Are American's Living Above their Means? | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 31839399 United States 06/09/2014 03:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's an expectation of instant gratification. People have to have the best of everything, and they have to have it NOW. When's the last time you heard of anyone "waiting for it to go on sale"? When's the last time you heard "I'm saving up for..."? When's the last time you heard a parent tell a child to wait for Christmas or birthday for that toy or game or electronics? |
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BunBun (OP) User ID: 55789547 United States 06/09/2014 04:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's an expectation of instant gratification. People have to have the best of everything, and they have to have it NOW. When's the last time you heard of anyone "waiting for it to go on sale"? When's the last time you heard "I'm saving up for..."? When's the last time you heard a parent tell a child to wait for Christmas or birthday for that toy or game or electronics? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31839399 That is true. I have a tendency to buy things for my kids without making them wait. They are very instant gratification. One thing that is different than when I was a child, we used to go for vacations. They weren't extravagant. We usually went to Oklahoma or Silver Dollar City. We would try to go on the cheap and the whole thing was put on dad's credit card. My husband and I cannot afford vacations at all. We haven't been able to do so for years. That is a change since my dad. But when we were kids, you could get a job at Beechcraft or Boeing or Cessna and now, you can't get hired in the aircraft industry unless you are an engineer. They just aren't hiring. Things have changed. Christard and Lover of God |
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beeches User ID: 28167778 United States 06/09/2014 04:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I realize there is much inflation and the prices for everything have risen and our income has not risen at the same rate. Quoting: BunBun But do you think it is our expectations of our comfort that we are choosing to live above our means? My dad was heavy in credit debt by the time he died. A lot of people are unable to support themselves in the means which they have become accustomed to without credit. We are living paycheck to paycheck and hand to mouth. Is it us being selfish or is it something else? No, I believe it is something else. People are not aware that there is any other way than credit, buy now, everyone has it, why not me. Young people, at least. Tell them about the freedom of being without debt and without junk that is worthless in a few years. Tell them you can buy a smaller house and pay it down in 15 years. Tell them they do NOT have to go to college unless they need to. A somewhat less classy job without any college debt is not a bad idea at all. Great thread. Last Edited by beeches on 06/09/2014 04:12 PM Liberalism is totalitarianism with a human face – Thomas Sowell |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 58751225 United States 06/09/2014 04:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We made the mistake of using the British model of management and industrial relations, which is adversarial. We made the added mistake of following hardcore neo-liberal economics and neo-cons who pushed it. We would have been much wiser to have taken a leaf from the Germans and Japanese. They weren't stupid enough to eat themselves alive. |
beeches User ID: 28167778 United States 06/09/2014 04:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We made the mistake of using the British model of management and industrial relations, which is adversarial. We made the added mistake of following hardcore neo-liberal economics and neo-cons who pushed it. We would have been much wiser to have taken a leaf from the Germans and Japanese. They weren't stupid enough to eat themselves alive. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 58751225 I lived in Germany for a decade. If you didn't have the cash, you did not buy it. People living in small apartments and houses do not need to spend a year's salary to furnish it. You can do without a car very nicely, too. All that rubbed off on me. Give me my American yard, land, and freedom - but I am now permanently cautious with money! Liberalism is totalitarianism with a human face – Thomas Sowell |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 58751225 United States 06/09/2014 04:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think people in other countries save more than Americans. Didn't Bush beg Americans to start saving, I think in the same speech where he said small business was the backbone of the country? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 47013645 Bush told people to go out,spend, and consume! The U.S. has been a consumer driven economy for a long time now, this is possible because we have the world's reserve currency. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 58751225 United States 06/09/2014 04:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We made the mistake of using the British model of management and industrial relations, which is adversarial. We made the added mistake of following hardcore neo-liberal economics and neo-cons who pushed it. We would have been much wiser to have taken a leaf from the Germans and Japanese. They weren't stupid enough to eat themselves alive. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 58751225 I lived in Germany for a decade. If you didn't have the cash, you did not buy it. People living in small apartments and houses do not need to spend a year's salary to furnish it. You can do without a car very nicely, too. All that rubbed off on me. Give me my American yard, land, and freedom - but I am now permanently cautious with money! It's hard to compare western European countries and the U.S., for one thing the U.S. is huge in and of itself, the U.S. has abundant natural resources, is for all intents and purposes energy independent (if it chooses to be), the U.S. has a huge internal domestic market. None of the Western Euro countries and U.K. have that. The U.S. also has plenty of land-real estate, it's not remotely as densely populated as the U.K. and Western Europe except for certain regions, notably the northeast. It's not difficult to see how the car became so dominant in the U.S. Globalization and de-industrialization has been disasterous for the U.S. and others. So called free trade likewise. |
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dschis1000 User ID: 47839898 United States 06/09/2014 04:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think people in other countries save more than Americans. Didn't Bush beg Americans to start saving, I think in the same speech where he said small business was the backbone of the country? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 47013645 Bush told people to go out,spend, and consume! The U.S. has been a consumer driven economy for a long time now, this is possible because we have the world's reserve currency. and then ship out or automate of all of the manufacturing in the name of saving effort/time, inflate the cost of higher education to unsurmountable levels, dumb down the education system academically and for everyday life (grunt work). Add to that "new" products that are far less effecient and worse for you mentally, physically and spiritually. you have an elite in financial, advertising religious and ,yes, local/state/federal government that are pushing their own constant need for "more" and will do anything to achieve their own wants. Damn the consequences to their fellow citizens and in some cases their own families/friends. I've seen this coming since the late 70's. May the Heavenly Father have mercy on us |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2417276 United States 06/09/2014 05:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I work for a financial institution and I see this all the time. And it isn't just the lower income folks either. I see people making good money and they are broke before the month is over and paying the stupid tax (nsf fees). And it's not uncommon to see people with 7 year vehicle notes. That is just abominable, the vehicle will be falling apart by the time you pay it off. |
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LaniJane User ID: 59048951 United States 06/09/2014 05:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I work for a financial institution and I see this all the time. And it isn't just the lower income folks either. I see people making good money and they are broke before the month is over and paying the stupid tax (nsf fees). Quoting: chuckles45 And it's not uncommon to see people with 7 year vehicle notes. That is just abominable, the vehicle will be falling apart by the time you pay it off. The thing is, if someone is so cash-strapped they have to take out a loan for 7 yrs., there stands a good chance they'll default long before the note is paid. "There are nights when the wolves are silent and only the moon howls." ~ George Carlin |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 59055838 United Kingdom 06/09/2014 05:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I realize there is much inflation and the prices for everything have risen and our income has not risen at the same rate. Quoting: BunBun But do you think it is our expectations of our comfort that we are choosing to live above our means? My dad was heavy in credit debt by the time he died. A lot of people are unable to support themselves in the means which they have become accustomed to without credit. We are living paycheck to paycheck and hand to mouth. Is it us being selfish or is it something else? It's because you don't know how to use the apostrophe. Why did you use the term "American's" and not "Mean's?" Is it just arbitrary? Sometimes, just throw one in behind an "s" and other times, not? |
LaniJane User ID: 59048951 United States 06/09/2014 05:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I realize there is much inflation and the prices for everything have risen and our income has not risen at the same rate. Quoting: BunBun But do you think it is our expectations of our comfort that we are choosing to live above our means? My dad was heavy in credit debt by the time he died. A lot of people are unable to support themselves in the means which they have become accustomed to without credit. We are living paycheck to paycheck and hand to mouth. Is it us being selfish or is it something else? It's because you don't know how to use the apostrophe. Why did you use the term "American's" and not "Mean's?" Is it just arbitrary? Sometimes, just throw one in behind an "s" and other times, not? Shouldn't be an apostrophe anywhere near that thread title! "There are nights when the wolves are silent and only the moon howls." ~ George Carlin |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 45485322 United States 06/09/2014 05:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I work for a financial institution and I see this all the time. And it isn't just the lower income folks either. I see people making good money and they are broke before the month is over and paying the stupid tax (nsf fees). Quoting: chuckles45 And it's not uncommon to see people with 7 year vehicle notes. That is just abominable, the vehicle will be falling apart by the time you pay it off. The thing is, if someone is so cash-strapped they have to take out a loan for 7 yrs., there stands a good chance they'll default long before the note is paid. I remember back when I graduated from college and moved to Philadelphia to elope with my husband (of 30 years). I left my old car home and he had an old hand-me-down from his parents, which is what all the kids drove back in those days. Well, his car totally died and here we were in a big city with no wheels. So, we had to go out and purchase a new car. We got the cheapest new car we could get, which was a Ford Escort without A/C. We borrowed money from his parents on a 3-year loan and paid it back within a year or two. I've personally never heard of a seven-year loan, but I can imagine young people who don't have great-paying jobs having to take out a five-year loan (perhaps even a seven-year loan). It keeps the payments low when you are strapped during the month. The trick is to pay it back early and rather than taking vacations, placing that money into the car payment. I'm not sure about the car falling apart by the end of seven years. If you only drive it 10 or 12K miles, you will still have way under 100K by the time you have it paid off. I'm certainly no expert in cars, but we've always driven our vehicles for 150K or more and kept them about ten years. We aren't poor, either, making salaries which place us securely into upper middle class (top 5% with money in savings). I personally can't see why anyone would get rid of a car before it is worn out OR not pay extra on a loan to pay it off early. Neither makes sense to me. |
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Epic Beard Guy User ID: 26240425 United States 06/09/2014 07:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I voted yes, but that doesn't apply to everyone. There are a lot of people out here working their asses off. I work 50 to 55 hours a week, then go home and take care of all the animals. Nobody owes me anything, and I owe nobody. I have worked for everything I have. My whole family is that way. We never look for a hand-out. We may not have all the shit that some people collect, but we have enough. I respect people that work for what they have, and I'm disgusted by those that don't. Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. "America is at that awkward stage. It's too late to work within the system, but too early to shoot the bastards." -- Claire Wolfe |