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Raven * User ID: 12825987 United States 07/05/2014 12:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | let me welcome you to a stepping stone Quoting: Anonymous Coward 59148220 i've been there and i stayed there for a long time now i can't fully explain everything about your situation because idk it and we are separate individuals with different paths at least for now i can tell you that things changed for me when i started reevaluating myself and what i seek out of life that sounds simple but its actually a process that includes a lot of humility because it involves tearing down walls within yourself thats all i will say about it good luck with yourself very insightful and good answer Moran for life <3 |
Raven * User ID: 12825987 United States 07/05/2014 12:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Am I not likeable. Or not approachable? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 40484704 Why am I the one who doesn't understand? I don't even understand what I don't understand. So how can I not understand? Why am I alone?... What's wrong with me? OP, nobody can add to your life. Only YOU can bring yourself to enlightenment. The sooner you realize this, the sooner you realize that lonliness is the first step to salvation. Moran for life <3 |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 48086104 United States 07/05/2014 01:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | yeah if OP talks to people the way he/she types in this thread, one can see why people run away I was just joking. It's sounds like you're just having a bad night. Someone was not kind to you. I'm so sorry. You are as perfectly valuable as anyone and everyone else! God loves us all, but He lets us grow. Just call to Him and ask Him to help you. He will get you to your next step, where you'll be much happier, and see His goal for you is perfect happiness. Nicely said. I even feel better now. I'm a recent college graduate, no job, and I'm sometimes hopeless, and defeated. |
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noctus sol User ID: 20063747 Canada 07/05/2014 01:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hedonistic utilitarianism operating under contemporary society. Ideally the unlikeable ones either keep to themselves (and are satisfied thusly), or are ideologically slain by the memetic counterpart of 'social darwinism'. RE: also, Will to Power, as I know how you love ol' Nietzsche. Eh heh heh. …. 'Course, then there's love, that many probably testify to being akin to pain, stasis, quickness and grace in equal measure. If that makes sense…. it can be also quite the monolith for the typical troglodytic lyricist. Maybe the answer is in fire. Somehow. I do like to wax seraphic. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 45502210 United States 07/05/2014 02:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | suggest you take this test [link to www.aspergerstestsite.com] and then ask, "just who are the normal people"? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 9739208 Spain 07/05/2014 02:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I wish I could just be alone forever. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 40484704 And think. I want to think about what I don't understand forever. Because maybe then I'll still not understand it, and I'll be able to say you were wrong. Even if I did have infinity to think about it, not like it would make a difference. If I can't even be with my soul mate at any time, why do I even exist. Do I just fill space in this universe to keep the people who feel good alive? ...the making of a philosopher I think we have lost or are losing the art of reflection , deep thinking and enlightening conversation due to the programmed deculturization of the masses It is so nice to indulge in these intellectual pleasures I think enjoy it op |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 52583283 United States 07/05/2014 02:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You're probably just not physically attractive. Humans are dicks to people that aren't attractive. People say looks aren't all that matters, but in social dynamics, it's really all that matters. Every time an ugly person is upset, they're called crazy 100% of the time, but every time an attractive person is upset, a majority will sympathize with them, and even their critics will be less harsh on them. It's just the way the world works. It shouldn't, and I try to change it everyday by pointing out double standards, but it's a war I seem to fighting on my own. OP, if you want to join in, then start noting double standards, assumptions and derision you encounter everyday and write a thesis explaining your understanding of these concepts apply to social dynamics... then publish them. You're not alone. ~ That Guy Christopher |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 50023016 Canada 07/05/2014 02:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Am I not likeable. Or not approachable? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 40484704 Why am I the one who doesn't understand? I don't even understand what I don't understand. So how can I not understand? Why am I alone?... What's wrong with me? I wish I could just be alone forever. And think. I want to think about what I don't understand forever. Because maybe then I'll still not understand it, and I'll be able to say you were wrong. Even if I did have infinity to think about it, not like it would make a difference. If I can't even be with my soul mate at any time, why do I even exist. Do I just fill space in this universe to keep the people who feel good alive? Nice poem/song. tragic poet intelligent introverted bored confused Alone because your left brain/ego wants to be alone. lonely because you don't feel strong enough alone. Existing to fill the universe with the other half of balance, and thinking in circles about existence. Understanding as you go... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33506266 United States 07/05/2014 02:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Am I not likeable. Or not approachable? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 40484704 Why am I the one who doesn't understand? I don't even understand what I don't understand. So how can I not understand? Why am I alone?... What's wrong with me? Do you have empathy, actually listen to others and process that and respond in kind, or are you just all about you you you and yet think you're a nice person? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 20063747 Canada 07/05/2014 02:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You're probably just not physically attractive. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 52583283 Humans are dicks to people that aren't attractive. People say looks aren't all that matters, but in social dynamics, it's really all that matters. Every time an ugly person is upset, they're called crazy 100% of the time, but every time an attractive person is upset, a majority will sympathize with them, and even their critics will be less harsh on them. It's just the way the world works. It shouldn't, and I try to change it everyday by pointing out double standards, but it's a war I seem to fighting on my own. OP, if you want to join in, then start noting double standards, assumptions and derision you encounter everyday and write a thesis explaining your understanding of these concepts apply to social dynamics... then publish them. You're not alone. ~ That Guy Christopher Shal-low! …. That said, one of the reasons why the concept of a 'cybercosmopolitan' seems so appealing to many, perhaps. Cybercitizen of the world. I dunno. Seems a little jaded of a statement to make in any case. And yet some of the most breathtakingly attractive women I've known still hate to take pictures of themselves, or feel they are only properly expressed in person. Still more men are like this. Luckily for those holding the social reigns, it is a difficulty that can be seen overcome. There is sanctity in anonymity as with identity. |
Bambi2U User ID: 59267018 United States 07/05/2014 02:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I wish I could just be alone forever. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 40484704 And think. I want to think about what I don't understand forever. Because maybe then I'll still not understand it, and I'll be able to say you were wrong. Even if I did have infinity to think about it, not like it would make a difference. If I can't even be with my soul mate at any time, why do I even exist. Do I just fill space in this universe to keep the people who feel good alive? Damn.....and I thought I was depressed. Hugs AC "We are locked in a battle. This is not a friendly, gentleman's discussion. It is a life and death conflict between the spiritual hosts of wickedness and those who claim the name of Jesus Christ." "The Saints are Sinners that keep on trying" |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 58992212 United States 07/05/2014 03:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Am I not likeable. Or not approachable? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 40484704 Why am I the one who doesn't understand? I don't even understand what I don't understand. So how can I not understand? Why am I alone?... What's wrong with me? Well...people overrate their attributes and underrate the attributes of others. What this really means (because it always is pointed at "why can't I get a woman) is that your standards are too high. Stop looking at the porn and find a real woman, "supermodel" types are usually undesirable anyway (either trannies or just bad people). Take it from someone who knows: don't bother with relationships that won't go anywhere, get in relationships with women you have something in common with. Women are depreciating assets anyway so it makes sense to find someone you have something in common with if you want to get married. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33506266 United States 07/05/2014 03:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Am I not likeable. Or not approachable? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 40484704 Why am I the one who doesn't understand? I don't even understand what I don't understand. So how can I not understand? Why am I alone?... What's wrong with me? Do you have empathy, actually listen to others and process that and respond in kind, or are you just all about you you you and yet think you're a nice person? This was the best answer |
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Vash User ID: 20063747 Canada 07/05/2014 03:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Am I not likeable. Or not approachable? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 40484704 Why am I the one who doesn't understand? I don't even understand what I don't understand. So how can I not understand? Why am I alone?... What's wrong with me? Do you have empathy, actually listen to others and process that and respond in kind, or are you just all about you you you and yet think you're a nice person? This was the best answer Well…. beef up your sense of empathy too much and that belief may come crashing down on you. 'May'; not 'Will'. .... "If there is evil in this world, does it have mercy?" [link to s328.photobucket.com] <-- some artwork --:~: |
feralninja User ID: 14456184 United States 07/05/2014 04:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You sound like my teenage daughter. Hopefully you aren't an adult male. In any case stop fucking crying and being weird. Go out and fucking do something worthwhile that YOU enjoy and stop worrying about other people and what they think of you. I understand that if you are a member of the autocorrect generation that this may not be possible. Good luck buddy. |
Melancholy User ID: 7439517 United States 07/05/2014 05:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Am I not likeable. Or not approachable? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 40484704 I don't even understand what I don't understand. Of course you don't understand what you don't understand. If you understood it then that wouldn't be the case. Get good at playing the saxaphone. <<sage advice Last Edited by Save The Sears Tower on 07/05/2014 05:02 AM |
Melancholy User ID: 7439517 United States 07/05/2014 05:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Am I not likeable. Or not approachable? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 40484704 Why am I the one who doesn't understand? I don't even understand what I don't understand. So how can I not understand? Why am I alone?... What's wrong with me? (either trannies or just bad people) what supermodels do you know are secretly trannies?? |
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