I'm a fat, lazy pig and men would rather have sex with pictures on the internet than with me...ask me a question.

No. Advice.

That's the spirit, chins up. :-)

What do you do to make yourself feel attractive?
What do you do to give yourself positive messages?
What do you do to build yourself up emotionally?

My boyfriend is a porn addict.

Yes. And I feel much better when he is not around because I can have a social life then. When I break up with him...he rides by my house.

You probably have a magnesium deficientcy. Magnesium malate and tinture of time will help. Remember to forget to remeber to get a sonicare and a water pik - you'll feel better about yourself.

I take magnesium

Do you have skype ? Im up for a chat.

It's a nasty habit. It can be difficult to kick even if he thinks it's problem, and it doesn't sound like he thinks it is a problem...

No chat. Just some helpful advice please.

You know eventually you are going to break up with him.
Why not do it now?
Take some of that money that you would be spending on him, and put it towards making yourself feel better.
You could go for a monthly massage, or visit a spa to have your nails done. You could go to yoga classes, or for a swim.
If he rides by your house too often when you are broken up, then he is a stalker.

Cocaine... makes fat girls skinny.

too funny!

Now that resonated with me.

Is that why porn stars are thin?

I am 5' 8 and 150 pounds. Too fat for him I think. So I want to lose 30 pounds.

I wonder if that will help.

LoL... guess you know who I am...

But yes pretty much. And dont forget camera adds 15 lbs+

Is he gay???

I think about that....ALOT.

I doesn't sound like you are really that overweight.
It's probably not about that anyway. He is just in a fantasy world with the porn.

I hate to sound superfiscial... but ic you want real advice... yes chunky is not sexy.. sorry. Guys. Programed by constant hollywood / media / print / internet.... yes we are totally programmed to think skinyy = sexy.

Kate Upton the sports illustrated swimsuit cover model is considered a plus sized model 130lbs...

[link to www.sportsgrid.com]

150 lbs ?? Size 9?

Sorry... for a school teacher 40 years old.... ya prob not...if your under 30 ...its chunky.

For 5'8 it's not that bad.

I'm 50

8 or 10 sizes

This is a great psychopathy to yes make YOU feel better... ya yaits him not you... break up with him, your pretty on the inside... find a better man...

You want real advice?
How are your eati v habits?
Howmuch soda and fast food do you chug down?
How many hours a day do you exercise?
Yoga? Treadmill? Pilates!?

Do you put 7n the time. The effort to be hot and sexy?

Tan? Makeup? Hair? Excersize?

Do you se that hot girl on the porn video?? She prolly spends 4-5 hours a day working on that body... everyday !!

Did you spend even 1 worki g on yours today?

I know im gonna take flak for this...but you want fbe truth... thats the truth.

It takes effort to be hot. Put some in. Get results. Feel better about yourself. Own that boy.

Simple.

That is a beautiful size! What in the world? You are a great size.
You know, you just need to break up with him. If he is addicted to porn and all the things you just said, you should not marry him or continue on with him. Cut your losses. It will hurt, but if you stick to it, you will be ok in a month or two.
That is not the type of guy you want to have kids or a life with. You are not married to him---why not start over.

REALLY---I speak from experience. The pain will be over in about a month or two and then you will have a better life---go on you way----please---forget the time you have spent with him---water under the bridge.
It's not too late.