Girls and women: there is one dating rule you must never break

Never, EVER pursue a guy. It is his job to pursue you if he wants you.

This rule has NO exceptions.

Agreed... I'm not going to date some guy out of pity.

Yup. Sometimes there's just no chemistry... despite how "nice" the person might be.

Umm, my wife of 27 years *pursued me. We have a great marriage, 2 kids and wonderful life together.
I guess this rule has exceptions?

I hate rules. Rules in dating generally mean games.

Do what you FEEL like doing.

Umm, my wife of 27 years pursed me. We have a great marriage, 2 kids and wonderful life together.
I guess this rule has exceptions?

I've never chased a woman in my life. Fuck that shit. Bitch doesn't want to play the 50/50 game...she can go fuck herself.

Hear, hear. I feel the same way about men.

Never, EVER pursue a guy. It is his job to pursue you if he wants you.

This rule has NO exceptions.

I'll take a pity date if need be.

Never, EVER pursue a guy. It is his job to pursue you if he wants you.

This rule has NO exceptions.

I think with all this feminism bullshit, women should stop bitching like OP and start pursue men.

OP also probably thinks, the man is responsible for her orgasm.

My only word of advice on standards is, be careful you don't set yours so high they can never be reached

sure but how about those nice guys that you have rejected just because they are not good looking enough, haha Keep staring dude she is just as shallow as the rest..

Men are so full of it, they think everyone is pursuing them.

wtf are you talking about? If a girl sits back and plays naive, waiting for the "players" to act first, she is inviting exactly that. The dominant assholes.

I will tell my daughter to never let a man tell her what to do or how to live her life. I had very traditional values and I used to believe in specific gender roles--men to provide the food and necessities for the family while the women raise and upkeep the household. But men nowadays (as much as they preach against Feminism) propagate the idea of feminism and individuality. Men nowadays cant keep the family unit ideal --they cheat on their wives from insecurities, cant maintain or dont know how to maintain their own family, expect the woman to provide financially as well as all the other house maintenance responsibilities on top of raising the kids. There is so many single mothers out there that get no support from the other half. and men keep wondering why feminism is propagating. women have to watch their back and their children's well being from irresponsible reckless fathers, who shouldve never been allowed to procreate.

Look - I don't play games.
I hate them.

I have also been attracted to shy men, introspective and intellectual and NOT to Players - who usually don't try playing me anyway. I've also been around many men in my military career and know some men fall in Love with women and have NO idea how to approach them and carry that feeling of loss around a long long time. The "if only" thinking . . .

When I get that all confused feeling (and that is how Love goes for me at first, all confused feelings) thinking its mutual but nobody is making a move, I might break the ice.
I am NOT picking up men in bars mind you. What I am talking about goes like this -
Man (who lived a distance away) is talking to me for like 2 weeks literally hours each day, on and on, calling me as soon as he gets home on Skype and carrying me around for hours not even getting off to eat - after a couple of weeks of this behavior I said to him you know I'm developing feelings for you ~ is that ok?

His response was - I know, I dream of you every night.
And BOOM - we were head over heels.
Because of some social issues (and health issues - he had MS) I didn't know if he was ever going to "go for it" despite his actions appearing that he was interested.

It was an interesting set of circumstances.

Because of who I am, looks, career, etc - men don't always make a move, instead they hang around A LOT and do things like talk loud and look over a lot - and finally - I guess, after enough of this - I will initiate a conversation so the gentleman in fact does know if I am interested or not.

So your rules are bullshit - its all individual magic and circumstances and no standard set of instructions applies to any twist of fate regarding romance.

And who allowed them to procreate, genius?

Fuck you and your cuntish man bashing. I refuse to accept responsibility for female sluttery and degeneracy. Men didn't tell women that it'd be "empowering" to nuke the family unit and spend the next fifty years pogo-sticking a new cock every weekend-- women did.

The basis of this thread is that women are objects to be chased...

You didn't say how any of these meetings with these men turned out for you over the long term. I seriously doubt that they would. A man who won't take the fairly small risk of being rejected is a man who is not cut out for success in other areas of life.

Maybe you're not interested in a long-term relationship; which is fine. Good luck to you.

And that is what she wants and needs.

Many men, especially younger men, have fragile egos. To them, it's a big investment to ask a woman out, and it physically HURTS to be rejected, which is why you see the recurring high incidence of sexual harassment and assault on college campuses. The harassment and assaults are almost always the result of these hurt feelings which the young men don't know how to process in a mature fashion.

It's the womans decision.

A man can't have sex with a woman unless she allows it.

otherwise it's rape and you go to jail for that.

Can't really fuck up society if you're IN JAIL.

There is a difference between playing naive and playing hard-to-get, just saying.

A player will walk away if the cookie jar is off limits.