My "slutiness" in College has left me really paranoid | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 44747932 United States 06/26/2014 10:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm now a senior and paranoid as Hell that every guy serious guy I meet knows about my past as a freshman. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 58074953 How do I go about explaining it if it comes up??? This one guy I like a lot is in a fraternity and I smashed 5 guys in said fraternity when I was a freshman and I'm so scared he'll find out. Advize? This is the least of your problems. Its called the law of Sowing and Reaping. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 759363 Canada 06/26/2014 10:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was a slut early in college. Knew it then, know it now. Never bothered me because I had safe sex and knew one day I would settle down and have responsibilities and wanted to sow my wild oats and get it all out of my system when it was acceptable to. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 58074953 I'm now a senior and paranoid as Hell that every guy serious guy I meet knows about my past as a freshman. How do I go about explaining it if it comes up??? This one guy I like a lot is in a fraternity and I smashed 5 guys in said fraternity when I was a freshman and I'm so scared he'll find out. Advize? You "smashed" 5 guys in a frat? You still sound like a slut to me. Who the fuck uses the phrase "smash"? Oh yeah, a slut does. yeah that is as ghetto as it gets. Prolly covered in tats and pieced tongue, vag, nipples and other disgusting whatever |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 4948678 United States 06/26/2014 10:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh fuck....I replied too soon. I wouldn't have said shit if I knew I was talking to a dude....... Why are you prejudiced? Pretend i am a female and give me a reasonable reply that is helpful. queering whores don't make the world work |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 59661584 United States 06/26/2014 10:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was a slut early in college. Knew it then, know it now. Never bothered me because I had safe sex and knew one day I would settle down and have responsibilities and wanted to sow my wild oats and get it all out of my system when it was acceptable to. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 58074953 I'm now a senior and paranoid as Hell that every guy serious guy I meet knows about my past as a freshman. How do I go about explaining it if it comes up??? This one guy I like a lot is in a fraternity and I smashed 5 guys in said fraternity when I was a freshman and I'm so scared he'll find out. Advize? You "smashed" 5 guys in a frat? You still sound like a slut to me. Who the fuck uses the phrase "smash"? Oh yeah, a slut does. yeah that is as ghetto as it gets. Prolly covered in tats and pieced tongue, vag, nipples and other disgusting whatever It's a dude. So just a loose butt and silent farts. Oh, and a democrat who later in life will have a wrecked colon as well as intestinal problems and we the taxpayer will have to front the bill. I work in a hospital and see it daily. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 36321505 United States 06/26/2014 10:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was a slut early in college. Knew it then, know it now. Never bothered me because I had safe sex and knew one day I would settle down and have responsibilities and wanted to sow my wild oats and get it all out of my system when it was acceptable to. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 58074953 I'm now a senior and paranoid as Hell that every guy serious guy I meet knows about my past as a freshman. How do I go about explaining it if it comes up??? This one guy I like a lot is in a fraternity and I smashed 5 guys in said fraternity when I was a freshman and I'm so scared he'll find out. Advize? You "smashed" 5 guys in a frat? You still sound like a slut to me. Who the fuck uses the phrase "smash"? Oh yeah, a slut does. yeah that is as ghetto as it gets. Prolly covered in tats and pieced tongue, vag, nipples and other disgusting whatever It's a dude. So just a loose butt and silent farts. Oh, and a democrat who later in life will have a wrecked colon as well as intestinal problems and we the taxpayer will have to front the bill. I work in a hospital and see it daily. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 58700537 United States 06/26/2014 10:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Fortunately you are both men. There is not ONE guy who doesn’t go thru this “kid-in-the-candy-store” syndrome during his early 20s or sometimes later. You are young, hormones are at their lifetime peak, and you are on your own for the first time without someone to notice where or with whom you are bedding down. Hardly anything to explain or apologize for. Just like you, your potential mate will turn out to have had his own time of sexual excess. Be grateful you both lived thru it and came out of it without some disease that cannot be cured and requires life-time medication to hold it in check. You have done nothing that generations of gay men have not also done. If nothing else the society-induced repression you were subject to in your youth had a pressure-cooker kind of effect and when the lid blew off, the result was that all the pent-up sexual tension had to find some mode of expression. Thank heaven someone saw to it that you had the information about safer sex and you knew how to protect yourself from heaven-knows-what. A generation or two back, the same kind of excess took the lives of tens of thousands of men who, like you, were simply young, and horny and discovering their own freedom for the first time in their lives. You are lucky to have been born when you were and you are luckier still in that you wont have to watch your peer group dying slowly for the next decade... We all have a past. By the time you are in your thirties and settled down, it wont matter any longer. In fact it will matter very little as you move away from college and begin your career. The only ones who will be interested are those who might remember a tryst fondly and be up for a repeat. Use your own judgement there about whether to do so or not. But the opportunities will present themselves. You can bet on that. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 59661716 United States 06/26/2014 10:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was a slut early in college. Knew it then, know it now. Never bothered me because I had safe sex and knew one day I would settle down and have responsibilities and wanted to sow my wild oats and get it all out of my system when it was acceptable to. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 58074953 I'm now a senior and paranoid as Hell that every guy serious guy I meet knows about my past as a freshman. How do I go about explaining it if it comes up??? This one guy I like a lot is in a fraternity and I smashed 5 guys in said fraternity when I was a freshman and I'm so scared he'll find out. Advize? OP, Gays are promiscuous just like Str8t's. If Your new boi friend cant handle the truth, then you so be it. I'm sure he "Sluttied" his way through that very same Frat house in his earlier years as well. Good luck in your Gay lifestyle, things will get better the above is true, but consider that you could just change it up and settle down and have a family. There are some who have sincerely turned to Jesus and found love for women: Jesus Christ Saved Me from 27 Years of Homosexuality [link to youtu.be] Gay Man Finds Freedom in Jesus Christ [link to youtu.be] Kegan Wesley - Freedom from homosexuality [link to youtu.be] My Testimony - Freedom From Homosexuality [link to youtu.be] |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 50767214 United States 06/26/2014 10:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was a slut early in college. Knew it then, know it now. Never bothered me because I had safe sex and knew one day I would settle down and have responsibilities and wanted to sow my wild oats and get it all out of my system when it was acceptable to. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 58074953 I'm now a senior and paranoid as Hell that every guy serious guy I meet knows about my past as a freshman. How do I go about explaining it if it comes up??? This one guy I like a lot is in a fraternity and I smashed 5 guys in said fraternity when I was a freshman and I'm so scared he'll find out. Advize? You "smashed" 5 guys in a frat? You still sound like a slut to me. Who the fuck uses the phrase "smash"? Oh yeah, a slut does. yeah that is as ghetto as it gets. Prolly covered in tats and pieced tongue, vag, nipples and other disgusting whatever It's a dude. So just a loose butt and silent farts. Oh, and a democrat who later in life will have a wrecked colon as well as intestinal problems and we the taxpayer will have to front the bill. I work in a hospital and see it daily. What about women that take it in the ass? Do you see them in there to? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 57523799 United States 06/26/2014 10:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Typical gay drama queen agenda. Everyone stop and look at the gay boy and his problems. The problems are special, he doesn't know what to do, but smear it in your face. Passive aggressive hate towards the world. But the show must go on, stop and see the gay guy and his problems, he demands center stage. We all have to endure the show. Never mind the homeless woman and her children with no food, or any other social issue. The gay guy is confused and is demanding his right to hold a mortified audience. How clever and special he is. Yes, your sexuality is what the world is worried about. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 59661584 United States 06/26/2014 10:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 59637513 You "smashed" 5 guys in a frat? You still sound like a slut to me. Who the fuck uses the phrase "smash"? Oh yeah, a slut does. yeah that is as ghetto as it gets. Prolly covered in tats and pieced tongue, vag, nipples and other disgusting whatever It's a dude. So just a loose butt and silent farts. Oh, and a democrat who later in life will have a wrecked colon as well as intestinal problems and we the taxpayer will have to front the bill. I work in a hospital and see it daily. What about women that take it in the ass? Do you see them in there to? Yup. Very funny actually. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 58074953 United States 06/26/2014 10:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Typical gay drama queen agenda. Everyone stop and look at the gay boy and his problems. The problems are special, he doesn't know what to do, but smear it in your face. Passive aggressive hate towards the world. But the show must go on, stop and see the gay guy and his problems, he demands center stage. We all have to endure the show. Never mind the homeless woman and her children with no food, or any other social issue. The gay guy is confused and is demanding his right to hold a mortified audience. How clever and special he is. Yes, your sexuality is what the world is worried about. You seem to be full of hatred. Thank God that my generation sees the world in a different light |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 59661584 United States 06/26/2014 10:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 759363 yeah that is as ghetto as it gets. Prolly covered in tats and pieced tongue, vag, nipples and other disgusting whatever It's a dude. So just a loose butt and silent farts. Oh, and a democrat who later in life will have a wrecked colon as well as intestinal problems and we the taxpayer will have to front the bill. I work in a hospital and see it daily. What about women that take it in the ass? Do you see them in there to? Yup. Very funny actually. In fact investing in colostomy bags would be wise as the increased number of gays and sexually deviant chicks piles up. They will all be using a shit bag later in life. So enjoy it while it lasts op.. Blow that o ring out lol Never thought i would say that in life |
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RefreshPage User ID: 57184870 Canada 06/26/2014 10:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Pretend i am a female and give me a reasonable reply that is helpful. On the chance that this is not a troll thread I will reply... Just be honest. You don't need to hang out your dirty laundry right away - but don't hide the pile either. If it comes up - yes, you say, I do know quite a few guys from your frat. From back in my 'anything that moves party days'. Followed by a statement on how you are over that, and looking for a relationship. The Internet is a confusing place, where nothing is as it seems - Joshuah Bearman |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 57523799 United States 06/26/2014 10:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Typical gay drama queen agenda. Everyone stop and look at the gay boy and his problems. The problems are special, he doesn't know what to do, but smear it in your face. Passive aggressive hate towards the world. But the show must go on, stop and see the gay guy and his problems, he demands center stage. We all have to endure the show. Never mind the homeless woman and her children with no food, or any other social issue. The gay guy is confused and is demanding his right to hold a mortified audience. How clever and special he is. Yes, your sexuality is what the world is worried about. You seem to be full of hatred. Thank God that my generation sees the world in a different light Kid daddy was gay. Growing up was all about his sexual preference. Fuck the center stage act. The center can only be held together for so long before it falls apart. But I will say that the responses change once they figure out it is a male. If it was a female the responses would be full of slut stuff. Maybe they gay drama offers a filtered protection for women in the same predicament in a backwards way. Pun intended. |
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