Why did your wife turn into a fat bitch?

Ok, well, I doubt anyone gives a shit about your sorry situation.

Doesn't change a thing that i have pointed out. If you are a selfish lover/quick finish and don't take care of your woman, she's not going to be satisfied.

If your job sucks and you don't have any money, or are in debt for one reason or another, she will see you as a loser.

You either have it or you don't. You're better off stepping back and letting the real men take over.

Because I stopped communicating and became a tuned out, quiet, brooding chest beating man. When she couldn't break down the wall, trying desperately to find some way of carrying on, she in turn became harsh and judging, drowning her sorrows in unhealthy choices. She became a bitch when I CHOSE NOT to be a good man.

Repair those relationships. Look at your own actions if if you want to have a wife that looks at hers.

I also didn't lift her up, and SHOW her how much I cared and loved her. I let her wonder why our relationship wasn't working, knowing full well I was digging in my heels by being an unresponsive partner. She got more bitter, I dug in my heels more, resisting the urge to heal wounds in our relationship. We both did things that encouraged bad blood between us. I should have been more honest with myself, I should have realized MY part in that I was being a passive aggressive, dishonest partner.

Dear God. The Horror.

I am glad I'm single relationships complicate things so much.

The one thing we havent agreed on is the Pre-nup. I have mentioned it three times or so and shes shocked.
I started a business in 2005 and have made a good living. I have a lot to lose. Shes an RN so she makes money as well but I have a lot more saved up invested, I just bought a brand new porsche last year.

All my friends tell me your crazy if you dont get one. The good thing is my business is 100% protected.

said the 'man' from Taiwan.

I started working on being a better person, although it was too late for us. I have regrets that I didn't have compassion for her, compassion and insight for the relationship. Men, you can be tough, but not tough on the woman you love.

The Brits I've met, without exception, are fags of the highest (or should I say, lowest) order.

Spineless, bad breath and bad teeth, generally. Uneducated in the most profound sense of the word.

I normally wouldn't waste the keystrokes, but your sheer cowardice rankles. Go ahead and be the keyboard warrior you are and don't run the risk of a real-time three dimensional ass-kicking which would be yours were we ever to meet.

You will never be other than the person you are.

Quite frankly, how do you have time for all that reflection and still prevail in a tough world.

I'm smelling the scent of a sensitive male here.

BETA

We agree here, See how little female respect the white knight gets? Any guys who don't know this already, listen up!

A guy like me, women can bitch about me, but I have what I have. It's not negotiable. I don't go talking about improving myself. I do what I do. I like to think some of that (what I am moved to do) comes from God, and I'm unlikely to improve enough in an earthly sense to do better than that, so it's not worth bothering. Seriously.

I am mature enough to know that I don't have to go on repeating dating behavior forever. That's done, now there are many more things to do in life. When she's in her more lucid moments, my wife realizes it too.

The answer is simple and none of you are going to like it... well, unless you're smart enough/resolved enough to understand and accept it.


She turned into a fatass bitch because she doesn't want to be with you anymore. Maybe you spewed your seed into her and strapped her down with a thankless 24 hour, 18 year job known as a 'child'. Maybe you didn't, maybe you're just married, and she (for whatever societal, brainwashed reason) believes that marriage is til death do you part. Even though she literally hates you, it's a "sin" to hate you and it's a "sin" to leave you. So in addition to it being a "sin" to even admit to herself how she feels, it's DEFINITELY a "sin" to do anything about it, much less be honest with you.


She feels trapped. She feels like her life is ruined (and if she has your kid, it probably is). She feels bitter and sad because deep inside she knows that you took the best of her life, the best of her body, and she has literally nothing to show for it besides some sniveling brats, as well as a scarred up physical and emotional body. Just to save my fingers from having to type it all out, let's not even get into ALL the other reasons why she doesn't like you anymore, or why you don't please her anymore... and just rest assured, there's a whole lot more icing for that cake.


Why did your husband turn into a fat fucking slob? Because he feels trapped with you. He feels like his life is over, so why even give a fuck anymore? You two are married, you said it was til death... he has practically nothing to live for anymore. He knows it subconsciously, even if he can't admit it to himself because of whatever flavor of brainwashing he's afflicted with.


Whose fault is all this? It's society's fault. It's the controlling construct of order that was forced upon humanity. By who? Fuck, does it even matter anymore? Not really. You were brainwashed, your neighbor was brainwashed, and you're going to brainwash your children and the vicious cycle will continue.


Spouses will continue to blame each other, even though the real problem is the notion that anything is forever, especially relationships between humans. Your children will see you fight and squabble because you're in mental and emotional hell as a result of your trappings, and they'll grow up to be just like your sorry, controlled ass.


Free yourselves and know the truth.

The answer is simple and none of you are going to like it... well, unless you're smart enough/resolved enough to understand and accept it.


She turned into a fatass bitch because she doesn't want to be with you anymore. Maybe you spewed your seed into her and strapped her down with a thankless 24 hour, 18 year job known as a 'child'. Maybe you didn't, maybe you're just married, and she (for whatever societal, brainwashed reason) believes that marriage is til death do you part. Even though she literally hates you, it's a "sin" to hate you and it's a "sin" to leave you. So in addition to it being a "sin" to even admit to herself how she feels, it's DEFINITELY a "sin" to do anything about it, much less be honest with you.


She feels trapped. She feels like her life is ruined (and if she has your kid, it probably is). She feels bitter and sad because deep inside she knows that you took the best of her life, the best of her body, and she has literally nothing to show for it besides some sniveling brats, as well as a scarred up physical and emotional body. Just to save my fingers from having to type it all out, let's not even get into ALL the other reasons why she doesn't like you anymore, or why you don't please her anymore... and just rest assured, there's a whole lot more icing for that cake.


Why did your husband turn into a fat fucking slob? Because he feels trapped with you. He feels like his life is over, so why even give a fuck anymore? You two are married, you said it was til death... he has practically nothing to live for anymore. He knows it subconsciously, even if he can't admit it to himself because of whatever flavor of brainwashing he's afflicted with.


Whose fault is all this? It's society's fault. It's the controlling construct of order that was forced upon humanity. By who? Fuck, does it even matter anymore? Not really. You were brainwashed, your neighbor was brainwashed, and you're going to brainwash your children and the vicious cycle will continue.


Spouses will continue to blame each other, even though the real problem is the notion that anything is forever, especially relationships between humans. Your children will see you fight and squabble because you're in mental and emotional hell as a result of your trappings, and they'll grow up to be just like your sorry, controlled ass.


Free yourselves and know the truth.

yes I agree with you. Most these days don't even attempt to think outside the box.


As far as the whole terrible marriage part, what is the alternative?

Is there an alternative? And I don't mean living your entire week just to go out on the weekends, drink your face off and spend all your money chasing petty super shallow sluts that think they're hot shit because their parents blessed them with good looks.

Now that gets really old and I still have friends that do that and I'm in my early 30's. It's quite sad actually

best thread evah!

I also didn't lift her up, and SHOW her how much I cared and loved her. I let her wonder why our relationship wasn't working, knowing full well I was digging in my heels by being an unresponsive partner. She got more bitter, I dug in my heels more, resisting the urge to heal wounds in our relationship. We both did things that encouraged bad blood between us. I should have been more honest with myself, I should have realized MY part in that I was being a passive aggressive, dishonest partner.

And let me just be clear...


It's human nature to NOT want to be alone. It's human nature to want to love, and be loved.


Relationships are fine. But they are bettered 1000% by both people understanding the REALITY of life... of interpersonal relationships... of humans and how they change and want different things as their lives goes by. Relationships are better when they're between people who understand that nothing lasts forever, that's the way of things. It's better when both people understand the temporary nature of the flame that happens when two people first fall in love. It's better when we understand OURSELVES, and we inform the people we're close to about WHO WE ARE. It's better when we don't just BLINDLY follow societal 'standards' and traditions. It's better we know what we're REALLY engaging in, and when we allow ourselves to understand where it will lead.

If you have to have a prenup-you have the wrong woman!

Except for rape it takes two people to have sex, maybe she should have used birth control or keeping her pants zipped if she didn't want to live the rest of her life pitying herself with those "sniveling brats". And maybe she's just a fat bitch because she's lazy and fat, doesn't mean she's doing it to get back at her husband, or maybe you're one of those self important "fat bitches".

We'll all find the right one...

Just getting rid of the third wife.
Looking for my fourth ex wife...

The answer is simple and none of you are going to like it... well, unless you're smart enough/resolved enough to understand and accept it.


She turned into a fatass bitch because she doesn't want to be with you anymore. Maybe you spewed your seed into her and strapped her down with a thankless 24 hour, 18 year job known as a 'child'. Maybe you didn't, maybe you're just married, and she (for whatever societal, brainwashed reason) believes that marriage is til death do you part. Even though she literally hates you, it's a "sin" to hate you and it's a "sin" to leave you. So in addition to it being a "sin" to even admit to herself how she feels, it's DEFINITELY a "sin" to do anything about it, much less be honest with you.


She feels trapped. She feels like her life is ruined (and if she has your kid, it probably is). She feels bitter and sad because deep inside she knows that you took the best of her life, the best of her body, and she has literally nothing to show for it besides some sniveling brats, as well as a scarred up physical and emotional body. Just to save my fingers from having to type it all out, let's not even get into ALL the other reasons why she doesn't like you anymore, or why you don't please her anymore... and just rest assured, there's a whole lot more icing for that cake.


Why did your husband turn into a fat fucking slob? Because he feels trapped with you. He feels like his life is over, so why even give a fuck anymore? You two are married, you said it was til death... he has practically nothing to live for anymore. He knows it subconsciously, even if he can't admit it to himself because of whatever flavor of brainwashing he's afflicted with.


Whose fault is all this? It's society's fault. It's the controlling construct of order that was forced upon humanity. By who? Fuck, does it even matter anymore? Not really. You were brainwashed, your neighbor was brainwashed, and you're going to brainwash your children and the vicious cycle will continue.


Spouses will continue to blame each other, even though the real problem is the notion that anything is forever, especially relationships between humans. Your children will see you fight and squabble because you're in mental and emotional hell as a result of your trappings, and they'll grow up to be just like your sorry, controlled ass.


Free yourselves and know the truth.