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Anonymous Coward User ID: 52284107 United States 01/01/2014 06:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Get rid of her. If her name is not on the lease, take her back to her mom's (or to a friend's or wherever) and dump her. Send her stuff to her as soon as you can. Do you really think that things are going to get BETTER? Bite the bullet, get it over with NOW. It's going to end, anyway, so why have the agony any longer than you need to? |
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Anonymous Coward 01/01/2014 06:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I literally did not READ YOUR POST AT ALL except for this part… And all I can say is you're either a troll or a total idiot. If a woman is "begging" for marriage that is a bad fucking sign. I would say run, don't walk, AWAY from that situation. Seriously. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 48412925 United States 01/01/2014 06:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Get rid of her. If her name is not on the lease, take her back to her mom's (or to a friend's or wherever) and dump her. Send her stuff to her as soon as you can. Do you really think that things are going to get BETTER? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 52284107 Bite the bullet, get it over with NOW. It's going to end, anyway, so why have the agony any longer than you need to? Yep, just tell her this isn't working out and you need your space. Don't back down. Tell her how you feel and that she needs to move back in with her Mom. Offer to help her move. That'll get a response. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 3793971 United States 01/01/2014 06:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OH Bull! It's a matter of finding the right person! Even married couples don't screw everyday! Grow up, OP. Obviously you don't have the feelings for this girl, so tell her she needs to make other arrangements. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 13255129 United States 01/01/2014 06:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was in a similar situation a few years ago. I will tell you the secret to getting rid of her but you will owe me. LOL I told the girl that I don't watch Cable TV and was only paying for it so she could watch it. I had decided it was was no longer worth the investment and was having it disconnected. Women cannot live without their Cable TV. Once I had it disconnected she pitched a hissy fit and could not take it and finally left. after she left I had the Cable TV reconnected. . |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 46285418 United States 01/01/2014 06:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was in a similar situation a few years ago. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13255129 I will tell you the secret to getting rid of her but you will owe me. LOL I told the girl that I don't watch Cable TV and was only paying for it so she could watch it. I had decided it was was no longer worth the investment and was having it disconnected. Women cannot live without their Cable TV. Once I had it disconnected she pitched a hissy fit and could not take it and finally left. after she left I had the Cable TV reconnected. . Genius! OP sounds married already. Get a pet that she can't stand! Maybe a tarantula that accidentally gets loose a few times. Better yet, borrow or rent one until she leaves! |
ScrumpTheTexan Forum Administrator User ID: 37301943 United States 01/01/2014 07:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I literally did not READ YOUR POST AT ALL except for this part… And all I can say is you're either a troll or a total idiot. If a woman is "begging" for marriage that is a bad fucking sign. I would say run, don't walk, AWAY from that situation. Seriously. :wordcat: I am a Christian. Christian does not equal doormat or pushover "I Have Sworn upon the Altar of God... Eternal Hostility against every form of Tyranny over the mind of man." -Thomas Jefferson, Sep. 23, 1800 The Election of Donald John Trump: [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] For previous Newsletters, click 'Scrump's News Letters' @ [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 42290226 United States 01/01/2014 07:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was in a similar situation a few years ago. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13255129 I will tell you the secret to getting rid of her but you will owe me. LOL I told the girl that I don't watch Cable TV and was only paying for it so she could watch it. I had decided it was was no longer worth the investment and was having it disconnected. Women cannot live without their Cable TV. Once I had it disconnected she pitched a hissy fit and could not take it and finally left. after she left I had the Cable TV reconnected. . Genius! OP sounds married already. Get a pet that she can't stand! Maybe a tarantula that accidentally gets loose a few times. Better yet, borrow or rent one until she leaves! How is any of this genius, sounds like little baby ass games to me. How about man up, tell her it's not working out and asking her to leave. Also to the OP, you need to live on your own for awhile, you should never go with living with your mother to living with a wife. You need time to grow, and appreciate what it means to actually have to clean up after yourself. |
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Mr. Know-it-all User ID: 31622328 United States 01/01/2014 07:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | this is my 1st shot at living without a family member. I am finally able to afford to live on my own and what did I do? I brought my gf in. I only got my own place because she was gettin kicked out by her mom. I was foolish and irrational. I had dreamed for years of having my own place and being able to party whenever and have random women visit me without me putting any effort in. I always knew that once a good looking man had his own car a job and his own place then he can pretty much have hotties come over every night practically.....Not me, I fycked up bad... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 52184584 Shes so annoying. All she does is sleep smoke pot write songs and draw all day long. The first 5 days or so there was alot of sensuality and a ton of cuddling and a wee bit of sexuality but in the past 3 days the sensuality is almost nil and the sexuality is completely gone. There is no sexual connection at all and now the sensuality is following the same path. I havent cuddled with her all day today and we have been together all day long. I havent even looked in her eyes today. Ive narely looked at her and she has barely looked at me. There was a brief argument earlier but besides that we havent talked. I feel like im imprisoned. I really wanna have the balls to tell her that im gonna start having women come over or tell her she should consider getting back to her moms so i can live my single life. She thinks we're getting married, shes been begging me for marriage and I know the whole idea is basically a devilish attempt to control my heart and manipulate me into housing her while she gets her act together and gets her own place or finds the right guy. Shes totally using me and I dont even want it. I never asked her to be my girlfriend and I never asked her to be my wife. I miss my ex girlfriend so bad. Ugh this is hell... Luckily for me I am able to drink beer when the sun goes down and totally block her out and have fun. But being sober and being around her is like a prison Kick her the fuck out. Don't play games. Tell her straight up that you don't want her living with you anymore, and to get the fuck out immediately. If she asks why, tell her like you wrote about her using you, trying to control and manipulate you into housing her while she gets her act together and gets her own place or finds the right guy, that you never asked her to be your girlfriend, never asked her to be your wife, think it's hell living with her, etc. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 40063915 United States 01/01/2014 07:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | we still havent talked much since the original post. theres a very scary.rift in the air.a feeling of hostility and numbness. i would feel like a loser of this game if i walked over and put my arm around her. she would probably stand up and walk.away pretending that she.needs water etc. i feel like if i give in at all and try tocalm the.environment shes going.to feel victorious. wtf is this shyt. things were generally great when we both lived with our parents :-\ |
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