Why do women change when they get jobs?

They are entering the "matrix".

ie they are being corporatized.

When you die you leave a "corp"se.

This is what they are thinking and their perception, but not what actually occurs.

What a woman calls wiping her boss' ass, most people call doing what they are paid to do.

Also notice how she resents having to do anything for "her kids".

Include the fact that she thinks she must do all the cooking, cleaning and fetching, but she doesn't. She chooses to because she doesn't like the way the man would do it.

Since you have your own money, why don't you buy the stove?

I don't think it's women. I think it's people.

The change can be good or bad. Everyone's environment impacts them in ways which are negative and positive.

this is true. they think "their" money is just for things for them too. to hell with bills and mortgage, that's the husband's responsibility. like when a kid gets an allowance.

and.........TIRED.

Most women do not get help with the housework and kids, so now she has TWO JOBS and no help.

Why are there so MANY misogynist threads on here??

OK, folks. Looks like this thread was designed by PATRIOT BITCH to pimp out her "book" about narcissists. Grand try. You almost had me fooled.

Sorry. I posted on the wrong thread.

I do. I married and was told how to spend our money even though I was also working and making as much as he. He drove the (one) car to and from work; I took a bus to and from work. He gave his parents and brother thousands because they "borrowed," but never gave back. I never gave my family money because they never asked. Instead, they gave us money.

Three years later, we both decided it was time to have a child, so now I was a stay-at-home mom. No regrets, but now I couldn't spend "his" money. He could spend it...I couldn't.

Another child came along in four years. The same thing...I couldn't spend "his" money even though I cooked for him (he required a four course meal every single day), I took care of the kids, I washed and ironed his clothes and mowed the 1/2 acre lawn myself to "save" money.

Once the kids were grown, I went back to work.

It was then I felt liberated. People thanked me, which he never did...not once. People respected me. I never got that in my marriage.

32 years was long enough. I said goodbye. I didn't need his crap any longer. I have more money now than I and we ever did, and am happier now than ever. And, by the way... I never asked for alimony. I don't get it. I am fine doing it all by myself.

Oh, please! Grow up. 98% of the people with whom I worked were women.

When I became aware of the fact that I could earn a decent living if I changed into a more confident person and gave my all to the company, I dedicated myself to that goal.

I became much more confident and realize now that the only limits I have are those I put on myself.

I'm sure that was a very real change in my personality.