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| Poppy Cock Offer Upgrade  User ID: 50746496  United States12/01/2013 02:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Poppy Cock (OP) User ID: 50746496 United States12/01/2013 02:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "Does anyone else have any ideas on what I could do to get him back?" Quoting: BxMac Well, Poppy, the only way you'll get your last name back is to make a sex tape and mail it to that wishy-washy guy of yours. very funny. PEOPLE, I KNOW THERE ARE INTELLIGENT AND EXPERIENCED ONES AMONG YOU! PLEASE COME FORTH! |
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Dr. Acula Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 61633 United States12/01/2013 02:23 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | get back at him by going on with your life... finish your schooling... get a good job... and when you are ready... find another mate... and in years time... he will look back and regret... and it will haunt him... let it haunt him... fuck him. you dont break up with someone of 2 years in that manner... learn from the relationship you had with him and let it be some sort of lesson on how to improve your life and future relationships... what lesson and what you learned... is to be determined by you. i am sorry you are going through this pain... but there are many more out there... choose wisely  _______________________  |
| Poppy Cock (OP) User ID: 50746496 United States12/01/2013 02:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | get back at him by going on with your life... Quoting: Dr. Acula finish your schooling... get a good job... and when you are ready... find another mate... and in years time... he will look back and regret... and it will haunt him... let it haunt him... fuck him. you dont break up with someone of 2 years in that manner... learn from the relationship you had with him and let it be some sort of lesson on how to improve your life and future relationships... what lesson and what you learned... is to be determined by you. i am sorry you are going through this pain... but there are many more out there... choose wisely I am choosing to learn from this experience and this relationship thus far; however, I am not ready to give up on this. I am looking for ideas regarding how to keep the relationship intact if anyone has any... |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29369246 United States12/01/2013 02:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Dr. Acula Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 61633 United States12/01/2013 02:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am choosing to learn from this experience and this relationship thus far; however, I am not ready to give up on this. I am looking for ideas regarding how to keep the relationship intact if anyone has any... Quoting: Poppy Cock that ship is sinking... you have too much invested to see that... but trust me... from over here... I can clearly see... she's taking on water and it wont remain afloat much longer... _______________________ |
| Poppy Cock (OP) User ID: 50746496 United States12/01/2013 03:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am choosing to learn from this experience and this relationship thus far; however, I am not ready to give up on this. I am looking for ideas regarding how to keep the relationship intact if anyone has any... Quoting: Poppy Cock that ship is sinking... you have too much invested to see that... but trust me... from over here... I can clearly see... she's taking on water and it wont remain afloat much longer... you don't think there's any chance he will realize this is a mistake and take me back? |
| Poppy Cock (OP) User ID: 50746496 United States12/01/2013 03:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Dr. Acula Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 61633 United States12/01/2013 03:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am choosing to learn from this experience and this relationship thus far; however, I am not ready to give up on this. I am looking for ideas regarding how to keep the relationship intact if anyone has any... Quoting: Poppy Cock that ship is sinking... you have too much invested to see that... but trust me... from over here... I can clearly see... she's taking on water and it wont remain afloat much longer... you don't think there's any chance he will realize this is a mistake and take me back? Even if he did... why would you want him? why sell yourself short to a loser who at the blink of an eye do the same thing... put yourself in the future with kids and a mortgage and responsibilities... and your partner could jump ship at any time... don't do yourself that way... you deserve better _______________________ |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 50756441  Australia12/01/2013 03:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 50756441 Australia12/01/2013 03:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Poppy Cock (OP) User ID: 50746496 United States12/01/2013 03:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am choosing to learn from this experience and this relationship thus far; however, I am not ready to give up on this. I am looking for ideas regarding how to keep the relationship intact if anyone has any... Quoting: Poppy Cock that ship is sinking... you have too much invested to see that... but trust me... from over here... I can clearly see... she's taking on water and it wont remain afloat much longer... you don't think there's any chance he will realize this is a mistake and take me back? Even if he did... why would you want him? why sell yourself short to a loser who at the blink of an eye do the same thing... put yourself in the future with kids and a mortgage and responsibilities... and your partner could jump ship at any time... don't do yourself that way... you deserve better I guess I am very willing to give second chances to good people, and I know this person has a beautiful soul. You do bring up legitimate points, and I thank you for that. I'm sorry I'm being so dismissive of you. I have thought of these things, and they are very real and scary things. However, I really get this feeling that this situation I'm in is the result of misunderstandings and I have a strong gut feeling that this is all a mistake, only I don't know what to do about it. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 50756441 Australia12/01/2013 04:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You don't know that at all, the whole time they could have been acting, it might not be how they really are at all. People use people for different reasons. It has nothing to do with his friends, you would not take advice like that from friends you had only known a few weeks. For all you know he could already have another GF, could have planned this long before and been talking to her for ages before he planned to move to be with her. He has moved away to get away from you and start again he never had any intention of you moving there. Please wake up and get into reality this person just used you like they are using the current people they are around. Lots of people are like this they will leave you thinking how great they were but inside in reality they are not that great at all its all a put on. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 50756441 Australia12/01/2013 04:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | However, I really get this feeling that this situation I'm in is the result of misunderstandings and I have a strong gut feeling that this is all a mistake, only I don't know what to do about it. Quoting: Poppy Cock That is called Denial, and you can do nothing about it at all but get on with your life. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 50848954  Belgium12/01/2013 04:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's risky, but go visit him - DO NOT ask him to move in (find a hotel) - and tell him your feelings in a CALM and SERENE manner. I'm saying this, because I know how women are... And I also know what most most men don't like. You will have to sound intelligent and honest. Be prepared like a pro. DO NOT CRY - EVER - EVEN IF THE OUTCOME IS THE WORST POSSIBLE. Trust me. I know what you're feeling. I used to fly from Belgium to Indonesia for the love of my life. 2,000 miles is just a short flight. Good luck! |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 50756441 Australia12/01/2013 04:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's risky, but go visit him - DO NOT ask him to move in (find a hotel) - and tell him your feelings in a CALM and SERENE manner. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 50848954 Dude he broke up with her, told her not to come, in some places that could be considered stalking. Definitely do not go there and waste your time on such a loser he will probably give you one last fuck then take out a restraining order on you. Get on with your life he does not deserve you and your life will be better than his. |
| Poppy Cock (OP) User ID: 50746496 United States12/01/2013 04:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's risky, but go visit him - DO NOT ask him to move in (find a hotel) - and tell him your feelings in a CALM and SERENE manner. I'm saying this, because I know how women are... And I also know what most most men don't like. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 50848954 You will have to sound intelligent and honest. Be prepared like a pro. DO NOT CRY - EVER - EVEN IF THE OUTCOME IS THE WORST POSSIBLE. Trust me. I know what you're feeling. I used to fly from Belgium to Indonesia for the love of my life. 2,000 miles is just a short flight. Good luck! I already asked him if I could come there and we could try to talk about it. He said he would not be happy if I did this. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 50756441 Australia12/01/2013 04:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 50848954 Belgium12/01/2013 04:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's risky, but go visit him - DO NOT ask him to move in (find a hotel) - and tell him your feelings in a CALM and SERENE manner. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 50848954 Dude he broke up with her, told her not to come, in some places that could be considered stalking. Definitely do not go there and waste your time on such a loser he will probably give you one last fuck then take out a restraining order on you. Get on with your life he does not deserve you and your life will be better than his. It's not stalking when you do it once in a calm and serene and intelligent manner. Sometimes in life you have to take risks, when it's worth the risk, even if the odds aren't in your favor. |
| Poppy Cock (OP) User ID: 50746496 United States12/01/2013 04:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's risky, but go visit him - DO NOT ask him to move in (find a hotel) - and tell him your feelings in a CALM and SERENE manner. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 50848954 Dude he broke up with her, told her not to come, in some places that could be considered stalking. Definitely do not go there and waste your time on such a loser he will probably give you one last fuck then take out a restraining order on you. Get on with your life he does not deserve you and your life will be better than his. It's not stalking when you do it once in a calm and serene and intelligent manner. Sometimes in life you have to take risks, when it's worth the risk, even if the odds aren't in your favor. Would it be stalk-y since he specifically asked me not to do this? I mean, would he have grounds for police action? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 50756441 Australia12/01/2013 04:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's risky, but go visit him - DO NOT ask him to move in (find a hotel) - and tell him your feelings in a CALM and SERENE manner. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 50848954 Dude he broke up with her, told her not to come, in some places that could be considered stalking. Definitely do not go there and waste your time on such a loser he will probably give you one last fuck then take out a restraining order on you. Get on with your life he does not deserve you and your life will be better than his. It's not stalking when you do it once in a calm and serene and intelligent manner. Sometimes in life you have to take risks, when it's worth the risk, even if the odds aren't in your favor. Would it be stalk-y since he specifically asked me not to do this? I mean, would he have grounds for police action?    |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 50756441 Australia12/01/2013 04:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's risky, but go visit him - DO NOT ask him to move in (find a hotel) - and tell him your feelings in a CALM and SERENE manner. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 50848954 Dude he broke up with her, told her not to come, in some places that could be considered stalking. Definitely do not go there and waste your time on such a loser he will probably give you one last fuck then take out a restraining order on you. Get on with your life he does not deserve you and your life will be better than his. It's not stalking when you do it once in a calm and serene and intelligent manner. Sometimes in life you have to take risks, when it's worth the risk, even if the odds aren't in your favor. Not when someone told you A.You are not together anymore B.Do not come here |
| Poppy Cock (OP) User ID: 50746496 United States12/01/2013 04:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 50756441 Dude he broke up with her, told her not to come, in some places that could be considered stalking. Definitely do not go there and waste your time on such a loser he will probably give you one last fuck then take out a restraining order on you. Get on with your life he does not deserve you and your life will be better than his. It's not stalking when you do it once in a calm and serene and intelligent manner. Sometimes in life you have to take risks, when it's worth the risk, even if the odds aren't in your favor. Would it be stalk-y since he specifically asked me not to do this? I mean, would he have grounds for police action? you can leave man if you're just going to mock me. I understand it's pathetic of me to be asking for advice on this goddamn internet forum, but unfortunately I don't have any motherfucking friends in the physical world that I can scurry over to and get advice from. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 50848954 Belgium12/01/2013 04:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's risky, but go visit him - DO NOT ask him to move in (find a hotel) - and tell him your feelings in a CALM and SERENE manner. I'm saying this, because I know how women are... And I also know what most most men don't like. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 50848954 You will have to sound intelligent and honest. Be prepared like a pro. DO NOT CRY - EVER - EVEN IF THE OUTCOME IS THE WORST POSSIBLE. Trust me. I know what you're feeling. I used to fly from Belgium to Indonesia for the love of my life. 2,000 miles is just a short flight. Good luck! I already asked him if I could come there and we could try to talk about it. He said he would not be happy if I did this. Of course he's gonna answer you this over the phone. What were you expecting? It becomes different when you're standing in front of him... He WILL BE mad. But then intelligence and calmness could make a difference. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 48638218  United Kingdom12/01/2013 04:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Poppy Cock (OP) User ID: 50746496 United States12/01/2013 04:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's risky, but go visit him - DO NOT ask him to move in (find a hotel) - and tell him your feelings in a CALM and SERENE manner. I'm saying this, because I know how women are... And I also know what most most men don't like. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 50848954 You will have to sound intelligent and honest. Be prepared like a pro. DO NOT CRY - EVER - EVEN IF THE OUTCOME IS THE WORST POSSIBLE. Trust me. I know what you're feeling. I used to fly from Belgium to Indonesia for the love of my life. 2,000 miles is just a short flight. Good luck! I already asked him if I could come there and we could try to talk about it. He said he would not be happy if I did this. Of course he's gonna answer you this over the phone. What were you expecting? It becomes different when you're standing in front of him... He WILL BE mad. But then intelligence and calmness could make a difference. yeah, I'm still considering it. it's really risky though, it could go one way and we could make up, and it could go another way and completely destroy all chances of us getting back together or even being friends. risky risky |
| Poppy Cock (OP) User ID: 50746496 United States12/01/2013 04:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 48234134 United States12/01/2013 04:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My boyfriend of two years moved 2,000 miles away at the beginning of the month. I was planning on joining him in a matter of weeks (finishing up a semester of school). We were both very excited. The time apart was difficult for me as I was so used to spending every day together, but the promise of the future kept me looking forward. A little bit ago, there seemed to be a disconnect between us and my affection was not met at the same level. He told me he wasn't sure about things and needed time to think. A few days ago, he broke up with me, told me that he is no longer in love with me, that he wants a fresh start, and that he does not want me to move in with him anymore. Quoting: Poppy Cock I do know that his new "friends" he has only known for a few weeks told him that my moving in was a bad idea, and no doubt encouraged him in breaking up with me. I BELIEVE THIS IS A HUGE MISTAKE, and I feel I need to do something about it. This man is the best friend I've ever had, and I'm very sure he is my soulmate. I do not want to lose him. Now, the best advice I've received so far is to give him time and space, and if it's meant to be, it'll be. And that's what I've been following. However, I'm antsy as fuck. I feel like if I let him go and simply hope to God he comes back to me, I could lose him forever because of my seeming lack of effort. Does anyone else have any ideas on what I could do to get him back? Or do you think I should keep on doing what I'm doing now and just give it time? (Thank you. Much love. xxoxx) Can't say for sure of course since only you know all the details but... Sounds like you should tell him how you feel if you haven't already, assuming there isn't anything you haven't mentioned that's exceptionally negative. I am now happily moving in with my best friend who I had a similar experience with to what you described. Things did not go well for her or I after we parted ways and we gladly found our way back to eachother. Stay in touch with your friends. Sometimes you have to let people go if they absolutely insist on shutting you out or refuse to accept you for who you are, but do whatever you can within reason.  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 50848954 Belgium12/01/2013 04:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's risky, but go visit him - DO NOT ask him to move in (find a hotel) - and tell him your feelings in a CALM and SERENE manner. I'm saying this, because I know how women are... And I also know what most most men don't like. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 50848954 You will have to sound intelligent and honest. Be prepared like a pro. DO NOT CRY - EVER - EVEN IF THE OUTCOME IS THE WORST POSSIBLE. Trust me. I know what you're feeling. I used to fly from Belgium to Indonesia for the love of my life. 2,000 miles is just a short flight. Good luck! I already asked him if I could come there and we could try to talk about it. He said he would not be happy if I did this. Of course he's gonna answer you this over the phone. What were you expecting? It becomes different when you're standing in front of him... He WILL BE mad. But then intelligence and calmness could make a difference. yeah, I'm still considering it. it's really risky though, it could go one way and we could make up, and it could go another way and completely destroy all chances of us getting back together or even being friends. risky risky What's wrong with paying him a visit and tell him "I miss my friend"? |
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