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Anonymous Coward User ID: 23177590 United States 09/14/2013 02:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. This is the OP here. - Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23177590 To any of my friends still following this thread, I have noticed a trend here that I would like to discuss. There is no place to escape to now. There is no sanctuary to hide in like a place in the country or trying to live like the Amish. This coming change is all about YOU. Nothing else. You can't escape it, you can't hide from it, you can't run from it. Every fear, hang-up, fear and doubt will now be tested to it's limits. What is coming is all of your fears in your face. All you can do is to stop searching, stop looking for relief from the suffering of the world and face them head-on. Completely let go.... Only when you completely let go of EVERYTHING: Buying things Wanting things Wanting to escape Wanting to hide Wanting to run Wanting to be someone or somewhere else. Wanting to be wealthy Wanting to live somewhere else. Wanting love, forgiveness, peace You have to no longer "want". No matter what it may be. Just my opinion. Your choice though. Peace Please don't think I'm trying to tell ANYONE how to live their lives. Just my thoughts. Peace Just so you understand. This is NOT about weakness. This is about FINALLY accepting what you need to face like a warrior accepting battle. Without fear, without hate, without doubt, without desire. Just ready to get on with it! |
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SteamrolledGobias User ID: 46787476 United States 09/14/2013 02:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. why is it bad or spiritually slow to aspire towards money? money = control is it bad to want control over life? not exactly the material things, but to an extent yes. if I have an extra $10k I can easily fix a flat tire, maybe buy some new cooking utensils and learn how to bake lasagna? I greatly appreciate OPs message and everyone in agreement but it also seems like there is a lot of bashing against those who might aspire towards power, control over the physical. through money or otherwise... is it really so bad? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 23177590 United States 09/14/2013 02:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. why is it bad or spiritually slow to aspire towards money? Quoting: SteamrolledGobias money = control is it bad to want control over life? not exactly the material things, but to an extent yes. if I have an extra $10k I can easily fix a flat tire, maybe buy some new cooking utensils and learn how to bake lasagna? I greatly appreciate OPs message and everyone in agreement but it also seems like there is a lot of bashing against those who might aspire towards power, control over the physical. through money or otherwise... is it really so bad? I am NOT against money. Money is just a thing. A trading instrument. The issue is about not buying things you don't need. It is about not being thrown off your path by things or by desires. If you need something, like a pair of shoes, buy them. If you need a warm and dry place to sleep, then fine pay for it. If you need a job to pay for these things, then fine, work for them. What I am trying to explain is gluttony in all it's forms. Money never relieves suffering. It can make your life easier, but never better. Peace |
We Who Watch User ID: 43669857 United States 09/14/2013 03:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. Help one person. It can even be your spouse. If you try to help more, often you will be unable to sustain enough energy for yourself and all, but helping one is possible. Try this and see what becomes of your world. 7 Billion people on the planet! That's a BIG number! And I am one. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27855584 United States 09/14/2013 03:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. This is the OP here. - Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23177590 Only when you completely let go of EVERYTHING: Buying things Wanting things Wanting to escape Wanting to hide Wanting to run Wanting to be someone or somewhere else. Wanting to be wealthy Wanting to live somewhere else. Wanting love, forgiveness, peace You have to no longer "want". No matter what it may be. :fact: I agree with this completely. One of many reasons I like Buddhism so much. Stop wanting and just be. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 46805758 United States 09/14/2013 03:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. This is the OP here. - Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23177590 Only when you completely let go of EVERYTHING: Buying things Wanting things Wanting to escape Wanting to hide Wanting to run Wanting to be someone or somewhere else. Wanting to be wealthy Wanting to live somewhere else. Wanting love, forgiveness, peace You have to no longer "want". No matter what it may be. :fact: I agree with this completely. One of many reasons I like Buddhism so much. Stop wanting and just be. rather: "stop wanting, and be free" :) . |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25421984 United States 09/14/2013 03:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. Been out in the world and lived a very colorful life, chasing dreams and following ambitions. None of that matters to me at all anymore. There's really nothing "out there". Been on numerous adventures but now I just like being home and hanging with my boyfriend and daughter. I can't think of one thing that I would like to do or go. I just love reading my Bible. I even stopped kicking hackey sack...and I love to kick. Maybe it's a phase I'm going through. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 43549243 :reeves: you stopped kicking? wtf? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 46805758 United States 09/14/2013 05:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. I agree with this completely. One of many reasons I like Buddhism so much. Stop wanting and just be. Quoting: Pure of Heart Yes, me too. right. Buddhism is just like Stoicism, except The Buddha went one step further. Desire is the basis of all Life Experience. right. and The Buddha said that: Desire + Life Experience = Dukkha. . |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 46805758 United States 09/14/2013 06:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 46805758 right. Buddhism is just like Stoicism, except The Buddha went one step further. Desire is the basis of all Life Experience. right. and The Buddha said that: Desire + Life Experience = Dukkha. . Ralho? reprimand? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 46787779 United States 09/14/2013 06:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. I'm pretty close to that: Quoting: Super Bowl Dave No house (rent a couch). Never buy anything. Work for myself. No TV. No music, except in the car sometimes. No sex. Few friends. Actually, it kinda sucks. :l7k7k8k7: But you have us...your fellow GLP community. We love you Dave...we're all in this matrix together... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 46805758 United States 09/14/2013 06:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. I'm pretty close to that: Quoting: Super Bowl Dave No house (rent a couch). Never buy anything. Work for myself. No TV. No music, except in the car sometimes. No sex. Few friends. Actually, it kinda sucks. :l7k7k8k7: But you have us...your fellow GLP community. We love you Dave...we're all in this matrix together... i've been like that all my life. i guess i was born that way. maybe i'm a real Buddhist? . |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 46750935 United Kingdom 09/15/2013 07:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. This is the OP here. - Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23177590 To any of my friends still following this thread, I have noticed a trend here that I would like to discuss. There is no place to escape to now. There is no sanctuary to hide in like a place in the country or trying to live like the Amish. This coming change is all about YOU. Nothing else. You can't escape it, you can't hide from it, you can't run from it. Every fear, hang-up, fear and doubt will now be tested to it's limits. What is coming is all of your fears in your face. All you can do is to stop searching, stop looking for relief from the suffering of the world and face them head-on. Completely let go.... Only when you completely let go of EVERYTHING: Buying things Wanting things Wanting to escape Wanting to hide Wanting to run Wanting to be someone or somewhere else. Wanting to be wealthy Wanting to live somewhere else. Wanting love, forgiveness, peace You have to no longer "want". No matter what it may be. Just my opinion. Your choice though. Peace I and nearly everyone I know is pratising this now. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 38706893 United States 09/15/2013 10:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. This is the OP here. - Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23177590 To any of my friends still following this thread, I have noticed a trend here that I would like to discuss. There is no place to escape to now. There is no sanctuary to hide in like a place in the country or trying to live like the Amish. This coming change is all about YOU. Nothing else. You can't escape it, you can't hide from it, you can't run from it. Every fear, hang-up, fear and doubt will now be tested to it's limits. What is coming is all of your fears in your face. All you can do is to stop searching, stop looking for relief from the suffering of the world and face them head-on. Completely let go.... Only when you completely let go of EVERYTHING: Buying things Wanting things Wanting to escape Wanting to hide Wanting to run Wanting to be someone or somewhere else. Wanting to be wealthy Wanting to live somewhere else. Wanting love, forgiveness, peace You have to no longer "want". No matter what it may be. Just my opinion. Your choice though. Peace Please don't think I'm trying to tell ANYONE how to live their lives. Just my thoughts. Peace Hard to see how life is worth living when the attractions are no longer appealing. When you no longer "want" anything, isn't life pointless and dull? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 46805758 United States 09/15/2013 10:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. This is the OP here. - Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23177590 To any of my friends still following this thread, I have noticed a trend here that I would like to discuss. There is no place to escape to now. There is no sanctuary to hide in like a place in the country or trying to live like the Amish. This coming change is all about YOU. Nothing else. You can't escape it, you can't hide from it, you can't run from it. Every fear, hang-up, fear and doubt will now be tested to it's limits. What is coming is all of your fears in your face. All you can do is to stop searching, stop looking for relief from the suffering of the world and face them head-on. Completely let go.... Only when you completely let go of EVERYTHING: Buying things Wanting things Wanting to escape Wanting to hide Wanting to run Wanting to be someone or somewhere else. Wanting to be wealthy Wanting to live somewhere else. Wanting love, forgiveness, peace You have to no longer "want". No matter what it may be. Just my opinion. Your choice though. Peace Please don't think I'm trying to tell ANYONE how to live their lives. Just my thoughts. Peace Hard to see how life is worth living when the attractions are no longer appealing. When you no longer "want" anything, isn't life pointless and dull? well, if you believe that you are caught-up in the never-ending cycle of death and re-birth, then there's work to be done. . |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 46805758 United States 09/15/2013 10:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. This is the OP here. - Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23177590 To any of my friends still following this thread, I have noticed a trend here that I would like to discuss. There is no place to escape to now. There is no sanctuary to hide in like a place in the country or trying to live like the Amish. This coming change is all about YOU. Nothing else. You can't escape it, you can't hide from it, you can't run from it. Every fear, hang-up, fear and doubt will now be tested to it's limits. What is coming is all of your fears in your face. All you can do is to stop searching, stop looking for relief from the suffering of the world and face them head-on. Completely let go.... Only when you completely let go of EVERYTHING: Buying things Wanting things Wanting to escape Wanting to hide Wanting to run Wanting to be someone or somewhere else. Wanting to be wealthy Wanting to live somewhere else. Wanting love, forgiveness, peace You have to no longer "want". No matter what it may be. Just my opinion. Your choice though. Peace Please don't think I'm trying to tell ANYONE how to live their lives. Just my thoughts. Peace Hard to see how life is worth living when the attractions are no longer appealing. When you no longer "want" anything, isn't life pointless and dull? well, if you believe that you are caught-up in the never-ending cycle of death and re-birth, then there's work to be done. . it's hard work to keep yourself dispassionate and non-attached. . |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 46534137 Romania 09/15/2013 10:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. read this book - War in Heaven by Kyle Griffith (and start from - Part Two: Theocracy / Chapter 10: The Theocrats / pg 68): [link to anunturi7.ro] |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 38706893 United States 09/15/2013 11:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. This is the OP here. - Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23177590 To any of my friends still following this thread, I have noticed a trend here that I would like to discuss. There is no place to escape to now. There is no sanctuary to hide in like a place in the country or trying to live like the Amish. This coming change is all about YOU. Nothing else. You can't escape it, you can't hide from it, you can't run from it. Every fear, hang-up, fear and doubt will now be tested to it's limits. What is coming is all of your fears in your face. All you can do is to stop searching, stop looking for relief from the suffering of the world and face them head-on. Completely let go.... Only when you completely let go of EVERYTHING: Buying things Wanting things Wanting to escape Wanting to hide Wanting to run Wanting to be someone or somewhere else. Wanting to be wealthy Wanting to live somewhere else. Wanting love, forgiveness, peace You have to no longer "want". No matter what it may be. Just my opinion. Your choice though. Peace Please don't think I'm trying to tell ANYONE how to live their lives. Just my thoughts. Peace Hard to see how life is worth living when the attractions are no longer appealing. When you no longer "want" anything, isn't life pointless and dull? well, if you believe that you are caught-up in the never-ending cycle of death and re-birth, then there's work to be done. . BS. That comment offers nothing. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 38706893 United States 09/15/2013 11:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23177590 Please don't think I'm trying to tell ANYONE how to live their lives. Just my thoughts. Peace Hard to see how life is worth living when the attractions are no longer appealing. When you no longer "want" anything, isn't life pointless and dull? well, if you believe that you are caught-up in the never-ending cycle of death and re-birth, then there's work to be done. . it's hard work to keep yourself dispassionate and non-attached. . And what exactly is the point of being "dispassionate" and "non-attached." Certainly your capacity for pleasure is much reduced in that condition. |
CYBERDELIC! User ID: 46818351 Australia 09/15/2013 11:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I no longer have the desire to own a house, to buy things, to work for someone else, to watch TV, listen to music, to have sex, to have friends. I suffer hypnagogic sleep paralysis and have those 'temp change skin itch frustration" occasionally. I'm a very anxious person, but I hide it behind a dull face, or a fake smile. I seem to get bored a lot as life drifts past me. I'm 23, male, paying a $500,000 mortgage by myself. I work nightshift, and I lack the motivation I once had. I seem to want to interact with more intelligent people, it seems that I sense someone's conversations logical conclusions based on their expressions and intent very shortly into the story/discussion. Some people just seem to do continuous loops and I find I'm either not going to waste my time or I seem to butt in and go beyond everyones narrow minded, unaware and their scope of mind. Their response is "you think too much... You need to stress less and enjoy life... but your 100% right". So if I seem to come to the inevitable conclusion with a straight forward very precise course of action needed to progress, I seem to be labelled as 'too serious', when really, I'm more calm, well spoken and very understanding. Who am I to give advice too? I failed school, took some drugs, partied and gave no thought to life. I 'suddenly' changed... I hated to read, I hated school, I gave no fucks. 2 years ago something changed. I read, I write, I'm passionate in educating myself, hoping I'm contributing something positive. I seem to question everything, intensely, painstakingly 24/7 that I find myself wondering about everything with a confused feeling that really, in the end, nothing matters, as there is a positive or negative response you learn carry on knowledge from either path. There's a balance, a collective origin, or an external observation by another individual that learns and influences that both forces need to exist for one to be distinguishable, we are in a "University"... A quantum state of being resembling a never ending fractal loop because in the moment we really "understand", as one, we choose to experience EVERYTHING again. You square root infinity and as you exist here, simply because its a possibility, you are also everything. As you can maybe tell, I'm in a clear state of logical delusion. I have no sure answer just a hope, and a sense of intent. The only thing to fear, is fear itself. Anything in life worth doing is worth overdoing. Moderation's for cowards. |