Who is in a relationship with a distant relative? How close is too close?

I was talking to a friend I haven't seen in a few years an she had gotten married, she told me he is a distant relative on her mothers side. I don't know exactly how, I didn't ask.
How close is too close?
Why I'm wondering is because there is someone I know who is a relative of mine and I always have felt a unique attraction since I was at least a teen, and if I can even remember further back to when I was about 6 or 7 or 8, I may have first noticed it, but didn't have a capacity to understand things as I do now.

I have been experiencing synchronicities the past few days which I am interpreting that maybe she is like a soul mate or twin flame, or something. Not that I like to label things as such.

I never tried to put the moves on her or even let her know how I feel. except once I think we met in the astral and I told her that I just wanted her to know that I love her. thats all.

So earlier today I saw the number 316 n then had a dream within a nap that I could feel my heart and love in it and she was with me like our hearts were reinforcing each other or something, and we ascended high above the clouds.

I don't want to tread where it may be morally wrong but I find it strange that this plus other things happened the past 3 days.

Before we ascended in my dream I was speaking with a couple ppl who said the world was ending and I was not so worried because my heart began to pour forth.


which brings me even further.. I had a strong vision a year and a half a go maybe more, that I saw two ppl very beautiful and humble but like royalty in the most perfect velvet like dark blue and green clothing, like a prince and a princess standing apart but holding each other staring each others eyes calm but with the utmost love and focus and attention, so beautifully well made their clothing from like another world.

They stood in a large stone archway also very very aesthetically pleasing and simple otherworldly design, and behind them was the earth. or at leaste an earth like setting, but which immediately began to shake, crumble and fall apart which only left them and the archway standing, still the same expression as if did not even sway them.
Kinda of like the nothing in the never ending story.