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My narcissistic mother has ruined my life.

 
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My narcissistic mother has ruined my life.
She has lied to all my siblings about what I have said to her, now I'm hated by the my brothers and sister and nieces and nephews.
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You think they will forgive you?
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You have a....See You Next Tuesday...Mother!
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Is she s drunk? My MIL's a drunk, oh the joy.

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No not a drunk but very very self centered, doesn't give a shit about me ( her daughters feelings). Lies about things like she told everyone that I won;t let her see her grandson, when in fact the truth is I have asked her many many times to come see us and she wont, she lives 45 minutes away. She hasn't seen her grandson who is handicapped in over 4 yrs.
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She has lied to all my siblings about what I have said to her, now I'm hated by the my brothers and sister and nieces and nephews.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25530521


This is what they do, they are experts at it
Luke 6:22 Blessed are ye, when men shall hate you, and when they shall separate you from their company, and shall reproach you, and cast out your name as evil, for the Son of man's sake.
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She has lied to all my siblings about what I have said to her, now I'm hated by the my brothers and sister and nieces and nephews.
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So confront your siblings and set the record straight.

"You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger"
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Re: My narcissistic mother has ruined my life.
She has lied to all my siblings about what I have said to her, now I'm hated by the my brothers and sister and nieces and nephews.
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So confront your siblings and set the record straight.
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I have tried, but they stand by her.
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She has lied to all my siblings about what I have said to her, now I'm hated by the my brothers and sister and nieces and nephews.
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fuck em.
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try to forgive her.
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We owe no loyalty to someone just because they are blood. Put these people out of your life and out of your mind. If they want a relationship with you and your child let them earn it. I know it is easier said than done but it is all you can do with people like that. You just forgive them then forget them.
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admit it op, ur an oedipus wreck lol
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She has lied to all my siblings about what I have said to her, now I'm hated by the my brothers and sister and nieces and nephews.
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You need to take responsibility for your life and not blame how you feel on others. That only makes you a narcissist yourself. You need to set boundaries and stop pointing fingers after that.
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Why would one expect expect forgiveness if one cannot forgive?
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You need to take responsibility for your life and not blame how you feel on others. That only makes you a narcissist yourself. You need to set boundaries and stop pointing fingers after that.
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I have the reverse. It is my narcissistic broher and sister that lie cheat and steal.
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Thread: The Narcissist: Psychology of Demons
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We owe no loyalty to someone just because they are blood. Put these people out of your life and out of your mind.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1854670



I did it three years ago.

I rarely think about my relatives anymore.
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Do like my Mom did once and take out a front page out in the local paper asking people for tips on who your biological father is....on second thought, don't.


Or, you could invite the entire familv for a group therapy session with a family counselor or minister. A cookout with shooting also works well.
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Re: My narcissistic mother has ruined my life.
OP, before you came to this earth, you chose her for a mother. There are experiences that you need to learn with her as your mother.

Live in your heart and do what it tells you to do. Remember to love, even when it's hard.

Good luck friend.
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You need to take responsibility for your life and not blame how you feel on others. That only makes you a narcissist yourself. You need to set boundaries and stop pointing fingers after that.
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^^Spoken by someone who clearly hasn't been through such shit, OR spoken by an actual narcissist.

Emotionally unhinged parents cause more damage to their offspring than you would care to believe. Yes, it's appropriate to take responsibility for your life, but easier said than done when you are so screwed up that you can't function normally.
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Fake story is fake
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What are you, a caveman? Record her actions and show your siblings ffs.

Then you can say "Fuck you mom" in front of them, give her the finger, and storm off dramatically. (Film that too, and post it so we can all make fun of your mom.)
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Fake story is fake
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If your mom is a true N then your family would know it as well. Fake or perhaps you are the problem.
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[link to outofthefog.net] a great support forum where you will find validation and support as well as great info on recovery steps.

Sounds like you have been the chosen family scapegoat to be painted black but she will choose a new target if you are now out of the picture. In time your sibs and family members may wake up and see her for who she really is but that is up to them, nothing you can do about that for now except get on with your own life. Easier said than done I know but one step at a time. Check out these articles on a borderline disordered mother's effects on her offspring:-

[link to www.mentalhelp.net]
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Sorry you are facing this.

hf
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You need to take responsibility for your life and not blame how you feel on others. That only makes you a narcissist yourself. You need to set boundaries and stop pointing fingers after that.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20246011


No, thats not what a narcissist is. Opie doesn't
become a narcissist hy accusing her mother.

It is hugely painful to have a narcissist mother. If you cant be supportive please shut your mouth, refrain from typing, and leave the thread.
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Cut out the cancer and move on. My family did this and we are all better off for it.

Mental illness / disorders of the Narcissistic genre cannot be cured, period.
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You think they will forgive you?
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