Godlike Productions - Discussion Forum
Users Online Now: 2,034 (Who's On?)Visitors Today: 388,212
Pageviews Today: 616,523Threads Today: 213Posts Today: 3,079
07:44 AM


Rate this Thread

Absolute BS Crap Reasonable Nice Amazing
 

serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?

 
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 30699890
United Kingdom
04/18/2014 01:38 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
I suddenly feel that nothing I do from here on in will mean anything to anyone, doesn't matter if I work hard or not, the only person it will mean anything to is myself.If i sell all my belongings and go off round the world for a year, nobody will try to say it isn't sensible.
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 31126036
United States
04/18/2014 01:41 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
And it should matter to yourself. ohyeah
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 47516648
United Kingdom
04/18/2014 01:43 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
Im sorry you feel that way. you should check out the book things the grandchildren should know by mark oliver Everett. he is in the same situation as you. stay happy and don't give up.
Anonymous Coward (OP)
User ID: 30699890
United Kingdom
04/18/2014 01:44 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
Im sorry you feel that way. you should check out the book things the grandchildren should know by mark oliver Everett. he is in the same situation as you. stay happy and don't give up.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 47516648


thanks i'm going to google that and see if i see anything about it.
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 11159795
United States
04/18/2014 01:44 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
I feel the same way, precious Mom gone, Father a manipulator, best friend just betrayed me.
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 47516648
United Kingdom
04/18/2014 01:46 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
Im sorry you feel that way. you should check out the book things the grandchildren should know by mark oliver Everett. he is in the same situation as you. stay happy and don't give up.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 47516648


thanks i'm going to google that and see if i see anything about it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30699890


its on amazon for £7. plus his cousin was an air hostess who was in one of the 9/11 planes. its a good book.
Anonymous Coward (OP)
User ID: 30699890
United Kingdom
04/18/2014 01:48 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
its on amazon for £7. plus his cousin was an air hostess who was in one of the 9/11 planes. its a good book.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 47516648


i just read the blurb, poor bloke, so his father and mother and sister died and so did various other friends and relatives, and he channeled the feelings in his music.
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 56974553
United States
04/18/2014 01:49 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
I recently lost my only child.

It's a huge process to realign to the world...
to embrace a new reality where you fit in.


When you lose your parent, you lose your past.

When you lose your spouse, you lose your present.

When you lose your child, you lose your future.
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 1429396
United States
04/18/2014 01:50 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
Start your own family get married then you will be working hard for something
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 11159795
United States
04/18/2014 01:52 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
I recently lost my only child.

It's a huge process to realign to the world...
to embrace a new reality where you fit in.


When you lose your parent, you lose your past.

When you lose your spouse, you lose your present.

When you lose your child, you lose your future.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 56974553


hf
zosocodablunardtard

User ID: 1627095
United States
04/18/2014 01:57 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
I am sorry for you. But, you could be like me and have both parents alive and neither one want to have anything to do with you or your kids...Haven't seen my Dad in 20 years and my mother since 2005. They choose not to be involved in my life and my childrens lives. It's hard to be by yourself, but you can do it. I have.
Anonymous Coward (OP)
User ID: 30699890
United Kingdom
04/18/2014 01:57 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
I recently lost my only child.


 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 56974553


i am sorry for your loss.
Anonymous Coward (OP)
User ID: 30699890
United Kingdom
04/18/2014 01:58 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
Start your own family get married then you will be working hard for something
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1429396


i missed that boat many years ago.
Anonymous Coward (OP)
User ID: 30699890
United Kingdom
04/18/2014 02:00 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
I am sorry for you. But, you could be like me and have both parents alive and neither one want to have anything to do with you or your kids...Haven't seen my Dad in 20 years and my mother since 2005. They choose not to be involved in my life and my childrens lives. It's hard to be by yourself, but you can do it. I have.
 Quoting: zosocodablunardtard


thank you, its not that i feel sorry for myself, more that i don't really know what i'm meant to feel now, or what i'm meant to do? continue as i always have, or do something different?
henryk
User ID: 2771636
Georgia
04/18/2014 02:00 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
Life is short and you only get one go at it. Make a difference to someone else's life - go help the disabled or something. Take a trip to a Camphill Village somewhere near you and ask if they need any volunteers.
Liberty or Death
User ID: 55758937
Canada
04/18/2014 02:00 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
I suddenly feel that nothing I do from here on in will mean anything to anyone, doesn't matter if I work hard or not, the only person it will mean anything to is myself.If i sell all my belongings and go off round the world for a year, nobody will try to say it isn't sensible.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30699890


I think you answered your own question buddy. Sell your stuff and travel. It will keep you mind free. You will not be trapped in a world that reminds you of the loss. You will travel and learn new things. Meet new people. You will essentially be reborn. Take a chance on yourself. What's the work that could happen. You come back to what you know and start again.
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 55758937
Canada
04/18/2014 02:01 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
I suddenly feel that nothing I do from here on in will mean anything to anyone, doesn't matter if I work hard or not, the only person it will mean anything to is myself.If i sell all my belongings and go off round the world for a year, nobody will try to say it isn't sensible.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30699890


I think you answered your own question buddy. Sell your stuff and travel. It will keep you mind free. You will not be trapped in a world that reminds you of the loss. You will travel and learn new things. Meet new people. You will essentially be reborn. Take a chance on yourself. What's the work that could happen. You come back to what you know and start again.
 Quoting: Liberty or Death 55758937


I'm sorry for your loss.
Anonymous Coward (OP)
User ID: 30699890
United Kingdom
04/18/2014 02:02 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
I think you answered your own question buddy. Sell your stuff and travel. It will keep you mind free. You will not be trapped in a world that reminds you of the loss. You will travel and learn new things. Meet new people. You will essentially be reborn. Take a chance on yourself. What's the work that could happen. You come back to what you know and start again.
 Quoting: Liberty or Death 55758937


maybe i did answer it myself then.
Anonymous Coward (OP)
User ID: 30699890
United Kingdom
04/18/2014 02:02 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
I'm sorry for your loss.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 55758937


thank you.
Nyblazer

User ID: 53182746
United States
04/18/2014 02:10 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
I lost my parents both before the age of 20 so I can relate to you OP in that sense.

It's easy to get down about your situation, to fall into a depressed state of self pity. My younger brother is like this and has been all his life. He wastes away day after day seeking sympathy from others for his situation. He refuses to take responsibility for himself in most aspects of life, hanging onto the crutch of the rough card life dealt him. He is miserable 24/7. Instead of simply accepting life and moving on he feels resentment towards others who have it better.

My way of coping from a young age was to always looking at any obstacle in life, be it as minuscule as failing a test to as big as losing a loved one, as something that would strengthen my resolve in life. Something that would not allow me to falter in my path. Something that would make my success be that much more rewarding.

I try to use this strength to help my friends who haven't dealt with much tragedy in life. Instead of seeking sympathy for my situation, I find purpose and happiness in helping it motivate others.
Nyblazer
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 56953422
United Kingdom
04/18/2014 02:15 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
I suddenly feel that nothing I do from here on in will mean anything to anyone, doesn't matter if I work hard or not, the only person it will mean anything to is myself.If i sell all my belongings and go off round the world for a year, nobody will try to say it isn't sensible.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30699890


How about the One who will not forsake or leave you? What about the very One who authored your life? Surely seeking Him to fill your mind and daily thoughts is a wonderful thing?
Anonymous Coward (OP)
User ID: 30699890
United Kingdom
04/18/2014 02:19 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
I lost my parents both before the age of 20 so I can relate to you OP in that sense.


 Quoting: Nyblazer


sorry for your loss and thank you for your answer.

Things I am thinking about right now, just hypothetical questions, Christmas of all things, will I celebrate it alone this year or just not bother anymore? Is it worth cooking the dinner just for myself?Do i continue the family traditions by myself?
Anonymous Coward (OP)
User ID: 30699890
United Kingdom
04/18/2014 02:19 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
How about the One who will not forsake or leave you? What about the very One who authored your life? Surely seeking Him to fill your mind and daily thoughts is a wonderful thing?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 56953422


i am sorry and not to offend you but i do not have religious thoughts at all.
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 16051903
United States
04/18/2014 02:24 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
I suddenly feel that nothing I do from here on in will mean anything to anyone, doesn't matter if I work hard or not, the only person it will mean anything to is myself.If i sell all my belongings and go off round the world for a year, nobody will try to say it isn't sensible.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30699890


There is someone out there for everyone, and not everyone is the same. Find love, Find friendship, find a healthy relationship with something, or someone. Let your mind be free and understand that everything in life happens for a reason. No "god" BS. Be yourself, and love yourself. There is so much to life then just putting yourself down.

We are here for you, and so is everyone else ( excluding the shills )afrohf
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 16051903
United States
04/18/2014 02:26 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
I suddenly feel that nothing I do from here on in will mean anything to anyone, doesn't matter if I work hard or not, the only person it will mean anything to is myself.If i sell all my belongings and go off round the world for a year, nobody will try to say it isn't sensible.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30699890


How about the One who will not forsake or leave you? What about the very One who authored your life? Surely seeking Him to fill your mind and daily thoughts is a wonderful thing?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 56953422


Stop with the "god" bs. Religion is a paganistic outlet for closed minded sheep. Don't fall for the trade.retards2shoefit
Anonymous Coward (OP)
User ID: 30699890
United Kingdom
04/18/2014 02:28 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
Let your mind be free and understand that everything in life happens for a reason.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16051903


this is awesome.
Nyblazer

User ID: 53182746
United States
04/18/2014 02:29 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
I lost my parents both before the age of 20 so I can relate to you OP in that sense.


 Quoting: Nyblazer


sorry for your loss and thank you for your answer.

Things I am thinking about right now, just hypothetical questions, Christmas of all things, will I celebrate it alone this year or just not bother anymore? Is it worth cooking the dinner just for myself?Do i continue the family traditions by myself?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30699890




Do you have any other family at all? If so strengthen your relationships with them. If not I'm sure you have friends who care about you. Focus on the relationships you do have. Gotta stop reflecting on what you don't have.

People respect and are often times inspired by the strength others have in dealing with a less than ideal situation. Everybody loves a story of human resolve and overcoming the obstacles of life. It's the hand you were dealt, there is no point in wallowing in it. Make the best of things. There is always someone worse off then you who is not giving up, what excuse do you have?
Nyblazer
Anonymous Coward (OP)
User ID: 30699890
United Kingdom
04/18/2014 02:33 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
There is always someone worse off then you who is not giving up, what excuse do you have?
 Quoting: Nyblazer


sorry if i'm coming across as wallowing and depressed, i'm really not, or at least i don't think i am, i'm merely thinking on what the future holds now, and what is going to change.
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 34557437
United Kingdom
04/18/2014 02:36 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
Dude whereabouts are you in the UK?
Anonymous Coward (OP)
User ID: 30699890
United Kingdom
04/18/2014 02:41 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
Dude whereabouts are you in the UK?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 34557437


Lincolnshire
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 49573289
United States
04/18/2014 02:44 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: serious topic - both my parents are dead, all alone in the world, how to feel?
You are never alone and the world desperately needs your light. Sometimes we don't even realize how even our smallest gestures of goodwill can change lives hf





GLP