Women, are you embarrassed of what has become of our gender?

Embarrassed? No. Embarrassment denotes a foul-up I've made... and I personally think I do rather well.

Times have changed since the 1800s... things have been introduced into the societal consciousness that cannot be taken back. I am born in this time, and as a result, I am exactly the way I am meant to be, here and now. I use profanity and 'idle words' all the time. It's 'unladylike' and I do it anyway. I indulge in specific masculinities at times, because I can. It's within me. It's a part of me. We all came from the sperm and the egg... it took two. It took a male, it took a female. Therefore, we possess traits of both. I see nothing wrong with embracing this, at times.

But I also know that a woman's place is to care for her home/mate/family. Women should be the comforters and the nurturers ... it's what they do best. Women should keep themselves as pure as possible (while still maintaining their own individual levels of personal experience, within reason and sound mind) so that they can adequately provide care for their men, and the others who need their nurturing qualities.

The rest of my thoughts on the matter will tie in with my answer to the inquiry below:




Life is hard. It always has been, it always will be. In this day and age, gender roles are completely askew, the degradation pushed constantly by popular culture, media, etc. People (women and men alike) are confused. They may not realize that it's normal to be sad sometimes, and it's normal to be upbeat and energetic (what they like to refer to as 'manic') sometimes. Unseen forces in this area of the universe we live in has huge affect on our moods and energy levels. Because it's unseen, because it's not as pervasive as 'Keeping up with the Kardashians' or 'Jersey Shore' ... people simply don't know about it. They don't know that mood swings caused by magnetics, solar energy, and the very workings of the earth itself, are normal occurrences. Because they're weak-minded as a result of their ignorance and misinformation, they don't even think of these things as possibilities. Instead, they look to 'doctors' for answers, they look to their fellow misinformed, misguided, lost people for answers ... and they end up getting degrading, useless, red-herring "treatment" for all their ails.

People are lost. They were never given an inkling of the truth, and many never come upon it naturally ... so they're left to their own devices, having only other confused individuals to turn to.

I am home with children every day. I don't date because men are just too much trouble.

I support myself and my children without help from any man or the government.

I never used anyone, nor was I ever a party girl.

LMAO it is pretty ridiculous, and unfortunately, they're EVERYWHERE!!

Very well said!

agreed and in turn it is a reflection of MEN, too.

We are all in this together and there is a SERIOUS shortage of decent men.... look at all the comments here and justification of porn. I see these men as week sheeple for such.

I am a guy who opted out of falling into the man-whore womanizing Modus operandi that society told me I should partake in.
I live simply and sparsely and free from the trappings of what I am told to do because it is the way of the world.
People, not just women, look at me like some kind of weird new-ager and that is fine.

Why did I do it? Because the M.O of what I was told to pursue was destroying my very soul, it was a heavy burden, I wasn't myself anymore.
The pursuit of the White Picket House dream, going into extreme debt over college, getting married and *trying* to make it work, having kids, a new car every year, when all around me the same guys I grew up with were being destroyed spiritually.
They had all those things for but a short time, then the housing crash happened and they had nothing.
The materialistic magic carpet fell from the sky.

People are still trying to pursue it, the material pearl in the sky. It is worship of self in all forms.
Facebook, the hive mind of girls all duck-facing and never being original, just worship of self.
No deviation, no creativity, the same heart pose with the hands just like Taylor Swift does.
The boys are no better off. They shun true masculinity, they prop up false and hollow gods, their favorite rapper, singer, Bieber, they shave their chests abolishing what makes them truly male.

Programming that on the crust says love yourself and only yourself, while the filling is truly saying, destroy yourself, abolish your individuality.

It is about abolishing the individual. It is orchestrated.

I'm not embarrassed, I'm saddened.

And I don't think the responsibility rests with women alone, but rather that entire generations of parents have failed their children.

I am the Mother of a teen boy. It is absolutely MY responsibility to pattern for him what a "woman" should be. It is my & my Husband's job to demonstrate a healthy, loving, imperfect marriage. It is OUR responsibility to demand that he respect others.

We have to have honest conversations with our children. Sex is amazing-when it's part of a loving, committed relationship. Men & women complete one another, we have different strengths & weaknesses, you have to respect those differences because they provide balance.

Women, if your tired of seeing young women think looking/acting like a "slut" is cool- look at yourselves first. Don't giggle like a school girl if someone calls you a "MILF". Don't joke around about "cougars". Don't leave the Victoria's Secret laying around the house for your teen boy.

Men- don't want your daughters dressing like whores- be aware of how you treat your wife. Tell your daughter she can't wear the makeup, not because she's too young or you don't want her to; because her beauty comes from within. Tell her why you don't want her wearing short shorts with "PINK" emblazoned on the butt. "Because it demeans you as a person & young men will not respect you".

As an adult, I am perfectly comfortable being naughty with my Hubs, and want him to think I'm totally hot! But, that's in the privacy of our bedroom. Outside of those doors, I want him to respect me, value me, and to be his trusted partner. Kids will never learn what is not taught them.

Sometimes one needs to just live . . . stop analyzing everything . . . you cannot change much of it even if you devoted your whole life to changing things . . . love those around you, few are able to shake up the entire world . . . choosing a life partner and giving of yourself has been the only constant in enjoying life in the last 4,000 years . . .

Yes, don't judge.

Don't judge the primates who are murdering our senior citizens, don't judge White trash who live like garbage, don't judge deadbeat dads, don't judge women if they behave like infantile fools, don't judge sodomites who want to be "married," don't judge.

Not "judging" is a huge part of why America is doomed.

See women, here's a very decent, intelligent, sincere man.

And you'd probably call him a slacker because he's not "manning up" to the role you want him in.

Good for him. Though maybe he can find a way to reproduce safely in this society or another.

Respect is great. In a better world it would be all we need.

Do you give your son real-world useful advice for the stage he must next to through, that of the single man who's too young to be taken seriously by many girls, as they slut their best years away?

Oddly, we do judge some of those categories.

We do judge "white trash" more harshly than non-white.
We do judge "deadbeat dads" extremely harshly, even to the point of their own death, when they cannot pay more than they have and they should be treated much better on that and visitation.

We don't judge women harshly enough.
We practically worship the LGBTQ crowd these days, at least in terms of legal preferences.

Most women are. I think it is genetical. I know my girlfriend is. I'm 190cm, she is 159cm.

Here is some reading from men and women here on the forum in this thread i made some weeks back. Enjoy!
Thread: Short women like tall and big men?

Last Edited by Kalles Kaviar on 08/25/2013 04:04 PM

Much behavior is encouraged or directed by genetically determined preferences and social conditioning . . . the physical appearance of a potential mate certainly falls within this arena of behavior . . . however, I believe love transcends these forces . . . it is what separates sentient beings from those controlled simply be instinct . . .

But love can come in many different ways. Love from first sight, or love that grows over time. But a first impression is always a first impression. And then it is looks, and looks only.

I don't disagree but think people use intuition and their entire set of senses as well . . .

As a male it is very refreshing to see some self-critical females who don't blame everything on men.

Men, too, have lost touch with what it means to be a man...a topic well covered on the internet.

We live in a time of decadence and ethical decay, and it is effecting both sexes. Plus, most people are just stupid, and its always been that way.

Much respect to the men and women who still strive to be their natural, strong, healthy selves, as intented by the Divine.

THANK YOU!! A voice of sanity at last. Couldn't have said it better.

My husband and I pretty much have to stay away from society to sustain the type of relationship we have. We are young but traditional. He makes the money, I make the home.

The only friends we have are family.

We have learned, that you just cannot trust much of our generation. The men and women just do not have any morals. We also find it hard to really hold an intellectual conversation with just about any woman now a days. Yes, we both find it easier to hold intellectual conversations with men. . . for some reason.

We have lived the complete opposite life before we were married and it just about destroyed the both of us.
You can't go out anymore bc women just throw themselves at men. The way they dress is intentionally to get mens attention, whether it is their husbands/boyfriends/or not. It just disgusts me. Everything about society is disturbing.

Lol i can't stop laughing at that video omfg

WRONG.

I dated a guy who was 5'3" and I am 5'9". His height was not an issue. His lack of confidence due to his height was the issue. He was hard to have a conversation with and I could tell he was afraid to be himself. After a few months of giving him a chance, I gave up.

The truth is most women don't even care as long as you are confident. My current boyfriend is only .5 inch taller than me and guess what, I don't care!

That's not true. My boyfriend is far from "rough and rowdy"... if anything, he keeps me grounded. Opposites certainly do attract and no person, male or female, should be required to fit a certain image based on what sex they are. You seem to want everyone to fit YOUR image of what YOU think is right - at least the females anyways. For today's males, of course you have some excuse for them. Why don't you spend more time living your own life instead of criticizing young girls whose lives have nothing to do with you.

You should be asking why doctors are giving out medication like it's Candy.

GLASD TO HEAR IT- you can see through the matrix

This x100!

Why would any woman post vs her own kind? Well idit glp men .melrox is not a woman b ut a glp disinformation agent wake U P .

Melrox is a man

Absolutely true what you say. In particular almost every male under 5'10" is completely available because no women are dating them. Any time a woman wants a bf that is all she has to do, simple as that, just go for a short guy.

Does Melrox here or on any of the other threads sound like a woman? And you all fell for it you stupid stupid males