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Why does my girlfriend abuse me verbally

 
Adamic Seed nli
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06/26/2014 11:38 AM
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Re: Why does my girlfriend abuse me verbally
A technique to end public taunting by friend or partner:

First, share with her that you don't like it, it hurts your feelings. Ask her to agree to stop—; she must verbally agree to stop, no weasel words.
Then, when she does it around other people, you remind her in front of the others that she agreed not to say those things, and walk away.

Walking away sends a powerful message that you will not take it, and it holds the light up to her keeping her word in front of the witness of others.

Or she is just crude, maybe hip, or abusive. I suppose it depends how you feel.

good luck, and be prepared to leave, but don't be too sensitive about normal joshing, I guess.
Adamic Seed nli
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06/26/2014 11:47 AM
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...another method to deal with taunts is to never go for the bait, be calm and allways say, "Whatever" casually, you know the way to say "What Ever" bored -like. Never react!

I guess she is insecure, isn't that why we abuse verbally? I also tell myself, "everything they say is really all about them, how they feel about themselves, if they were to describe themselves; it's almost never about You.
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06/26/2014 12:03 PM
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Re: Why does my girlfriend abuse me verbally
Maybe she wants you to go away.
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06/26/2014 12:08 PM
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Re: Why does my girlfriend abuse me verbally
My girlfriend call me dump, stupid.
She call me weakling, tiny dick, fat Mormon virgin.
She call me Gay, Homosexual, dick sucker.
Yet she keeps talking to me.
And keep asking me to go out and have fun with her.
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Don't marry the slug, she will only get worse
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06/26/2014 12:15 PM

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06/26/2014 12:19 PM
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Re: Why does my girlfriend abuse me verbally
she's a dominatrix type
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