some thought, I have decided that I do not want to change into some bitter, suspicious person. Instead, I no longer run repeatedly to help those who don't deserve it. My new way of thinking is that if you are having genuine problems and need emotional support, I am there for you. If you allow constant drama in your life and just want to use me as a sounding board while you vent and then do nothing to solve or mitigate your problems, that is not fair to me and I am not available.

This may lead to an awkward conversation with the jerk user about why you aren't there for them anymore but I am at the point in my life where I would rather make an ingrate momentarily uncomfortable than waste my life on those who don't really care about me.
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clappa So true!!
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
Kindness is often mistaken for weakness............
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
Because this is Satan's planet and he rules here. WE made him king when we fell at Eden. And just about everyone today is in allegiance with him. Good people wither while evil people prosper.

Unless we overthrow Satan and make Jesus our king we will keep enduring this mess.

But you idiots do not even believe in Jesus or Satan. So you can never understand why things are so fucked up.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14565013


clappa
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
Kindness is often mistaken for weakness............
 Quoting: GT500


clappa
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
Kindness is often mistaken for weakness............
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I've heard this also and I replied. To remain thoughtful and kind after being fucked over takes great strength.
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
From experiencing this type of situation in spades from a "friend" I sought answers. After being bit by this vampire leech and spending a number of years sucking out the venom I came to the realization that these types of folk resent goodness and heart because they don't have any themselves and therefore feel diminished in their own self reflection. It hurts them to see the truth about themselves and therefore you become the scapegoat for them.
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
"be nice until it's time to stop being nice"

~Roadhouse

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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
Kindness is often mistaken for weakness............
 Quoting: GT500


I've heard this also and I replied. To remain thoughtful and kind after being fucked over takes great strength.
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This is the call of the " high road"
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
Sad truth is nice people aren't respected. In this world to get respect on a deep, primal level you need to be aggressive.
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Fear =/= Respect
“The last refuge of the insomniac is a sense of superiority to the sleeping world.”
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lol
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this is what you do when it's time to stop being nice lol

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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
because nice people will accept it. I know because i am one. Do nice things for others, be shat upon by others. No good deed goes unpunished.
Guilty: is what our graves will read, no year no family. We did nothing, to stop the murder of people just like us..
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
Sad truth is nice people aren't respected. In this world to get respect on a deep, primal level you need to be aggressive.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15075800


Yeah, you gotta learn to be an asshole.
 Quoting: The Creature From Jekyll Is. 43841264


^^^^
THIS
I am not very good at being one so I get taken advantage of quiet often,especially by the people I really care about.
But in the overall picture I would rather be me than an uncaring,selfish person.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 43844381


All you are doing is keeping the real assholes away.

They soon learn to stay away from you, as they give up easy, and the decent people are still around for you to enjoy.
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Re: Why are nice people treated like crap?
Well. Well. Seems to be quite popular as of late, no?

I believe it. Kindness is sometimes mistaken for weakness by manipulators and users. But, guess what? In my life, when God says enough, I hear him. I don't stay mad - just cut it off with love.

Then, on to the next.

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