Why does she cheat

Yeah I understand that.

No kids here though. It really wouldn't be right bringing kids into the relationship as it stands. Think I'd be devastated if she got pregnant. Which is a shitty thing to say about my "wife".

You are not fulfilling her needs at home.

Say it with me... All women are whores.

I was married for 25+ years, divorced, and got back together with a guy I knew before I married. He was also divorced.

Even though we didn't live together, I would fly to see him and stay for weeks at a time. In all the years we were together, I would find evidence of him emailing his ex, even though he always swore he wasn't in touch with her. (She had remarried) His grown children even indicated he and the ex talked on the phone. After 10 years of this, I had enough and never wanted to see him again. Once I divorced, I wasn't sending emails or calling my ex on the phone. I felt it wasn't necessary for him to call or email his ex either.

Well, he found another girlfriend after I left. She was very wealthy, and after 2 years, he called me and said she kicked him out of her home because she caught him on the internet with another woman/women who lived 2000 miles away. He didn't feel he did anything wrong.

He's been living with another woman now (very pretty) for at least two years, and he emails me about once a month and flirts with me.

What I'm trying to say is that there are people who are in a relationship, but in order to feel more secure, they have to have someone on the side, even though it's online. I say it's cheating. It's not your fault. You sound like a good guy. If you leave her, I will bet she'll do the same to another guy. People don't change.

You can forgive. I did, but I will never forget. I'm not bitter. We had good times, too, but I wouldn't take him back for anything. Oh...by the way, he told me that while he was married (25 years), he thought of me all the time but didn't know how to get in touch with me. Believe me, the guy has never been promiscuous...I can bet he never physically cheated on his wife or me, but he's obviously a flirt and needs several emotional bonds. I don't trust him.

Last Edited by nutmeg on 03/23/2014 12:48 PM

Your felching gallon of cum every and each week. Sell house, sell cars, discretely. Buy gold and hide gold. That way your whore can not give your house and your money to the other man she anally fucks when your at work.

Take the money out of the bank, sell off anything you have for cash. DO NOT LEAVE IT IN THE BANK. The judge will give it all to the whore!

Document and see a lawyer about what to document and how to prepare. How can it hurt to prepare?

She's not necessarily having sex so just flirting is not usually called cheating. But maybe she's thinking of it.

No kids? Then the way is clear. Maybe you should flirt too. Abundance!

A sign of the times? Men cheat just as much as women do.

She has needs that you did not or were unable to fulfill so she is getting those needs met elsewhere. As for what those unmet needs are, the only way to know is to ask her.

Yes if you have gone without food for long enough you will eat the banana shells people throw away, then they will probably accuse you for stealing afterwards

First rule of thumb... DON'T TRUST ANYONE.

And hell yeah she is cheating or she is getting ready to, been there, done that shit. Now I just don't care anymore and will never let anyone close to me again in order to protect myself.

Yeah, good idea. Intercept her communications. That's only worth what, 4 years in the federal pen?

Lol, women are like motors, keep em well serviced don't let the lube run dry and give em a long hard screw once in a wile and you wont have much trouble!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wait a minute, you left your wife, family and friends and moved cross country to be with her?
let me guess....you met her online?
you are a pathetic dumbass!

If you know you can't forgive her, then stop pretending. Don't let yourself or your wife fool you. See through the denial, and realize that you are better than forgiving someone who doesn't repent for their harm against you.

Everything humans do is a result of unfulfilled desires.

Fixed it for ya.

As a woman, here's my best guess from what I've read. She has been like this from the beginning so it's not you or the relationship that has grown stale. This is on her. So then, why does she do it? For some reason she wants the attention from any and all men. It may be she was abused or neglected as a child, it could be that she's looking for better possibilities. You need to figure out why she does it and then decide if you want to stick around and help her heal.
If you aren't committed to helping her, leave.
If you want to help her, stay but insist on getting some outside help.

Where can a guy get sex for $75 a pop from a hot girl? That's the service I need, and the right girl can have a place to stay.

Think about the services a man provides a woman. If he's a good man and she's good to him, they're a wash.

Kids are a joint obligation - (hopefully) freely undertaken. That said, a man morally owes NO money to a woman other than legitimate child support. That's support, not financing.

Child support should be in kind - food, clothing, shelter.

BTW, prenups are great for organizing agreements between parties, but they suck as far as getting the lawyers out of the divorce game. The first thing the lawyers will suck money for is to argue and try to break the prenup. Only after the money is all gone will they agree to terms of the divorce.

Men are supposed to cheat. It's what it is to be a man.

Women are supposed to be pure as ivory snow. Pure, clean, virginal and unsullied by the touch of another man.

It's obvious.

If it's you that pays for things, stop paying for internet access. Cut her off at the source. :)

Well, when I was banging her... seriously, "sex" is far too mild a word for it. I had her in all ways imaginable, and probably a few that most would consider impossible, or at least implausible... anyway, when I was done in her, she told me that you have a tiny little "member" and when it rarely DOES "rise to the occasion", you're done before she even realized you'd entered her.

But, again, she's a lying, cheating whore, so that might not ALL be true. Well, apart from me treating her like a barnyard animal... THAT HAPPENED.

Split. And yes if you can prove the marriage was irretrievably broken by her, the only money you'll be out is the divorce itself. Best decision I ever made, do yourself a favor and follow suit. Went from abject misery to having the time of my life just by leaving my awful insane wife. The hassle and legal fees are all entirely worthwhile, there's no substitute for true happiness. I have more money than I could ever need now, and best of all I'm not just hemorrhaging all of it on the ridiculous whims of a psychotic waste of space. Just being free to date women worth a damn again is the most liberating experience. Nothing like going through a terrible marriage to make someone appreciate the good life again.

If women did not give us sons theyd be useless.

Whatever it costs, any guy should divorce a frigid bitch like you, who sees sex as a service she is selling to her husband at "$75 a pop".

Seriously, how could you enjoy sex with a female who felt like she was selling sex to you, marriage or otherwise?

I think you are grossly overestimating your value to your mate. If he makes that much money to "hire" you, he could easily get sex from other women at the grocery store just by flirting, he doesn't need to pay you "$75 a pop" for sex with a frigid wife like you.