Thanks to OP for posting this. I've been reading avidly on NPD since watching this; so many things hit home about the man I'm in the process of divorcing. Here are a couple of links with some descriptions of signs and symptoms of this disorder:

[link to www.halcyon.com]
[link to www.halcyon.com]

snip:
"A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy.

1. An exaggerated sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)


2. Preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love

3. Believes he is "special" and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)

4. Requires excessive admiration

etc....

Was very helpful to find this information, to put a name to the type of emotional abuse/neglect I've been experiencing for years.