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Why Can't I get A Woman To Like Me

 
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Read it again. You missed the point.
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I got your point!
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you're welcome!
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so how about you and I hook up ?


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You need to get a skill and show it off. I suggest butchering animals or cleaning fish. Women are always charmed by the aroma of freshly exposed animal guts, and it shows them you are a good provider. You really know she's a keeper if she offers to help you and takes a swig of animal nectar Red Dawn-style.
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I been working out everyday I'm a slim fit 172 5'9 ,there is this girl at the gym that I really like she has blond hair and workouts out frequently I mean this girl is a horse on the running thread I see her run like 6 miles non stop and when she's doing her yoga OMG let's say she can pretzel her body ,but what I like more about her is she has a plum butt and she's only about 5 ft tall ,how do I approach such a beauty ?
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That's the problem right there. You're too short! Chicks like tall guys.
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that's about the average height plus I go for woman who are 5 to 5'5
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No dude, if you're under 6', most women won't even look at you. It's not just their own height they're comparing you to, but also all their friends' boyfriends, brothers, fathers, etc. Short guys don't get chicks.
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I been working out everyday I'm a slim fit 172 5'9 ,there is this girl at the gym that I really like she has blond hair and workouts out frequently I mean this girl is a horse on the running thread I see her run like 6 miles non stop and when she's doing her yoga OMG let's say she can pretzel her body ,but what I like more about her is she has a plum butt and she's only about 5 ft tall ,how do I approach such a beauty ?
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That's the problem right there. You're too short! Chicks like tall guys.
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that's about the average height plus I go for woman who are 5 to 5'5
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No dude, if you're under 6', most women won't even look at you. It's not just their own height they're comparing you to, but also all their friends' boyfriends, brothers, fathers, etc. Short guys don't get chicks.
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I was like you.
Now I am a prisoner! Cleaning baby poop, cant buy anything without approval, constantly doing boring things.

Enjoy while you can
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The planet is using you because it wants you to procreate. You're not really using your free will. Wouldn't you rather be free sometimes? Why do you need women so badly? Don't get stuck with the illusion. Women are not what they appear. Just look at what bald women look like.
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I was like you.
Now I am a prisoner! Cleaning baby poop, cant buy anything without approval, constantly doing boring things.

Enjoy while you can
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It seems like the older I'm getting the more difficult it is to get a woman to like me or want to date me.I'm a good dude ,what gives 1dunno1
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never fear, its the same for older women too. Maybe you are dating too young. Try dating someone your age or older.
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It seems like the older I'm getting the more difficult it is to get a woman to like me or want to date me.I'm a good dude ,what gives 1dunno1
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never fear, its the same for older women too. Maybe you are dating too young. Try dating someone your age or older.
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I have been trying to date around my age (32) I look to dam young for them ,people think I'm 25 base on my appearance so it's clear to me that I should date 25 to 28
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The other day I was walking down the street and some girl stared me down and said "DAMMMM" as I walked by her ,it was that same DAMMMM you fine we use on woman ,I felt weird ,just not used to the attention sometimes ,I know my body is different cuz I spend about 2to3 hrs a day in the gym. billclinton1
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Join a softball team, book circle, or start taking the yoga classes at the gym. You need to be around women in a group setting so they can get to know you, THEN maybe you'll find a crush or flirtation.

Be casual about it. Women would prefer to friend a guy who is ok w being single. Women are easily creeped out by a guy on the prowl.

Don't ask the girl at the gum out, ask her for advice on cardio workouts. Then a few days later, think of something else to ask her. Then maybe in a month, invite her to your softball game.
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Join a softball team, book circle, or start taking the yoga classes at the gym. You need to be around women in a group setting so they can get to know you, THEN maybe you'll find a crush or flirtation.

Be casual about it. Women would prefer to friend a guy who is ok w being single. Women are easily creeped out by a guy on the prowl.

Don't ask the girl at the gum out, ask her for advice on cardio workouts. Then a few days later, think of something else to ask her. Then maybe in a month, invite her to your softball game.
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this is a great approach,I been wanting to take the "plant the seed" approach ,thanks
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I was like you.
Now I am a prisoner! Cleaning baby poop, cant buy anything without approval, constantly doing boring things.

Enjoy while you can
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I suggest you get the DVD titled The Blueprint Decoded and Foundations by a pua named Tyler Durden. The torrents are online. You've gotta understand how women are emotional little children who need you to be their leader or they won't respect or love you. Stop treating women the way you'd like to be treated cause women are not the same as men and being a nice guy will get you nowhere. Also google The Red Pill for a lot of good info on dealing with women.
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I was like you.
Now I am a prisoner! Cleaning baby poop, cant buy anything without approval, constantly doing boring things.

Enjoy while you can
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Word
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yeah I'm thinking of buying a 25 foot boat in the next 2 to 3 yrs ,let's se I'll be 35 with a boat just enjoying life with or without a lady
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I suggest you get the DVD titled The Blueprint Decoded and Foundations by a pua named Tyler Durden. The torrents are online. You've gotta understand how women are emotional little children who need you to be their leader or they won't respect or love you. Stop treating women the way you'd like to be treated cause women are not the same as men and being a nice guy will get you nowhere. Also google The Red Pill for a lot of good info on dealing with women.
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hmmm red pill interesting will do Sir/Miss hf
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People are drawn to those who are warm and exude a sense of security, well-being, and confidence. Some of this has to do with your outward appearance. Are you need and tidy? Not an excess of tattoos and long, greasy hair, grungy clothes with the pot-belly hanging out over your pants? What about your teeth? No woman wants to kiss a man with chipped, missing, and yellow teeth. Yuk!

Have you worked on your own personal success? In other words, are you a success at whatever career you have chosen? I don't mean you need to be rich. But rather than be a grease monkey you should by a certain age have your own shop. If you work for corporate America, you are not in a lower worker bee position but must have some stable work and are respected by your co-workers and managers. Who would date a burger-flipper or a check-out guy at Home Depot? You must have some long-term viable plan rather than just coasting day-to-day in limbo.

Do you work on your health? Most women really don't care much for the kind of guy who smokes weed well into adulthood or takes other drugs, smokes cigs, or drinks to excess. Keep your weight down.

Do you have any hobbies? Even if you aren't a rocket scientist, you should by adulthood have several things you are good at and that you like to do (video games and video gambling are negatives for women). Do you garden and know a lot about it? Do you fly fish and tie flies, hunt, golf?

If you can't get women to look at you and you are not happy with this aspect of your life, you need to look towards yourself to see just what you are doing that is turning the women off.
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People are drawn to those who are warm and exude a sense of security, well-being, and confidence. Some of this has to do with your outward appearance. Are you need and tidy? Not an excess of tattoos and long, greasy hair, grungy clothes with the pot-belly hanging out over your pants? What about your teeth? No woman wants to kiss a man with chipped, missing, and yellow teeth. Yuk!

Have you worked on your own personal success? In other words, are you a success at whatever career you have chosen? I don't mean you need to be rich. But rather than be a grease monkey you should by a certain age have your own shop. If you work for corporate America, you are not in a lower worker bee position but must have some stable work and are respected by your co-workers and managers. Who would date a burger-flipper or a check-out guy at Home Depot? You must have some long-term viable plan rather than just coasting day-to-day in limbo.

Do you work on your health? Most women really don't care much for the kind of guy who smokes weed well into adulthood or takes other drugs, smokes cigs, or drinks to excess. Keep your weight down.

Do you have any hobbies? Even if you aren't a rocket scientist, you should by adulthood have several things you are good at and that you like to do (video games and video gambling are negatives for women). Do you garden and know a lot about it? Do you fly fish and tie flies, hunt, golf?

If you can't get women to look at you and you are not happy with this aspect of your life, you need to look towards yourself to see just what you are doing that is turning the women off.
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I stay in top physical fit,I look to build my body towards a Hugh Jackman level so no belly here!
I am climbing the ladder in the food service industry as a Importer of seafood and I am well respected by customer who remain loyal due to my service.
I run/jog on a daily basis to keep me busy during the week.
I do know about gardening as I was a gardener in my teen yrs.
I will eventually buy a boat to take it our on the ocean but that's merely 2 to 3 yrs away.
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accept your fate
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accept your fate
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I won't accept nothing but what I want ,I never been a individual to settle for less.I am very competitive it's my DNA
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It seems like the older I'm getting the more difficult it is to get a woman to like me or want to date me.I'm a good dude ,what gives 1dunno1
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Clean up your appearance, don't be a perv, and have some genuine interest in the woman instead of getting laid.
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You need to get a skill and show it off. I suggest butchering animals or cleaning fish. Women are always charmed by the aroma of freshly exposed animal guts, and it shows them you are a good provider. You really know she's a keeper if she offers to help you and takes a swig of animal nectar Red Dawn-style.
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I been working out everyday I'm a slim fit 172 5'9 ,there is this girl at the gym that I really like she has blond hair and workouts out frequently I mean this girl is a horse on the running thread I see her run like 6 miles non stop and when she's doing her yoga OMG let's say she can pretzel her body ,but what I like more about her is she has a plum butt and she's only about 5 ft tall ,how do I approach such a beauty ?
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You say "Hello, I'm {your name here}. Let's be friends. Do you like dinosaurs?"
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Join a softball team, book circle, or start taking the yoga classes at the gym. You need to be around women in a group setting so they can get to know you, THEN maybe you'll find a crush or flirtation.

Be casual about it. Women would prefer to friend a guy who is ok w being single. Women are easily creeped out by a guy on the prowl.

Don't ask the girl at the gum out, ask her for advice on cardio workouts. Then a few days later, think of something else to ask her. Then maybe in a month, invite her to your softball game.
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this is a great approach,I been wanting to take the "plant the seed" approach ,thanks
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This was good advice.

Ask her to go for a coffee with you. It's a fairly neutral thing to do. It's not as formal as a date, friends do it and then you can see where she stands on things.

If she won't go for coffee, she's probably not interested.
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People are drawn to those who are warm and exude a sense of security, well-being, and confidence. Some of this has to do with your outward appearance. Are you need and tidy? Not an excess of tattoos and long, greasy hair, grungy clothes with the pot-belly hanging out over your pants? What about your teeth? No woman wants to kiss a man with chipped, missing, and yellow teeth. Yuk!

Have you worked on your own personal success? In other words, are you a success at whatever career you have chosen? I don't mean you need to be rich. But rather than be a grease monkey you should by a certain age have your own shop. If you work for corporate America, you are not in a lower worker bee position but must have some stable work and are respected by your co-workers and managers. Who would date a burger-flipper or a check-out guy at Home Depot? You must have some long-term viable plan rather than just coasting day-to-day in limbo.

Do you work on your health? Most women really don't care much for the kind of guy who smokes weed well into adulthood or takes other drugs, smokes cigs, or drinks to excess. Keep your weight down.

Do you have any hobbies? Even if you aren't a rocket scientist, you should by adulthood have several things you are good at and that you like to do (video games and video gambling are negatives for women). Do you garden and know a lot about it? Do you fly fish and tie flies, hunt, golf?

If you can't get women to look at you and you are not happy with this aspect of your life, you need to look towards yourself to see just what you are doing that is turning the women off.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 45485322


I stay in top physical fit,I look to build my body towards a Hugh Jackman level so no belly here!
I am climbing the ladder in the food service industry as a Importer of seafood and I am well respected by customer who remain loyal due to my service.
I run/jog on a daily basis to keep me busy during the week.
I do know about gardening as I was a gardener in my teen yrs.
I will eventually buy a boat to take it our on the ocean but that's merely 2 to 3 yrs away.
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So, you don't meet a lot of women except at work.

You need to join a meet up singles club in your area, and don't smell like fish on dates.
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Play Guitar!
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You need to get a skill and show it off. I suggest butchering animals or cleaning fish. Women are always charmed by the aroma of freshly exposed animal guts, and it shows them you are a good provider. You really know she's a keeper if she offers to help you and takes a swig of animal nectar Red Dawn-style.
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I been working out everyday I'm a slim fit 172 5'9 ,there is this girl at the gym that I really like she has blond hair and workouts out frequently I mean this girl is a horse on the running thread I see her run like 6 miles non stop and when she's doing her yoga OMG let's say she can pretzel her body ,but what I like more about her is she has a plum butt and she's only about 5 ft tall ,how do I approach such a beauty ?
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You say "Hello, I'm {your name here}. Let's be friends. Do you like dinosaurs?"
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YES!!!

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People are drawn to those who are warm and exude a sense of security, well-being, and confidence. Some of this has to do with your outward appearance. Are you need and tidy? Not an excess of tattoos and long, greasy hair, grungy clothes with the pot-belly hanging out over your pants? What about your teeth? No woman wants to kiss a man with chipped, missing, and yellow teeth. Yuk!

Have you worked on your own personal success? In other words, are you a success at whatever career you have chosen? I don't mean you need to be rich. But rather than be a grease monkey you should by a certain age have your own shop. If you work for corporate America, you are not in a lower worker bee position but must have some stable work and are respected by your co-workers and managers. Who would date a burger-flipper or a check-out guy at Home Depot? You must have some long-term viable plan rather than just coasting day-to-day in limbo.

Do you work on your health? Most women really don't care much for the kind of guy who smokes weed well into adulthood or takes other drugs, smokes cigs, or drinks to excess. Keep your weight down.

Do you have any hobbies? Even if you aren't a rocket scientist, you should by adulthood have several things you are good at and that you like to do (video games and video gambling are negatives for women). Do you garden and know a lot about it? Do you fly fish and tie flies, hunt, golf?

If you can't get women to look at you and you are not happy with this aspect of your life, you need to look towards yourself to see just what you are doing that is turning the women off.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 45485322


I stay in top physical fit,I look to build my body towards a Hugh Jackman level so no belly here!
I am climbing the ladder in the food service industry as a Importer of seafood and I am well respected by customer who remain loyal due to my service.
I run/jog on a daily basis to keep me busy during the week.
I do know about gardening as I was a gardener in my teen yrs.
I will eventually buy a boat to take it our on the ocean but that's merely 2 to 3 yrs away.
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So, you don't meet a lot of women except at work.

You need to join a meet up singles club in your area, and don't smell like fish on dates.
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Only place I get to meet woman is at the gym and even that is a problem because woman just go to workout and not be bothered ,at my work)office) it's just a small business office of four individuals so no woman here,I stop going to clubs(too loud)but I have been thinking of joining clubs like a run club etc
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People are drawn to those who are warm and exude a sense of security, well-being, and confidence. Some of this has to do with your outward appearance. Are you need and tidy? Not an excess of tattoos and long, greasy hair, grungy clothes with the pot-belly hanging out over your pants? What about your teeth? No woman wants to kiss a man with chipped, missing, and yellow teeth. Yuk!

Have you worked on your own personal success? In other words, are you a success at whatever career you have chosen? I don't mean you need to be rich. But rather than be a grease monkey you should by a certain age have your own shop. If you work for corporate America, you are not in a lower worker bee position but must have some stable work and are respected by your co-workers and managers. Who would date a burger-flipper or a check-out guy at Home Depot? You must have some long-term viable plan rather than just coasting day-to-day in limbo.

Do you work on your health? Most women really don't care much for the kind of guy who smokes weed well into adulthood or takes other drugs, smokes cigs, or drinks to excess. Keep your weight down.

Do you have any hobbies? Even if you aren't a rocket scientist, you should by adulthood have several things you are good at and that you like to do (video games and video gambling are negatives for women). Do you garden and know a lot about it? Do you fly fish and tie flies, hunt, golf?

If you can't get women to look at you and you are not happy with this aspect of your life, you need to look towards yourself to see just what you are doing that is turning the women off.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 45485322


I stay in top physical fit,I look to build my body towards a Hugh Jackman level so no belly here!
I am climbing the ladder in the food service industry as a Importer of seafood and I am well respected by customer who remain loyal due to my service.
I run/jog on a daily basis to keep me busy during the week.
I do know about gardening as I was a gardener in my teen yrs.
I will eventually buy a boat to take it our on the ocean but that's merely 2 to 3 yrs away.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 58285034


So, you don't meet a lot of women except at work.

You need to join a meet up singles club in your area, and don't smell like fish on dates.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33610020


Only place I get to meet woman is at the gym and even that is a problem because woman just go to workout and not be bothered ,at my work)office) it's just a small business office of four individuals so no woman here,I stop going to clubs(too loud)but I have been thinking of joining clubs like a run club etc
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OK, so it sounds like you are kind of introverted and also like to work out. I think some women might be a little intimidated, mistaking your shyness for arrogance.

You say you are 5'9" which knowing guys means you are probably more like 5' 7 1/2" or 8" - and that might be a problem for girls over 5' 6" who don't want to be taller than their date/husband when they wear shoes. But, that's not something you can do anything about as that's their issue not yours.

Since you like sports, I suggest you join the running clubs and things like that. Get a dog and jog/walk with him to the park daily (girls love guys who love dogs).
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Got to ask yourself are they really worth it? Do you realize how fickle women are today? How hard it is to keep a woman happy? Most marriages end in divorce.....usually because the woman ends up bored. 70% of divorces are initiated by women. Then you're stuck in an even worse place than where you were!
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I stay in top physical fit,I look to build my body towards a Hugh Jackman level so no belly here!
I am climbing the ladder in the food service industry as a Importer of seafood and I am well respected by customer who remain loyal due to my service.
I run/jog on a daily basis to keep me busy during the week.
I do know about gardening as I was a gardener in my teen yrs.
I will eventually buy a boat to take it our on the ocean but that's merely 2 to 3 yrs away.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 58285034


So, you don't meet a lot of women except at work.

You need to join a meet up singles club in your area, and don't smell like fish on dates.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33610020


Only place I get to meet woman is at the gym and even that is a problem because woman just go to workout and not be bothered ,at my work)office) it's just a small business office of four individuals so no woman here,I stop going to clubs(too loud)but I have been thinking of joining clubs like a run club etc
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 58285034


OK, so it sounds like you are kind of introverted and also like to work out. I think some women might be a little intimidated, mistaking your shyness for arrogance.

You say you are 5'9" which knowing guys means you are probably more like 5' 7 1/2" or 8" - and that might be a problem for girls over 5' 6" who don't want to be taller than their date/husband when they wear shoes. But, that's not something you can do anything about as that's their issue not yours.

Since you like sports, I suggest you join the running clubs and things like that. Get a dog and jog/walk with him to the park daily (girls love guys who love dogs).
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woman always mistake my shyness for arrogance,I get that from them all the dam time ,they say oh I thought you were cocky and I always end up defending myself ,they auto say "you're a player " aint you ? and I'm not nothing like that at all


height 5'9 could pass for 5'10





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