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One Of The Worst Things You Can Do To A Child Is Alienate Them From One Of Their Parents | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 57906682  United States11/10/2014 07:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I miss my son, but I'm sure he misses me more. I'd do anything to be a part of his life. But I have a narcissistic Ex fighting me tooth and nail trying her best to alienate me from him in an act of revenge. I haven't been able to speak to my son in three weeks now. Narcissistic personality disorder and parental alienation go hand in hand. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57906682 perhaps if you would stop labeling her with terms that are basically meaningless other than as an insult, she might consider you as more then just a loser. Perhaps if my ex valued our sons love above her own hatred she would reconsider attempting to alienate a son from his father. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 57906682 United States11/10/2014 07:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I agree that there are always exceptions, particularly if a parent is abusive or is hurting their child by being in their life. I was originally speaking about a parent keeping their child from the other parent just to spite them - that is wrong no matter how you try to justify it. Quoting: Rising Son And that is the situation I face my friend. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 57906682 United States11/10/2014 10:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I miss my son, but I'm sure he misses me more. I'd do anything to be a part of his life. But I have a narcissistic Ex fighting me tooth and nail trying her best to alienate me from him in an act of revenge. I haven't been able to speak to my son in three weeks now. Narcissistic personality disorder and parental alienation go hand in hand. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57906682 perhaps if you would stop labeling her with terms that are basically meaningless other than as an insult, she might consider you as more then just a loser. And so we have here the tale of narcissistic personality disorder and the enabler. One encouraging the other to alienate a parent and a child. I pray to GOD that they would read other peoples words instead of cyber stalking me through VPNs.... I can't even anon post in a place with thousands of threads with out them hunting me down to mess with me all the while keeping my son from me. Just to show me that they can. Because they are bored and vindictive and don't care for an innocent life like they should. And that is what kills. It hurts bad. That some should hate so bad that would harm innocent people to get revenge against those whom they feel slighted... It is so messed up . Our son deserves better than this... He has rights. I wish they would respect him instead of doing this BS.... How hard to you jerks seek me out? for real? |
Rising Son (OP) User ID: 65030198 United States11/10/2014 10:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I miss my son, but I'm sure he misses me more. I'd do anything to be a part of his life. But I have a narcissistic Ex fighting me tooth and nail trying her best to alienate me from him in an act of revenge. I haven't been able to speak to my son in three weeks now. Narcissistic personality disorder and parental alienation go hand in hand. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57906682 perhaps if you would stop labeling her with terms that are basically meaningless other than as an insult, she might consider you as more then just a loser. And so we have here the tale of narcissistic personality disorder and the enabler. One encouraging the other to alienate a parent and a child. I pray to GOD that they would read other peoples words instead of cyber stalking me through VPNs.... I can't even anon post in a place with thousands of threads with out them hunting me down to mess with me all the while keeping my son from me. Just to show me that they can. Because they are bored and vindictive and don't care for an innocent life like they should. And that is what kills. It hurts bad. That some should hate so bad that would harm innocent people to get revenge against those whom they feel slighted... It is so messed up . Our son deserves better than this... He has rights. I wish they would respect him instead of doing this BS.... How hard to you jerks seek me out? for real? I am sorry you have to endure this. You can take comfort in the fact that your son will grow up and begin to figure things out on his own, if he hasn't already. When he does, he will likely resent those that manipulated him, keeping him from you. Don't trouble yourself with vindictive and hateful people, just focus on who you know you are - a loving parent. "Be still, and know that I am God." Psalm 46:10 Truth needs no validation because it is self-evident and undeniable. Therefore, anything that requires validation to be realized or justified as truth must contain at least some degree of falsehood. Light travels faster than sound. This is why some people appear bright until you hear them speak. [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 63012714 United States11/10/2014 10:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A lot of mothers today are not mothers to their children but they become their "best friends". It does not work as the mother hides things from the father thus teaching the kid that lying is the best way out of trouble. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 49699310 The child learns that "Mommy says yes and daddy says no". There are even times when Mommy wants to say "no" but she can't. So she drags the kid out in front of Daddy and asks if the child can do something and daddy says "no". So that saves mommy from being seen as the one that said "no". Anytime there is a time that the child needs to be told "no" then both parents should decide that before telling the child. The child should see that both parents are saying "no" instead of demonizing one parent in the eyes of the child. You would be surprised how often scheming mothers do this to the father. It creates big problem in the future. Problems that the mother was too dumb to see coming. . well, that's what happens when... :youreafag: |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 45705112 United States11/12/2014 12:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Unfortunately, sometimes one parent gets lost to substance abuse and/or insanity, and to protect the child, you must explain what is going on with that parent and enforce rules to protect the child. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35688242 I had to do this with my child's father, who would call to talk to his son, which was great... but would do it drunk. He had a terrible track record of upsetting the boy, even threatening suicide to him. So if he called drunk, he was told to call back sober, and I had to have some conversations with my son about mental illness and substance abuse WAAAAAY too early so he would understand what was going on. I did my best to give my son good male role models, including taking in a "Mr. Mom" who was a solid guy recovering from a severe on-the-job back injury and needed a free place to stay while getting medical treatment. For two years he filled a very important role and my son benefitted from having him around and seeing the two of us having a healthy platonic friendship. Boy Scouts, band, and JROTC were also helpful to fill that gap. I was in a similar situation. I tried to stay out of it as much as possible, but over time, my daughter began to notice that things weren't the way they should be. I covered for the ex for years, but at that point, I just had to explain things to her in a way that didn't sound like I was putting him down. It has been about 4 years since and she's seen even more and realized even more on her own. The best a parent can do is stay out of the line of fire and render first aid for all the emotional and mental damage when necessary. Maybe you stupid ass ho bags shouldn't have let degenerate men piss their sperm inside you. Here you are acting like you have the moral high ground over the dude when you were the slut that brought his kid into the world. Did you expect him to change just because you got knocked up? Don't flatter yourselves. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 45705112 United States11/12/2014 05:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Unfortunately, sometimes one parent gets lost to substance abuse and/or insanity, and to protect the child, you must explain what is going on with that parent and enforce rules to protect the child. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35688242 I had to do this with my child's father, who would call to talk to his son, which was great... but would do it drunk. He had a terrible track record of upsetting the boy, even threatening suicide to him. So if he called drunk, he was told to call back sober, and I had to have some conversations with my son about mental illness and substance abuse WAAAAAY too early so he would understand what was going on. I did my best to give my son good male role models, including taking in a "Mr. Mom" who was a solid guy recovering from a severe on-the-job back injury and needed a free place to stay while getting medical treatment. For two years he filled a very important role and my son benefitted from having him around and seeing the two of us having a healthy platonic friendship. Boy Scouts, band, and JROTC were also helpful to fill that gap. I was in a similar situation. I tried to stay out of it as much as possible, but over time, my daughter began to notice that things weren't the way they should be. I covered for the ex for years, but at that point, I just had to explain things to her in a way that didn't sound like I was putting him down. It has been about 4 years since and she's seen even more and realized even more on her own. The best a parent can do is stay out of the line of fire and render first aid for all the emotional and mental damage when necessary. Maybe you stupid ass ho bags shouldn't have let degenerate men piss their sperm inside you. Here you are acting like you have the moral high ground over the dude when you were the slut that brought his kid into the world. Did you expect him to change just because you got knocked up? Don't flatter yourselves. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 65064783  Australia11/12/2014 06:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Tell that to the bitch who estranged our grandson from his father and from us, his grandparents and then went one step further and concocted a story to have an AVO enforced and when my son meet up with his boy by chance in the shopping centre, she had him arrested for breaching the AVO. He is in jail at present. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 45705112 United States11/12/2014 08:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Tell that to the bitch who estranged our grandson from his father and from us, his grandparents and then went one step further and concocted a story to have an AVO enforced and when my son meet up with his boy by chance in the shopping centre, she had him arrested for breaching the AVO. He is in jail at present. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65064783 Time to call Vinnie and Guido with their violin cases. |
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