Why does she cheat

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Everything humans do is a result of unfulfilled needs.

What's that then dude? Possible daddy issues?

Be sure to put a hidden keylogger sites visited app on yur pc then u will know and great for court if need be

online cheating is a common between girls and boys. if you cant live with todays modern cheating, i advice u to not fall in love anymore after you seperate from your recent wife. its hard to disconnect people from chat webs anymore, there is a chat apps even in their cell phones.

Well, let's examine this for a moment shall we?

Why is it that the Internet has become so popular as a communications network?

Well for one…. it is easy to use…. and it is very easy to connect to other individuals.


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Is she actually flirting? Or is it just highly personal talk?

I'm not interested in fucking her life up or making her feel bad. I just want to stop pretending I can forgive her.

munch that pussy, and much it good

she'll soon forget about Horsecock_98(at)buttfuck dot com

Yeah it's flirting. She goes out of her way to talk to these guys.

'Making her feel bad' wasn't what I was getting at….


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She's your wife.

Why does she feel the need to flirt with random sprites in the first place when she's got a guy next to her….?

OP,

It´s the sign of the times.

Women are becoming sluts. Even wives, who have been married for 20 years, are being infected by modernity, by their neighbors, sisters, co-workers and even church member friends.

There is a pole dancing place in every town and women make money by the tonnes and start thinking they aren´t smart by washing dishes, doing the home shores while women are treated like queens by baring it all and fucking 500 men every night.

Help close these places and women will return to being house-wives.

^^This.

People have different sexual and emotional needs and if they are not being met they will look elsewhere for it. Sometimes there is nothing you can do. For example, some women like to be held/cuddled at night and some dont. She's not going to tell you what she wants because women arent used to speaking their mind.

You should examine your entire relationship and figure out if you are in a reciprocal relationship where both parties are giving and receiving love equally?? From your post, it looks like you do alot for her.

Does she return your love/affection?? Do you feel like she needs you more than she loves you?

No idea dude. I think she has some unsolved issues. I literally just moved in with her and she was caught talking to a few guys on different occasions. She seems to feel the need to please these guys with conversation even though she knows well what they want.

That's a one strike rule in my book. Kick her flabby ass out. Be a man. There's so many girls out there. So many. Why would you be so pathetic to spend one single minute with a blown out whore who disrespects you. Put her putrid cunt on the street. Marriage is just a piece of paper.

She does tell me how much she loves me bit she's also very moody and picks on things I say to argue (I feel that way anyway).

I'm not the most emotional guy, but I'm not void of emotions. Surely my actions speak volumes. I waited for her whilst living away, left my life, friends and family to be with her, pay for everything and she knows I'm only trying to better out lives. I've never cheated on her, she would literally not be able to point out one thing I've done as evidence of this. Now I "don't see her" apparently. Well I'm sorry for harbouring a little bitterness but it can't be helped now!

Ship your assets to a separate account and divorce the slut.

To be honest pal this is exactly how I feel it these days- she hasn't respected it at all. I have tried to kick her out and ask her to leave but she's stayed around until I've gotten over it (abit). She knows I have nowhere to go here you see. I always told her it's "one strike and you're out" but I've fallen short of sticking to this. I caught her cheating on me one night so I fucked off to the bar came back and SHE had locked ME out. I think she's possibly bipolar too.

Dude, there is no joint account and there never fucking will be. It's hardly a "joint account" if it's all my fucking money. We don't own a property either.

2 Rules of Man Wealth Creation.

1. Do NOT live with a female.
2. Do NOT Impregnate.

Since you broke Rule #1 (because most women like to sleep around to be polite about it all and lots of men do too to be fair) you now are facing asset splitting.

Bad move.

Always, always, always! Tell a women you are dating to sleep with other men. I know that sounds completely strange but it works.

1. The 'thrill' of the forbidden act is gone - it's now cheap, and freely whorishly available.
2. If she does do it - hopefully she will go with the other guy and become *his* problem not yours.
3. She cheapens herself, women value meaningful intimacy. It comes from either someone they adore or love, or from the exciting thrill. By encouraging her to 'get her rocks off' it becomes a cheap physical release.
4. If she does anything, she must now concede you are free to do so as well. Loss of control. And women *hate* that.

We live in a society where people value the sex over the relationship. Our values are degraded and shifted. Never take it personally if you loose someone who wants to go off and get puddled by another guy (or men).. Without these cheap values there would be a lot of men not getting laid, so we need to thank all the liberalized women.

Believe me I totally believe in Feminism I think it's wonderful. Let's keep empowering women!

MGTOWHQ

There is nothing you can do about it. That is the way she is. Either you live with it and accept her or move on.

I remember being in the same situation. Then someone opened my eyes and say "You are in love with an illusion. The person you love is someone faithful. You are in love with someone you wish he becomes. It is not him. Can you love him the way he is ? If the response is no, then move on."

Did you ever tell her how you feel? Maybe she didn't realize that it bothers you and she didn't see any harm in having what she merely considers friends.

Is she friendly? She might not know how you felt.

never should have married in the first place...

why couldn't a man just live with a woman and take care of her for life? why does he NEED a state-appointed license to be "together" legally?

it's a sham and frankly the woman always gets more out of it. men lose 50% of their worth and the women take the children/dog/house/etc.

IMHO marriage is a pathetic needy clingy thing girls think they want, but they actually have no idea wtf they want.

just my cynical yet truthful opinion on the matter

Last Edited by SteamrolledGobias on 03/23/2014 07:51 AM

She's probably cheating because you're not in love anymore? I mean you answered your own question man...

so you guys rent? are you married?

I'd bring it up in direct confrontation and don't let the issue drop until it's dealt with. women like to pull the "i'm so cute and pretty let's fuck then never talk about this again" card... because it works.

stop needing sex. accept the idea of being alone. be okay with that idea. then go from there.

best of luck OP relationships seems tough to manage these days

Well, since the last time she claims to have realised how wrong it was. I choose to forgive her after it. I didn't have to, well I didn't, I choose to pretend to forgive (I'm not a great forgiver). I can't get it out of my head though. I think I'm waiting for her to do it again so I can finish it. I know she's trying harder but none of this should have happened in the first place. I'm an honest guy, I don't need this shit. Life is too short.

just leave her. wtf

Thanks pal. Yeah, honestly I've tried to drop it but I obviously need to talk about this again.

Married yes, renting yes.. Nothing in joint names.

I'm not assed about sex. I can live without it if I had to for a while. I'd have no problem meeting other women though. I believe there are some decent ones out there.

Not that it matters what other people think, but not being married to a guy you've been with for a long time is hard on a woman, especially if you have kids. You have no idea. At the grocery store, people will compliment your kids, then look at your ring finger-- if no ring, their demeanor often changes. I was a single mom for a while and actually bought a cheap wedding band to wear so I'd be treated better. No matter how great a relationship is, if the woman isn't married we all think the guy won't do it because he does not want to be "trapped" and therefore does not truly love her.

We're not all that bad, I promise. Not all states make you split property and there are always prenups. I made my hubby sign one even though he didnt want to.

Women can be so unappreciated though. I have four kids, work at home. Hubby makes much more, but what am I worth? How much would it cost to hire someone that does what I do? Full time 24/7 childcare nanny for four kids runs about 7k per month. Add another $500 monthly for cleaning service. My being thrifty saves him at least $300 a month. My full time personal assistant duties to him are worth at least $1500 monthly. I don't know how much a full time chef runs but ill assume thats at least 1k per month. Want to get down and dirty, sex costs about $75 a pop, thats another $1500 a month. Thats about $11k a month, over $110k per year. A good wife will give you over a million dollars in services over the course of a decade, and how many get that much back in a divorce?

She's bored, you can't give what she desires and vice versa. Move on, go for the divorce and get up to speed with dating new girls.
A girl is always looking for a real man:
- a man who doesn't pay for anything
- a man where they can look up to
- a man that guides her
Summarized: the alpha male.

You now what they these days: the more you treat them like "shit" the more they become addicted to you. That's because you're interesting to them and not like 99,99% of the other guys out there.