I thought this one was a keeper.

Then, well, I find out she's 22, I'm 30, and she's had 15 sexual partners. A little too much for my blood for that age.

Yet she seemed like a sweet little southern girl.

Then, well, this guy keeps texting her. It's her ex. No big deal - then she says I promise I didn't sleep with him when I went to NYC on Vacation and stayed at his house.

I said it's really not that big of a deal let's finish breaking bad and go to bed, I gotta drive back to my city in the morning and go to work.

Then she pulls out this "list" on her phone of everyone she sleeps with, and says "See? His name isn't on the list!"

But the name "Shaquan XXXX" was. I quickly did a FB search, and bam. Shaquan XXXX has one mutual friend, my (now ex) GF.

I grabbed all my shit and left.

am I horrible person?

Nah. I don't think so.


Update:

Her email to me mentioning GLP:


Hey...

So I don't really know how I can prove
anything to you...

I can let you go through my text messages with Shaquan so you know we were just friends. I texted him yesterday about the whole thing, and he wanted to know why he
would think that was serious. He has been
with Chelsea for years. They live together, and do everything else together. I would never
wreck someone else's relationship, I'm not a home wrecker. Neither would I "hook up" with a guy a different color then me. The Bible says not to mix yolk, and I stand by that.

You know I'm not super religious but there are
quite a few things that I would never do. I do have standards, morals, and I am a good
person. I thought you would know that by now, we were together for a couple months, and talked for a long time before that.

Ask for the NYC guy - You read the text yourself that said we didn't have sex. You asked straight up, and he answered. He said
we would do other things, but he was referring to before. I was in a relationship with him a few years ago, but it was platonic after
that. On my vacation we did hold hands, and he kissed me when I left but I still saw him as
just a friend. I could go the rest of my life without talking to him if you wanted me too. I
was ONLY texting him the other night, because he has been skyping with my little sister and I did not feel comfortable with it at
all. I was trying to get him to stop, I had noidea he was going to blow up my phone like
that.

I have no desire to talk to either one of these guys. I just want to fix things with us. With
everything that has happened, I have proven to you that I have not lied about anything else,
so why would I start now? I want a man that can love me for who I am, not for who they
want me to be. I'm the kind of person that would rather be hated for who I am, then
loved for who I am not.

If I didn't make you happy, or did not treat you the way you wanted to be treated, or you just
didn't like me how you want to. Then that is fine, you can leave, even if I do get hurt by it.
But if you are only leaving because of what
you were thinking happened, then I think you should reconsider. We were so great together,
and had so much fun. We really were like yin and yang, and what one of us would lack the
other would excess.

Just last week, I was "amazing" and we were getting rings together. Just hours before you
left, you told me that you loved me... I'm still
the same person, the same girl.

I read everything that everyone posted on your Website, I wanted to try and understand. The article was not all true, but you know that.

Everyone had different opinions about me, and it was a huge mix of people. Of course I
noticed that a lot of the people thought that I was lying about my number. I had no idea
that girls lied so much about that, I guess that's what I get for being honest. But I don'twant another number... I would have been
happy to keep you...

Please tell me if there is anything that I can do
to fix this, anything at all to prove it. I don't want you to leave this thinking you wasted
your time on me. I meant everything I said, and tried so hard to prove my love.

I still love you...