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veracious common sense User ID: 45456478 Canada 08/26/2013 05:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I thought this one was a keeper. Quoting: Diluted Then, well, I find out she's 22, I'm 30, and she's had 15 sexual partners. A little too much for my blood for that age. Yet she seemed like a sweet little southern girl. Then, well, this guy keeps texting her. It's her ex. No big deal - then she says I promise I didn't sleep with him when I went to NYC on Vacation and stayed at his house. I said it's really not that big of a deal let's finish breaking bad and go to bed, I gotta drive back to my city in the morning and go to work. Then she pulls out this "list" on her phone of everyone she sleeps with, and says "See? His name isn't on the list!" But the name "Shaquan XXXX" was. I quickly did a FB search, and bam. Shaquan XXXX has one mutual friend, my (now ex) GF. I grabbed all my shit and left. am I horrible person? Nah. I don't think so. you do what you feel is right. hopefully is does not involve hurting someone or forcefully abusing them , in any way..ie telling them what to do...lol "we must make the world honest before we can honestly say to the children that honesty is the best policy! " George Bernard Shaw. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 45702204 France 08/26/2013 05:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think OP did well Quoting: Expat 45702204 If your GF keep a list of her EXs and tell you some obvious BS about " no, its a co worker" or something, its time to go. When I was thirty I'd have said Opie did well. And maybe in France is say Opie did well. But American girls today are chaotic. Their culture is not their friend. It leads them down this path. Opie dated the easy girl for a reason. She was easy. Easy for him to talk to. Easy for him to get with. It's good they live far away. They couldn't jump in. I think it would be OK if they both agreed to drop out of what culture says and be a couple who makes their own rules. No sneaking is a good rule. No shaming is a good rule. I imagine they care about each other. It's a shame to lose that because culture tells girls to do sex to be liked while telling boys to reject girls who do sex. It's like both sides are being played. They are discouraged from being affectionateo and friendly. Their sexuality is manipulated.to be scores and violations. Maybe they should move .to France to give it one more try. Well, i moved from NY to Paris, for my job, and girls are not different from our old US of A |
Diluted (OP) User ID: 39523455 United States 08/26/2013 08:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Good Times, Bad Times, you know I had my share; When my woman left home for a brown eyed man, Well, I still don't seem to care.... PERFECT. THANK YOU! Read my book that discusses everything from the hidden government to ET contact: [link to www.scribd.com] Love to GLP. |
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Diluted (OP) User ID: 39523455 United States 08/26/2013 08:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Opie, if you ever loved this girl you have the option of saying sorry for being a brat and telling her you want to have a nice relationship without lying and drama of she can do that. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1872742 It's not her fault she was raised in a sick culture. She did what nice girls do. She followed the rules. The rules make nice girls exploited misused shallow sex girls. Same rules make boys entitled pompous brats. If your going to be happy you are probably going to step out of the shit culture and make your own rules. If you two love each other, its easer.to obit together. Go on, explain more. Read my book that discusses everything from the hidden government to ET contact: [link to www.scribd.com] Love to GLP. |
Diluted (OP) User ID: 22400384 United States 08/27/2013 10:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Her email to me mentioning GLP: Hey... So I don't really know how I can prove anything to you... I can let you go through my text messages with Shaquan so you know we were just friends. I texted him yesterday about the whole thing, and he wanted to know why he would think that was serious. He has been with Chelsea for years. They live together, and do everything else together. I would never wreck someone else's relationship, I'm not a home wrecker. Neither would I "hook up" with a guy a different color then me. The Bible says not to mix yolk, and I stand by that. You know I'm not super religious but there are quite a few things that I would never do. I do have standards, morals, and I am a good person. I thought you would know that by now, we were together for a couple months, and talked for a long time before that. Ask for the NYC guy - You read the text yourself that said we didn't have sex. You asked straight up, and he answered. He said we would do other things, but he was referring to before. I was in a relationship with him a few years ago, but it was platonic after that. On my vacation we did hold hands, and he kissed me when I left but I still saw him as just a friend. I could go the rest of my life without talking to him if you wanted me too. I was ONLY texting him the other night, because he has been skyping with my little sister and I did not feel comfortable with it at all. I was trying to get him to stop, I had noidea he was going to blow up my phone like that. I have no desire to talk to either one of these guys. I just want to fix things with us. With everything that has happened, I have proven to you that I have not lied about anything else, so why would I start now? I want a man that can love me for who I am, not for who they want me to be. I'm the kind of person that would rather be hated for who I am, then loved for who I am not. If I didn't make you happy, or did not treat you the way you wanted to be treated, or you just didn't like me how you want to. Then that is fine, you can leave, even if I do get hurt by it. But if you are only leaving because of what you were thinking happened, then I think you should reconsider. We were so great together, and had so much fun. We really were like yin and yang, and what one of us would lack the other would excess. Just last week, I was "amazing" and we were getting rings together. Just hours before you left, you told me that you loved me... I'm still the same person, the same girl. I read everything that everyone posted on your Website, I wanted to try and understand. The article was not all true, but you know that. Everyone had different opinions about me, and it was a huge mix of people. Of course I noticed that a lot of the people thought that I was lying about my number. I had no idea that girls lied so much about that, I guess that's what I get for being honest. But I don'twant another number... I would have been happy to keep you... Please tell me if there is anything that I can do to fix this, anything at all to prove it. I don't want you to leave this thinking you wasted your time on me. I meant everything I said, and tried so hard to prove my love. I still love you... Read my book that discusses everything from the hidden government to ET contact: [link to www.scribd.com] Love to GLP. |
Diluted (OP) User ID: 1536770 United States 08/27/2013 10:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Lies or truth? Read my book that discusses everything from the hidden government to ET contact: [link to www.scribd.com] Love to GLP. |
eekers Dreamer of Dreams User ID: 38137469 United States 08/27/2013 10:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I would go with your gut. you know her better than we do, obviously. have you caught her in lies before? can she be trusted? "We shall not cease from exploration, and the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started and know the place for the first time." - T. S. Eliot |
Diluted (OP) User ID: 1536770 United States 08/27/2013 10:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sigh. No lying. Just doesn't make sense. Read my book that discusses everything from the hidden government to ET contact: [link to www.scribd.com] Love to GLP. |
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PhobiaDHS User ID: 24587829 United States 08/27/2013 11:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Op, quit fucking up in spite of yourself and go talk with her. It is quite obvious that she is invested in you. That is rare enough in itself. Hell, most people spend their entire lives trying to find someone like that. The human capacity for self destruction astounds me sometimes. Last Edited by Phobia on 08/27/2013 11:34 AM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 35419375 Estonia 08/27/2013 11:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i think op is idiot and what really shocked me is... his and his GLP buddies racism. I mean wtf is that " i will leave cause u had sex with someone from other race" its really strange to see guys whos avatar is pretty spiritual, think like that. i dont have words really. its probably dumbest thread ive ever seen in GLP. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1823003 United States 08/27/2013 11:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Update: Quoting: Diluted Her email to me mentioning GLP: Hey... So I don't really know how I can prove anything to you... I can let you go through my text messages with Shaquan so you know we were just friends. I texted him yesterday about the whole thing, and he wanted to know why he would think that was serious. He has been with Chelsea for years. They live together, and do everything else together. I would never wreck someone else's relationship, I'm not a home wrecker. Neither would I "hook up" with a guy a different color then me. The Bible says not to mix yolk, and I stand by that. You know I'm not super religious but there are quite a few things that I would never do. I do have standards, morals, and I am a good person. I thought you would know that by now, we were together for a couple months, and talked for a long time before that. Ask for the NYC guy - You read the text yourself that said we didn't have sex. You asked straight up, and he answered. He said we would do other things, but he was referring to before. I was in a relationship with him a few years ago, but it was platonic after that. On my vacation we did hold hands, and he kissed me when I left but I still saw him as just a friend. I could go the rest of my life without talking to him if you wanted me too. I was ONLY texting him the other night, because he has been skyping with my little sister and I did not feel comfortable with it at all. I was trying to get him to stop, I had noidea he was going to blow up my phone like that. I have no desire to talk to either one of these guys. I just want to fix things with us. With everything that has happened, I have proven to you that I have not lied about anything else, so why would I start now? I want a man that can love me for who I am, not for who they want me to be. I'm the kind of person that would rather be hated for who I am, then loved for who I am not. If I didn't make you happy, or did not treat you the way you wanted to be treated, or you just didn't like me how you want to. Then that is fine, you can leave, even if I do get hurt by it. But if you are only leaving because of what you were thinking happened, then I think you should reconsider. We were so great together, and had so much fun. We really were like yin and yang, and what one of us would lack the other would excess. Just last week, I was "amazing" and we were getting rings together. Just hours before you left, you told me that you loved me... I'm still the same person, the same girl. I read everything that everyone posted on your Website, I wanted to try and understand. The article was not all true, but you know that. Everyone had different opinions about me, and it was a huge mix of people. Of course I noticed that a lot of the people thought that I was lying about my number. I had no idea that girls lied so much about that, I guess that's what I get for being honest. But I don'twant another number... I would have been happy to keep you... Please tell me if there is anything that I can do to fix this, anything at all to prove it. I don't want you to leave this thinking you wasted your time on me. I meant everything I said, and tried so hard to prove my love. I still love you... My thoughts, she is hiding something. She also seems very toxic. I would run and not look back. This email to me throws up so many red flags it made me literally sick to my stomach and sounds almost identical to my ex. Anyway just my $.02 |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 45847068 United States 08/27/2013 12:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How to identify if a commenter is Anti-White and is inciting White Genocide: 1) They deny there is such a thing as White People or White countries. 2) They scream about how evil White people are, or blame them for something or other. 3) They justify White Genocide using a thousand different reasons. 4) They demand White Genocide/celebrate it. 5) They say pro White dissidents should not be allowed to speak, because we are "evil." Say if Enlil had force integrated every Jewish community with Africans, And the Anunnaki threatened any Jew who objected with loss of job and HATE speech, And implemented 24/7 anti-Jewish/intermarriage marketing, while suppressing any pro-Jewish speech, How long would it take any SANE Jew not to notice this obvious program of Jewish GENOCIDE? And what kind of psycho Jew wouldn't object to this? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 31677585 Romania 08/27/2013 12:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Update: Quoting: Diluted Her email to me mentioning GLP: Hey... So I don't really know how I can prove anything to you... I can let you go through my text messages with Shaquan so you know we were just friends. I texted him yesterday about the whole thing, and he wanted to know why he would think that was serious. He has been with Chelsea for years. They live together, and do everything else together. I would never wreck someone else's relationship, I'm not a home wrecker. Neither would I "hook up" with a guy a different color then me. The Bible says not to mix yolk, and I stand by that. You know I'm not super religious but there are quite a few things that I would never do. I do have standards, morals, and I am a good person. I thought you would know that by now, we were together for a couple months, and talked for a long time before that. Ask for the NYC guy - You read the text yourself that said we didn't have sex. You asked straight up, and he answered. He said we would do other things, but he was referring to before. I was in a relationship with him a few years ago, but it was platonic after that. On my vacation we did hold hands, and he kissed me when I left but I still saw him as just a friend. I could go the rest of my life without talking to him if you wanted me too. I was ONLY texting him the other night, because he has been skyping with my little sister and I did not feel comfortable with it at all. I was trying to get him to stop, I had noidea he was going to blow up my phone like that. I have no desire to talk to either one of these guys. I just want to fix things with us. With everything that has happened, I have proven to you that I have not lied about anything else, so why would I start now? I want a man that can love me for who I am, not for who they want me to be. I'm the kind of person that would rather be hated for who I am, then loved for who I am not. If I didn't make you happy, or did not treat you the way you wanted to be treated, or you just didn't like me how you want to. Then that is fine, you can leave, even if I do get hurt by it. But if you are only leaving because of what you were thinking happened, then I think you should reconsider. We were so great together, and had so much fun. We really were like yin and yang, and what one of us would lack the other would excess. Just last week, I was "amazing" and we were getting rings together. Just hours before you left, you told me that you loved me... I'm still the same person, the same girl. I read everything that everyone posted on your Website, I wanted to try and understand. The article was not all true, but you know that. Everyone had different opinions about me, and it was a huge mix of people. Of course I noticed that a lot of the people thought that I was lying about my number. I had no idea that girls lied so much about that, I guess that's what I get for being honest. But I don'twant another number... I would have been happy to keep you... Please tell me if there is anything that I can do to fix this, anything at all to prove it. I don't want you to leave this thinking you wasted your time on me. I meant everything I said, and tried so hard to prove my love. I still love you... This sounds so fake! However, whoever wrote that is quite good at manipulating people... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1823003 United States 08/27/2013 12:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If she was walking around holding hands and kissing her NYC ex while she was your girlfriend, she's a dumper. Quoting: New Age Messiah And if she says she was doing that, 99% odds she was doing more. That's the way people lie, a lot of times, that have some conscience, they tell part of the truth. Very much this, also the reason she is trying so hard to "prove" what she says. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 44911719 Guatemala 08/27/2013 12:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Update: Quoting: Diluted Her email to me mentioning GLP: Hey... So I don't really know how I can prove anything to you... I can let you go through my text messages with Shaquan so you know we were just friends. I texted him yesterday about the whole thing, and he wanted to know why he would think that was serious. He has been with Chelsea for years. They live together, and do everything else together. I would never wreck someone else's relationship, I'm not a home wrecker. Neither would I "hook up" with a guy a different color then me. The Bible says not to mix yolk, and I stand by that. You know I'm not super religious but there are quite a few things that I would never do. I do have standards, morals, and I am a good person. I thought you would know that by now, we were together for a couple months, and talked for a long time before that. Ask for the NYC guy - You read the text yourself that said we didn't have sex. You asked straight up, and he answered. He said we would do other things, but he was referring to before. I was in a relationship with him a few years ago, but it was platonic after that. On my vacation we did hold hands, and he kissed me when I left but I still saw him as just a friend. I could go the rest of my life without talking to him if you wanted me too. I was ONLY texting him the other night, because he has been skyping with my little sister and I did not feel comfortable with it at all. I was trying to get him to stop, I had noidea he was going to blow up my phone like that. I have no desire to talk to either one of these guys. I just want to fix things with us. With everything that has happened, I have proven to you that I have not lied about anything else, so why would I start now? I want a man that can love me for who I am, not for who they want me to be. I'm the kind of person that would rather be hated for who I am, then loved for who I am not. If I didn't make you happy, or did not treat you the way you wanted to be treated, or you just didn't like me how you want to. Then that is fine, you can leave, even if I do get hurt by it. But if you are only leaving because of what you were thinking happened, then I think you should reconsider. We were so great together, and had so much fun. We really were like yin and yang, and what one of us would lack the other would excess. Just last week, I was "amazing" and we were getting rings together. Just hours before you left, you told me that you loved me... I'm still the same person, the same girl. I read everything that everyone posted on your Website, I wanted to try and understand. The article was not all true, but you know that. Everyone had different opinions about me, and it was a huge mix of people. Of course I noticed that a lot of the people thought that I was lying about my number. I had no idea that girls lied so much about that, I guess that's what I get for being honest. But I don'twant another number... I would have been happy to keep you... Please tell me if there is anything that I can do to fix this, anything at all to prove it. I don't want you to leave this thinking you wasted your time on me. I meant everything I said, and tried so hard to prove my love. I still love you... This sounds so fake! However, whoever wrote that is quite good at manipulating people... Why would she go to so much trouble to write this in an effort to get back together if she was lying? Surely she knows that all lies will come out over time. If she's lying it will come out in 15 years when they have kids and the family is going to be torn apart. Surely if she did what he thinks, she would know that it was pointless to get back together. OP, do you consider her a manipulating person? Get back together, get pregnant and get you on the hook for 18 years of child support? for revenge? I tend to believe her, but you know her better than any of us. Hint to people: Don't give numbers to your significant others. |
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Diluted (OP) User ID: 1504536 United States 08/27/2013 04:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wtf? Read my book that discusses everything from the hidden government to ET contact: [link to www.scribd.com] Love to GLP. |
Diluted (OP) User ID: 1504536 United States 08/27/2013 04:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I've decided to keep her. So long as we talk it out with a third party. Read my book that discusses everything from the hidden government to ET contact: [link to www.scribd.com] Love to GLP. |
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Diluted (OP) User ID: 39523455 United States 08/27/2013 09:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My friends Ex GF wrote him something similar after she cheated and it turned out she was lieing. The 15 number seems suspicious as well as its a nice rounded number. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8393591 Would you keep in contact with a girl unless you had boned her or were planning on doing her? POINT TAKEN heh Read my book that discusses everything from the hidden government to ET contact: [link to www.scribd.com] Love to GLP. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 32716157 United States 08/27/2013 11:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You should have left her when you figured ourt about the sex partners. Age 22 and 15 sex partners??? I'm 22 and I haven't slept with anyone. You may have an STD OP, because that's. lot of guys. Quoting: CigarTigher Good for you. When you're 40 like me, you won't regret not sleeping around. How does it mean anything when you've slept with 15 people, or even 5? I don't get it. |