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Anonymous Coward User ID: 47079541 United States 04/03/2014 06:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Glad you left yourself an opening. Happens to the best of us my friend. yep never say never. #1 rule of enlightenment. I am old enough to know better than to say "never." Every time I state "never," the Lord goes and makes a hypocrite of me. Personal examples: "I'm never going to college!" Now working towards my 4th collegial degree. "Never getting married!" Now almost 13 years. "Never having any daughters!" 3 kids, all girls. "Never doing social work!" +5 years... In my experience, it would be a bad idea to say I would never have an affair. |
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Whoop-D-Do User ID: 15542544 Australia 04/03/2014 06:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So refreshing to hear these stories! From my experience in nursing homes a great number of men would come daily and sit with their wives. Made the room into a lounge room and just be beside them. Even when dementia or illness took their minds, they still would come. Like the notebook . I lost my faith in men before that job. I was able to let someone in after that. Not a lot of women showed up like the men did. Actually none came daily. **and it sure wasnt the food the men came for&**;) |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 51016519 United States 04/03/2014 06:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | anyone is capable of anything given the situation. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 56365343 best of luck to you all this thread feels dead I don't believe that, these little things like morals, respect, and love kind of get in the way. Just tired of being reminded he's an adulterous lout. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 3063399 United States 04/03/2014 06:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | True confession time: I cheated on all three wives. Once I fucked my soon-to-be sister-in-law at the hotel where we were having our wedding that afternoon. My wife never found out about it until years later when her sister told her (the sister thought she was dying and wanted to confess her sin before she faced GOD… so she said.) Another wife later on - and I had her brides maid the night of the rehearsal dinner. The first marriage at 20 - we flew to Vegas for my bachelor party. We had a few hookers entertaining the guys. The next day one of the hookers from the night before was in the Cassino and I picked her up and had her one more time “just for good luck - and at no additional fee” so she told me. How can you turn that kind of a deal down? That wife knew the bachelor party had gotten a bit wild. But she didn’t know about the honeymoon and the couple of threesomes after I said “I DO” that first time. Basically I’ve been a male whore. (More accurately a slut - because I gave it away never dreaming I could have gotten paid for it…) The memories are both funny and painful. I screwed over some really nice women who loved me and who didn’t deserve the kind of shit my crazy ego demanded. Years later I apologized to all of them.The ones that knew, I answered their questions. The wives that didn’t know were simply told that we’d been kind of wild… no point going into details and hurting them, or others even further… Guys … do not do what I did. It was (or seemed like) fun at the time. The burden of guilt and the pain I caused, the marriages I wrecked and the misery I caused them, and others was just friggin insanity. It was years in therapy before I understood the what and why. And years later before I could forgive myself for what I had done. It all comes at a price. and a very high price, at that. The money the divorces cost, the property settlements, kids lives fucked up, and more… that was awful and it all came right back to my doorstep. Culturally we are told that we can separate sex from love. And to some extent that is true. But we cannot separate sex from the consequences it will bring along with it, when used for the wrong reasons and with the wrong people. Think before you jump into the hay with that hot-looking stranger. She may turn your world upside down in ways you NEVER imagined could happen. Especially when your wife walks in with a photographer and the names and addresses of the girls you’ve been screwing. Judges do not look kindly on young men who are totally unable to control their sexual appetites. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 21548336 United States 04/03/2014 06:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I hated my wife's guts and she cheating constantly, and I still did not. It is possible, and it is a good idea not to cheat under any circumstances. That is what I learned. At the end of the day, I was glad I didn't cheat even though she was a monster. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 56297077 United States 04/03/2014 06:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Are there men out there that have never had an affair? Committed adultery? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 45702082 Are there? white men don't. All black men do. I have never heard of a black man who was faithful to his wife, not ever. white men also do not rape, normally, only when immersed in a negroid culture. In Sweden in the past 10 years there has not been one rape by a white male, 100% of them were by darkies. similar stats in other white nations. Yet white lesbian indoctrinated females think white men are evil and black men are good. Alien hypnosis. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 31797661 United States 04/03/2014 06:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Fiancé and I have been seeing each other since college (11year ann.) the other day actually. We are going to get married in January. Although there has been temptation, I have thankfully never given in. Wouldn't be worth it honestly...I mean how could I especially since we are both die hard NY Giants fans lol. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 31535594 United States 04/03/2014 06:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | thanks for the honest sharing in this thread, the trolls may take over soon and call all married men cheaters. I believed they all cheated before I met my husband, but now I believe he has been faithful during our marriage and he has acquaintances who dont cheat on their wives either. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 56365343 United States 04/03/2014 07:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I hated my wife's guts and she cheating constantly, and I still did not. It is possible, and it is a good idea not to cheat under any circumstances. That is what I learned. At the end of the day, I was glad I didn't cheat even though she was a monster. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21548336 in a different situation i would not have taken an i for an i. you are a better man than i i only did it once to teach that cheatin sociopathic narcissist a lesson before i left |
The Old Timer User ID: 52931917 United States 04/03/2014 07:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Got married in 1954....I would never cheat but at the same time I simply have never met anyone more wonderful than my wife Quoting: The Old Timer That is the nicest thing I think I have ever read on GLP! Good for you, sir -- you and your wife are very lucky people, and I hope that life continues to be wonderful for you both! We have our 60th coming up in July Lets go Brandon!! What doesn't kill us...makes us more interesting Either you live for something worth dying for....or you rot away and die on the installment plan quote: Mr Bill when I post something....I will remove any post I find disrespectful or offensive..... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 16678904 United States 04/03/2014 07:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ive never cheated on a GF or wifey. Back in the day, I already had a girlfriend, and, the captain of the cheerleading team had the biggest thing for me (so did another girl in another town at the same time).... I used to get pretty messed up at parties, and, would find hands down my pants etc. sometimes, but, never ever did I act on it, it was more like sexual harassment, but, it's not like I freaked out either though... I just calmly backed out. I figure the intent in my heart of being true was held up at all times. weird days back late teens early 20's. I musta been quite the looker, now I just look like shit on a stick. |
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Obiwanbeeohbee User ID: 28634688 United States 04/03/2014 07:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | if you watched porn or slapped the monkey thinking of another you cheated. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 53978921 What are you doing here, Grammaw? "A common mistake people make, when trying to design something that is completely foolproof, is to underestimate the ingenuity of complete fools" - Douglas Adams |