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Anonymous Coward User ID: 20812629 Canada 01/11/2014 10:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | had a friend (female married) post this to her unfortunate hubby and she was like "wtf women did this stuff?????????" no wonder men are delaying marriage to 30+, high divorce rates, no one is saying do all that stuff lol, but nowadays theyll loudly claim they dont cook, clean, workout, diet, or anything |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 44968643 United States 01/11/2014 10:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | there are a few like the stay out all night one that i doubt were part of the original text. for one thing, if you husband always comes home at a certain time and then one day he doesn't come home at all... it is reasonable to worry that something bad might have happened to him. phones existed in 1955, after all. so, that seems suspicious. also, the have him go lie down in a quiet room seems kind of odd... he's also getting dinner, a drink, a (maybe) a roaring fire.. how is he going to enjoy those things while asleep? but, some of them... as a person who has worked seem common sense.. try to not have things be chaos when someone gets home. don't immediately hit them with questions or complaints as they come through the door. i don't know if most people want to eat immediately after getting home though. anyway, a lot of them seem reasonable and i have done them. |
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* Cyndexia * User ID: 23752665 United States 01/11/2014 10:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My Grandma truly did these things. She would peel his tomato's , lay out his cloths everyday, meals were all ready and she looked like a goddess doing it. They were married 63 years before his death. . "Sometimes the object of the Journey may not be the end, but the Journey itself"..... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2086586 Canada 01/11/2014 10:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | men need someone to raise them seriously. it's like they never learned growing up but then they find somebody to do all the heavy lifting while they bring home the bacon. and it was and is still a full time job. if you love each other, you will both do your part to make each other happy. People have no loyalty to anyone but themselves anymore. they want to find a replacement before they boot the first manor woman out the door. it's wrong. and if you go around behind someone's back its wrong. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 51584912 United Kingdom 01/11/2014 10:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | men need someone to raise them seriously. it's like they never learned growing up but then they find somebody to do all the heavy lifting while they bring home the bacon. and it was and is still a full time job. if you love each other, you will both do your part to make each other happy. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2086586 People have no loyalty to anyone but themselves anymore. they want to find a replacement before they boot the first manor woman out the door. it's wrong. and if you go around behind someone's back its wrong. men need someone to raise them seriously. it's like they never learned growing up but then they find somebody to do all the heavy lifting while they bring home the bacon. and it was and is still a full time job. if you love each other, you will both do your part to make each other happy. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2086586 People have no loyalty to anyone but themselves anymore. they want to find a replacement before they boot the first manor woman out the door. it's wrong. and if you go around behind someone's back its wrong. Same can besaid for a lot of women |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 52808258 United States 01/11/2014 10:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Come on...who does this? Quoting: ancha .." Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice." Years ago the husband was the bread winner and the wife stayed home to take care of the kids and the house and yes women use to treat their husbands like that.My grandmother was like this with my grandfather.In return he treated her very well.They were together almost 60 years. |
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natalie User ID: 47753737 United States 01/11/2014 10:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wife found this and taped it to the refrigerator. The thing is she lives it, and I would do anything she asks and treat her like a queen. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8294905 Women don't understand that if they act like women used to act, men will act like men used to act. YES! Men are not men because women are not women |
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ladulce User ID: 52427621 United States 01/11/2014 11:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Come on...who does this? Quoting: ancha .." Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice." Are you a woman or a man? real women treat their men like they should,and real men treat their women like they should, respect gets respect. Exactly. I take off my man's shoes (even though he is kind of unsure about how to react still) and often sit on the floor- massaging his feet when we watch a movie or something. I prepare the bed for him, undress him and always ask if he needs any massages or different pillows, etc. I do this before I take a shower (which is the last thing I do before bed). Then, I crawl in beside him- he gets to rest a bit and I am all clean. Personally, I have no issue being a woman. I enjoy it- the traditional roles are good for me, as long as he is a man- I don't have to worry about maintaining my car or the outside of the house. He is fed and we take great care of one another. To each their own, but, damn it- I have been out there- alone for 7+ years after the death of my spouse, and, now I appreciate every second with the man I love. I don't want to compete with him- we aren't the same. Neither is 'better', we are different. We know one another and we are good with traditional. Thank God. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 52808258 United States 01/11/2014 11:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wife found this and taped it to the refrigerator. The thing is she lives it, and I would do anything she asks and treat her like a queen. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8294905 Women don't understand that if they act like women used to act, men will act like men used to act. You go first. I cant see it ever being like that again.The world has changed and people have become very self centered.With all the modern technology things have went downhill instead of improving as far as relationships. Now most spend their time after work on Facebook or on their cell phone texting others and ignore each other in the same house. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 52808258 United States 01/11/2014 11:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Come on...who does this? Quoting: ancha .." Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice." Are you a woman or a man? real women treat their men like they should,and real men treat their women like they should, respect gets respect. Exactly. I take off my man's shoes (even though he is kind of unsure about how to react still) and often sit on the floor- massaging his feet when we watch a movie or something. I prepare the bed for him, undress him and always ask if he needs any massages or different pillows, etc. I do this before I take a shower (which is the last thing I do before bed). Then, I crawl in beside him- he gets to rest a bit and I am all clean. Personally, I have no issue being a woman. I enjoy it- the traditional roles are good for me, as long as he is a man- I don't have to worry about maintaining my car or the outside of the house. He is fed and we take great care of one another. To each their own, but, damn it- I have been out there- alone for 7+ years after the death of my spouse, and, now I appreciate every second with the man I love. I don't want to compete with him- we aren't the same. Neither is 'better', we are different. We know one another and we are good with traditional. Thank God. I totally agree with your post..The underlined is what most cant grasp. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 52831191 United States 01/11/2014 11:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [link to j-walk.com] Quoting: ancha •Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed. •Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people. •Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it... •Don't complain if he's late for dinner or even if he stays out all night. WFT? Much more at link. Actually, I left my good paying job to be a traditional , stsy- at-home wife. I do all that stuff and more (since I'm educated and have other skills). I've never been happier and my husband has never been healthier, less stressed and more at ease in the world. He has a stressful job at times, I make sure the home is calm and orderly/clean, etc. Its been paradise. If I only knew then what I know now.... corporate America almost killed our passion, we never had time to enjoy each other when i worked. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 48936583 United States 01/11/2014 11:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | These are the most important imho...why can't women AT LEAST do this?? *Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours. *Don't greet him with complaints and problems. |
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