Relationship advice...calling for mature male of GLP

Everyone is different. Not every relationship is the same. Just depends on what your needs are as well as his. There are some relationships where people enjoy doing everything together in a healthy way. Not clingy just comfortably. They actually want to spend all of there time together, looking forward to their time together when apart. Trust is key though. Both of you have to be mature enough to trust one another. Realizing there are times when personal space is necessary. Respect those situations and each others space when needed. And most of all, just enjoy being Friends. Best Friends.

You're clingy because you have difficulty trusting. Based on that, I'd say you shouldn't BE in a relationship.

Just have fun and quit stressing. Things will work out alright.

OP, listen to him, he's a normal guy.

Wife kicks him out sends him out to hunt, he will not have her back even a month later. He won't take that shit from a woman, she is no longer his woman. Now there's a hatred that stops him from going back to her.

Why ruin what could become a very good thing? Why make him hate you even a little?

My advise... follow your heart and forget 'clingyness'. It'll work out in the end if you have faith in yourself.

Use your new found 'groundedness' in a relationship to jump start your life. Use the solidity you feel in yourself to go out and learn new things, take some chances, take a course or two, go learn new things. Sign up for courses, meetings, etc. that will get you out of the house and hence...lose your cling....If you are in love, use that love (it wells up from inside afterall) to transform the world. Start at your doorstep, take an intro to permaculture...

I'm a guy, and I like clingy. I can be it and I'm fine with it. Some of us are just touchy/feely/clingy types, and that's good. We're wired differently than the others.

Rejoice in who you are, and stay clingy. We should meet some time.

LIES!

The only thing you get from advice like this is "older".

What's the alternative, for any of us?

Hey everyone, OP here!

Update:
So as you know, I've been thinking about spending less time with my boyfriend since I feel I smother him.
I casually run this by him. I did NOT get the response I was expecting.
Maybe bringing it up was my first mistake.
I kind of doubt it because communication is important.

He told me something along the lines of he's all for me making new friends and stuff but since our relationship has been rocky and just got stable, he'd rather I focused on us. He would like me to take us more seriously.


Naturally, I was kind of caught of guard.
Thinking to myself, it sounds like he wants me to be with him only until he thinks I'm ready to cultivate new relationships/friendships.
If that's the case I told him we'd have a huge problem.
I am not okay with CONTROL. Once someone starts control on any part of the life where does one draw the line?

He clarified and said no he's not saying don't have friends just take one thing at a time.

What do you guys think?

Honestly you are overcomplicating things. He said your are not climgy. You guys are not having sex so he is staying with your for the reason he likes/loves you and your company.

It seems to me if two people are attracted and in love they are clingy. They want to be together and hold hands. Especially young puppy love:)

Enjoy it.

Ofcourse it is good to develop your interests and keep learning. It is good for yourself.

But be yourself. Text him all you want. Enjoy the romance!!

And really just be honest with your feelings.

Some men actually like honesty and to know their company is wanted.

Did you read my update??

What do you think?