What's up at the club? a general discussion of the pros and cons and tips.

I'm a male. I like to get a buzz going and hit the dance floor. Whatever happens, happens. Of course I want to get with a woman but worrying about making that happen is such a downer.

I'm a short little white guy, 5'9 so right away being a prospect for woman at the bar is pretty negligible, in the sense of standing around.

I have found the key for us short people, it's all about expressing yourself on the dance floor. I prefer a bar that plays edm and similar genres. I'm not an amazing dancer but attempt to be unique from the fist pumpers and swayers. My style is simple and peppered aspects of the robot and just going with the songs unique instrumental drops. When I move to the random parts of a song beyond the 4 4 beat, people notice.

I am going to break from my point with some bs on the dance floor. I despise people, mostly men that push their way on the floor and just stand there looking around. No woman will approach you with this method. You have to move. Dance bro. It gets to the point where I Will be dancing hard and flailing about and bump into one of this stationaries who gets offended and looks at me ready to fight. Bumping into another bro dancing just turns into sorries of my bad, followed by fist punch.

If you want, you tube some dance moves and practice some really simple foot work . I haven't done this because I'm very heavy footed from construction, but my one nimble friend does some simple foot work and people are blown away, people in my city can't dance beyond swaying and fist pumping it's too funny to be noticed with simple moves.

Although I'm a Sexual being, when a gorgeous girl tries to pull me to dance only because my dancing woo'd her, I will deny her to gain something from it. I regret all the times I've turned down ladies at last call but the unknown gain from having a woman gesture that she wants you is the majority of the pleasure.

Like the old saying, the satisfaction is in the process of getting what you want, and when you finally get it the process is complete' yielding no more satisfaction. It's put some other way that sounds way better..

I love to dance, I really do , being around random whose enthusiasm shows and comes off eachother is the satisfaction. Blowing a load is what it is, but a night of dancing and mingling and sensing woman's lust is priceless.