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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 54757372  Belgium02/23/2014 09:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
BRIEF  User ID: 39607259  United States02/23/2014 09:44 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 54757372 Belgium02/23/2014 09:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 7325527 United States02/23/2014 09:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Go for it, you pretty much are running the risk of her considering you a stalker anyway, flowers couldn't hurt. Quoting: BRIEF This, op. How many times did you message her on facebook? More than twice is too much. Did you go on a 'liking' spree and look at all of her photos? Comment on a bunch of them? Do you have a bunch of obnoxious pics with your shirt off, standing in front of a mirror, with duck face? Or whatever the male equivalent is? Facebook has ruined many a relationship. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 43942202 United States02/23/2014 09:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Sinclair User ID: 49801954 United States02/23/2014 09:51 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | After that, you should be able to know for sure where she's at. You put the ball in her court. If nothing materializes on her part after such a gesture, move on and forget about her. Chalk it up as a good try. Also, don't buy the most extravagant flower arrangement you can find. Something simple and not too flashy. A small bouquet or just a simple rose. Nothing over the top. Good luck. Qui desiderat pacem, praeparet bellum. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 54757372 Belgium02/23/2014 09:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Go for it, you pretty much are running the risk of her considering you a stalker anyway, flowers couldn't hurt. Quoting: BRIEF This, op. How many times did you message her on facebook? More than twice is too much. Did you go on a 'liking' spree and look at all of her photos? Comment on a bunch of them? Do you have a bunch of obnoxious pics with your shirt off, standing in front of a mirror, with duck face? Or whatever the male equivalent is? Facebook has ruined many a relationship. Thanks baroness! I only message her one time. I did like a photo of her and one of her dog. Also a few times her statuses. I have non of such pictures. I try to act normal. |
Phennommennonn Forum Administrator 02/23/2014 09:53 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is the wrong place for advice on such topics, as most of us are either celibate by choice, unfuckable, or will try to twist your mind for shits and giggles. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 43942202 :JHNSTWTlulz: political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 54757372 Belgium02/23/2014 09:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 54757372 Belgium02/23/2014 09:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Don't be too forward but sure, buy her some flowers. I'd suggest that you make it a brief encounter where you give her the gift but do not linger around after doing so. Give her the flowers, perhaps wish her a good day, and be on your way. It will be enough to tell her how you feel without making it awkward. Quoting: Sinclair After that, you should be able to know for sure where she's at. You put the ball in her court. If nothing materializes on her part after such a gesture, move on and forget about her. Chalk it up as a good try. Also, don't buy the most extravagant flower arrangement you can find. Something simple and not too flashy. A small bouquet or just a simple rose. Nothing over the top. Good luck. Thanks for you advice! Hugs to all for your help. I really appreciate it! :) |
| Sinclair User ID: 49801954 United States02/23/2014 09:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Go for it, you pretty much are running the risk of her considering you a stalker anyway, flowers couldn't hurt. Quoting: BRIEF This, op. How many times did you message her on facebook? More than twice is too much. Did you go on a 'liking' spree and look at all of her photos? Comment on a bunch of them? Do you have a bunch of obnoxious pics with your shirt off, standing in front of a mirror, with duck face? Or whatever the male equivalent is? Facebook has ruined many a relationship. Lol don't blame FB for the actions of people. Qui desiderat pacem, praeparet bellum. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 11211450 United States02/23/2014 09:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 7325527 United States02/23/2014 09:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Go for it, you pretty much are running the risk of her considering you a stalker anyway, flowers couldn't hurt. Quoting: BRIEF This, op. How many times did you message her on facebook? More than twice is too much. Did you go on a 'liking' spree and look at all of her photos? Comment on a bunch of them? Do you have a bunch of obnoxious pics with your shirt off, standing in front of a mirror, with duck face? Or whatever the male equivalent is? Facebook has ruined many a relationship. Thanks baroness! I only message her one time. I did like a photo of her and one of her dog. Also a few times her statuses. I have non of such pictures. I try to act normal. Well then all that I can say is that maybe your status updates scared her off. She is acting weird. Good luck! |
| BRIEF User ID: 39607259 United States02/23/2014 09:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Go for it, you pretty much are running the risk of her considering you a stalker anyway, flowers couldn't hurt. Quoting: BRIEF This, op. How many times did you message her on facebook? More than twice is too much. Did you go on a 'liking' spree and look at all of her photos? Comment on a bunch of them? Do you have a bunch of obnoxious pics with your shirt off, standing in front of a mirror, with duck face? Or whatever the male equivalent is? Facebook has ruined many a relationship. Thanks baroness! I only message her one time. I did like a photo of her and one of her dog. Also a few times her statuses. I have non of such pictures. I try to act normal. Well then all that I can say is that maybe your status updates scared her off. She is acting weird. Good luck! What OP doesn't understand is that all females are psycho, so trying to give him advice about one specifically is an exercise in futility. I never forgive and I never forget I am a licensed firearm holder. I will, under protection of law, use lethal force if attacked.  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 54757883  China02/23/2014 10:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | wHAT ARE you a 16-year-old metrosexual? Harden the hell up and be a man. Just set up one of those iron-claw bear traps on her usual jogging route, cover it with some brush, and lure her to step on it the next morning. Drag her home, and lock her in your basement. She'll come round eventually. |
| Face Palmer User ID: 54759187  Germany02/23/2014 10:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Probably she found some stuff in your FB timeline that made her think you are not relationship material. "The world will soon wake up to the reality that everyone is broke and can collect nothing from the bankrupt, who are owed unlimited amounts by the insolvent, who are attempting to make late payments on a bank holiday in the wrong country, with an unacceptable currency, against defaulted collateral, of which nobody is sure who holds title." Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity. The woman who is not pursued sets up the doctrine that pursuit is offensive to her sex, and wants to make it a felony. No genuinely attractive woman has any such desire. - H.L. Mencken, In Defense Of Women |
| Desertportal User ID: 54664468 Belgium02/23/2014 10:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I can't seem to help you. Not that you're the problem. I'm the problem on this one. I'd say, if she isn't hitting you with her shoe really begging for a relationship, you shouldn't be bothered. The goal is not to find a relationship, it is to stand strong in yourself and to see where life takes you. God said to go forth and multiply so a girlfriend can become reality. Move on with your life, like you Always had, until you come to the point where you will realise: "well, now I sure feel like a girlfriend". I had feelings for girls before too, but what I felt was submission to their beauty or to the sexual image in my head. I needed to overcome that, it really was a struggle and tried to rid myself of it the wrong way many times. Suddenly things changed. Now I am more myself. You must rise above all things you need to rise above. Then you are ready for life. Life will probably hold a girlfriend. I only wanted to motivate/improve/provide hope in case of. Good luck and may ye find lots of love. !!! |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 53927331 United States02/23/2014 10:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | wHAT ARE you a 16-year-old metrosexual? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 54757883 Harden the hell up and be a man. Just set up one of those iron-claw bear traps on her usual jogging route, cover it with some brush, and lure her to step on it the next morning. Drag her home, and lock her in your basement. She'll come round eventually.  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 43942202 United States02/23/2014 10:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 54757372 Belgium02/23/2014 10:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Go for it, you pretty much are running the risk of her considering you a stalker anyway, flowers couldn't hurt. Quoting: BRIEF This, op. How many times did you message her on facebook? More than twice is too much. Did you go on a 'liking' spree and look at all of her photos? Comment on a bunch of them? Do you have a bunch of obnoxious pics with your shirt off, standing in front of a mirror, with duck face? Or whatever the male equivalent is? Facebook has ruined many a relationship. Lol don't blame FB for the actions of people. Lmao! |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 54757372 Belgium02/23/2014 10:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 54757372 Belgium02/23/2014 10:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Go for it, you pretty much are running the risk of her considering you a stalker anyway, flowers couldn't hurt. Quoting: BRIEF This, op. How many times did you message her on facebook? More than twice is too much. Did you go on a 'liking' spree and look at all of her photos? Comment on a bunch of them? Do you have a bunch of obnoxious pics with your shirt off, standing in front of a mirror, with duck face? Or whatever the male equivalent is? Facebook has ruined many a relationship. Thanks baroness! I only message her one time. I did like a photo of her and one of her dog. Also a few times her statuses. I have non of such pictures. I try to act normal. Well then all that I can say is that maybe your status updates scared her off. She is acting weird. Good luck! Maybe but I noticed that she removed some other people as well. So she cleaned her friendlist... |
| Desertportal User ID: 54664468 Belgium02/23/2014 10:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Baroness This, op. How many times did you message her on facebook? More than twice is too much. Did you go on a 'liking' spree and look at all of her photos? Comment on a bunch of them? Do you have a bunch of obnoxious pics with your shirt off, standing in front of a mirror, with duck face? Or whatever the male equivalent is? Facebook has ruined many a relationship. Thanks baroness! I only message her one time. I did like a photo of her and one of her dog. Also a few times her statuses. I have non of such pictures. I try to act normal. Well then all that I can say is that maybe your status updates scared her off. She is acting weird. Good luck! Maybe but I noticed that she removed some other people as well. So she cleaned her friendlist... She's probably not relationshipmaterial, OP. Maybe brief is right and they are all psycho. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 32069520 United States02/23/2014 10:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 54757372 Belgium02/23/2014 10:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Baroness This, op. How many times did you message her on facebook? More than twice is too much. Did you go on a 'liking' spree and look at all of her photos? Comment on a bunch of them? Do you have a bunch of obnoxious pics with your shirt off, standing in front of a mirror, with duck face? Or whatever the male equivalent is? Facebook has ruined many a relationship. Thanks baroness! I only message her one time. I did like a photo of her and one of her dog. Also a few times her statuses. I have non of such pictures. I try to act normal. Well then all that I can say is that maybe your status updates scared her off. She is acting weird. Good luck! What OP doesn't understand is that all females are psycho, so trying to give him advice about one specifically is an exercise in futility. I know what you mean BRIEF. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 54757372 Belgium02/23/2014 10:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | wHAT ARE you a 16-year-old metrosexual? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 54757883 Harden the hell up and be a man. Just set up one of those iron-claw bear traps on her usual jogging route, cover it with some brush, and lure her to step on it the next morning. Drag her home, and lock her in your basement. She'll come round eventually. That's a good one, my dear! |
| BRIEF User ID: 39607259 United States02/23/2014 10:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 54757372 Thanks baroness! I only message her one time. I did like a photo of her and one of her dog. Also a few times her statuses. I have non of such pictures. I try to act normal. Well then all that I can say is that maybe your status updates scared her off. She is acting weird. Good luck! What OP doesn't understand is that all females are psycho, so trying to give him advice about one specifically is an exercise in futility. I know what you mean BRIEF. And on the other hand they are so pretty and smell nice ya just want to fuck them all...well a lot of them anyway I never forgive and I never forget I am a licensed firearm holder. I will, under protection of law, use lethal force if attacked. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 54757372 Belgium02/23/2014 10:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 54757372 Belgium02/23/2014 10:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 7325527 United States02/23/2014 10:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Go for it, you pretty much are running the risk of her considering you a stalker anyway, flowers couldn't hurt. Quoting: BRIEF This, op. How many times did you message her on facebook? More than twice is too much. Did you go on a 'liking' spree and look at all of her photos? Comment on a bunch of them? Do you have a bunch of obnoxious pics with your shirt off, standing in front of a mirror, with duck face? Or whatever the male equivalent is? Facebook has ruined many a relationship. Lol don't blame FB for the actions of people. Haha, true. It has become a vehicle for people to announce their crazy. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 54757372 Belgium02/23/2014 10:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I can't seem to help you. Not that you're the problem. I'm the problem on this one. Quoting: Desertportal I'd say, if she isn't hitting you with her shoe really begging for a relationship, you shouldn't be bothered. The goal is not to find a relationship, it is to stand strong in yourself and to see where life takes you. God said to go forth and multiply so a girlfriend can become reality. Move on with your life, like you Always had, until you come to the point where you will realise: "well, now I sure feel like a girlfriend". I had feelings for girls before too, but what I felt was submission to their beauty or to the sexual image in my head. I needed to overcome that, it really was a struggle and tried to rid myself of it the wrong way many times. Suddenly things changed. Now I am more myself. You must rise above all things you need to rise above. Then you are ready for life. Life will probably hold a girlfriend. I only wanted to motivate/improve/provide hope in case of. Good luck and may ye find lots of love. !!! You're 100 % right my belgian friend! Thanks a lot! Btw, where in belgium do you live? |
