All the married people I know are getting separations and... | |
Great White User ID: 47138594 Australia 09/19/2013 11:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 3063399 United States 09/19/2013 11:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe people are getting smarter. Divorce is expensive, can ruin one or both of you for 20 years or more, It's emotionally draining and painful as all hell. Much wiser to take it slow. Separate if that's what you need to do, and then take the time to discover why you were married in the first place. He's not going to answer the door at "his place" in stinky sweats fresh out of the gym. She's not going to visit in or allow him to see her with her hair undone and no make-up on. Not when it's not a constant thing. Amazing what a little pride and the time to get ready for your spouse can do. And it also gives them both the time and privacy to perhaps see other people. Maybe with sex, maybe without. But usually 90% of those separations wind up in the couple getting back together in a few months. Like a circuit breaker for a power circuit. Sometimes things overheat and you need a little time to reset and regroup and remember what you are together for. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 47097624 Canada 09/19/2013 11:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
CatRWall Deplorable CatRWall User ID: 6493463 United States 09/19/2013 11:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe people are getting smarter. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3063399 Divorce is expensive, can ruin one or both of you for 20 years or more, It's emotionally draining and painful as all hell. Much wiser to take it slow. Separate if that's what you need to do, and then take the time to discover why you were married in the first place. He's not going to answer the door at "his place" in stinky sweats fresh out of the gym. She's not going to visit in or allow him to see her with her hair undone and no make-up on. Not when it's not a constant thing. Amazing what a little pride and the time to get ready for your spouse can do. And it also gives them both the time and privacy to perhaps see other people. Maybe with sex, maybe without. But usually 90% of those separations wind up in the couple getting back together in a few months. Like a circuit breaker for a power circuit. Sometimes things overheat and you need a little time to reset and regroup and remember what you are together for. I totally get that. Plus a little peace and quiet and a chance to watch the TV shows *I* want to see without dealing with attitude. |
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