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Anonymous Coward User ID: 61526857 Canada 08/22/2014 08:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Stoned Goddess (OP) User ID: 61767193 United States 08/22/2014 08:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm just going to put this out there, I'll put down 50 dollars that op is fat, ugly, has a hairy upper lip and doesn't have her legs. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 62021531 I clean up nice. I'll be the judge of that. No you won't... because you're never going to see what I look like. :smokin1: |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 62021531 United States 08/22/2014 08:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm just going to put this out there, I'll put down 50 dollars that op is fat, ugly, has a hairy upper lip and doesn't have her legs. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 62021531 I clean up nice. :shades: I'll be the judge of that. No you won't... because you're never going to see what I look like. To late, look outside your window. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30795961 Canada 08/22/2014 08:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 58913197 United States 08/22/2014 08:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 62021531 United States 08/22/2014 08:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I never date women from bars and I run from any woman who has been molested or raped. I also stay away from women named Misty. Quoting: Chip :jay: Funny. I just met a woman named Misty. She seems really nice. Am I just being set up for inevitable doom? She will likely lead you into a dark alley way and than when you wake up your wallet, keys, car and house will be gone. That's a fact jack. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 52258564 United States 08/22/2014 08:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | These are a few things I require in a partner. (I don't think it's unreasonable... I merely just want somebody with high compatibility and chemistry): Quoting: Stoned Goddess Around age 30 (I'm 27) Must be awake Must either believe in aliens, or be open minded to the idea of them Must not be religious Must not be a facebook whore Must either work out or otherwise be physically active Must love outdoors Must know how to hunt and fish Must know how to build/fix things to some degree Must be hard worker Must have positive mindset Must be willing to learn new things and grow Must treat his parents with respect Must aspire to live off grid, or at least, be willing to do it with me Must accept that I smoke weed, better yet he smokes it or even grows it Must have stable job and finances in order (no you don't have to be rich, just have a good head on your shoulders). No materialistic slimebags. The following are a bonus: doom prepper, doesn't watch TV, has muscles, plays WoW, likes to read, silvertard, nice family I can get along with... The last guy I was seeing pretty much hit all of these points even the bonus ones except he had no humility, he is obsessed with posting shirtless pics on facebook for likes... his facebook settings are public, he has 1000+ friends he doesn't know... and he was obsessed with looking at half naked girls on the internet. (it's one thing to appreciate beautiful women - duh he's a man - but to spend all day jerking off to them, telling me what ones you like the best when you already have one at home who bends over backward to make you happy... fuck you). Am I an asshole or am I justified with what I need in a partner? I think it's a good thing to know what you want. I think you sound like a good catch to me. Your list is good BUT.. for someone like myself that meets most of your criteria except a job and/or money, I think you are doing yourself a disservice by keeping that as a requirement considering that very soon, money and job won't mean Jack Shi* for anyone. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30795961 Canada 08/22/2014 08:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Would you guys let your significant other go traveling alone? Or to a party? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30795961 Personally I don't try to shield people from temptation. I push them into it! You know. See what happens. So you're a swinger? That's weird man........ Nope not at all. I don't do group sex or other "crazy" things. I just need to know if I have a solid relationship and the only way to do it is by not giving too much of myself too soon. Ive given myself completely once and got burned horribly. Now its just kinda light and casual until I'm past the 4-6 month zone. Plus I wouldn't want to be that controlling bf everyone secretly thinks is an asshole. |
Tell Me Lies User ID: 58491319 United States 08/22/2014 08:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30795961 Canada 08/22/2014 08:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | These are a few things I require in a partner. (I don't think it's unreasonable... I merely just want somebody with high compatibility and chemistry): Quoting: Stoned Goddess Around age 30 (I'm 27) Must be awake Must either believe in aliens, or be open minded to the idea of them Must not be religious Must not be a facebook whore Must either work out or otherwise be physically active Must love outdoors Must know how to hunt and fish Must know how to build/fix things to some degree Must be hard worker Must have positive mindset Must be willing to learn new things and grow Must treat his parents with respect Must aspire to live off grid, or at least, be willing to do it with me Must accept that I smoke weed, better yet he smokes it or even grows it Must have stable job and finances in order (no you don't have to be rich, just have a good head on your shoulders). No materialistic slimebags. The following are a bonus: doom prepper, doesn't watch TV, has muscles, plays WoW, likes to read, silvertard, nice family I can get along with... The last guy I was seeing pretty much hit all of these points even the bonus ones except he had no humility, he is obsessed with posting shirtless pics on facebook for likes... his facebook settings are public, he has 1000+ friends he doesn't know... and he was obsessed with looking at half naked girls on the internet. (it's one thing to appreciate beautiful women - duh he's a man - but to spend all day jerking off to them, telling me what ones you like the best when you already have one at home who bends over backward to make you happy... fuck you). Am I an asshole or am I justified with what I need in a partner? I think it's a good thing to know what you want. I think you sound like a good catch to me. Your list is good BUT.. for someone like myself that meets most of your criteria except a job and/or money, I think you are doing yourself a disservice by keeping that as a requirement considering that very soon, money and job won't mean Jack Shi* for anyone. OP ^^ that was the honest truth. 30 is a hard sell these days. With all these hyper sexual sheeple running around. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 58913197 United States 08/22/2014 08:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Funny. I just met a woman named Misty. She seems really nice. Am I just being set up for inevitable doom? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 58913197 She will likely lead you into a dark alley way and than when you wake up your wallet, keys, car and house will be gone. That's a fact jack. But it will still be worth it in the end right? I mean it's not that much different than getting married and then divorced. The time frame is just a little different. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 41166304 New Zealand 08/22/2014 08:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | hey ***** can I ask you a question...? what qualities/ideals would you look for in a woman? Lol , sure Class , ladylike , knows what she wants out of life , diverse way of thinking ,open for new ideas . Loves her fam , loyal/ honest . Warm What do you want in a man ? I want a meeting of mind and soul, light heartedness and humour, style, strength and direction, with a spiritual understanding, awakened consciousness and connection to the earth...so not much lol true story. |
Tell Me Lies User ID: 58491319 United States 08/22/2014 09:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 38120567 Canada 08/22/2014 09:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Must not smoke pot No tattoos Must not have the same hairstyle she had in the 80's No tight jeans with running shoes When married, must not refer to husband as "hubby" (just irritates the hell out of me for some reason) likes long red hair pasty white skin and freckles Horror/sci-fi movie fan excluding: comic based movies - hate them |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 32712483 United Kingdom 08/22/2014 09:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I want a wild chick, with lots of energy. Piercings help. Although Iv never seen one : ( I want her to stimulate my mind, whilst being everything that I thought I could have wanted, by stimulating my heart and being the only one, who would set foot inside the Matrix, to find me. The wild chick, I thought I knew, wouldnt matter anymore because I would have found a new one. I want a chick to be better than me. Is that to much to ask? |
Tell Me Lies User ID: 58491319 United States 08/22/2014 09:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1439739 Canada 08/22/2014 09:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | These are a few things I require in a partner. (I don't think it's unreasonable... I merely just want somebody with high compatibility and chemistry): Quoting: Stoned Goddess Around age 30 (I'm 27) Must be awake Must either believe in aliens, or be open minded to the idea of them Must not be religious Must not be a facebook whore Must either work out or otherwise be physically active Must love outdoors Must know how to hunt and fish Must know how to build/fix things to some degree Must be hard worker Must have positive mindset Must be willing to learn new things and grow Must treat his parents with respect Must aspire to live off grid, or at least, be willing to do it with me Must accept that I smoke weed, better yet he smokes it or even grows it Must have stable job and finances in order (no you don't have to be rich, just have a good head on your shoulders). No materialistic slimebags. The following are a bonus: doom prepper, doesn't watch TV, has muscles, plays WoW, likes to read, silvertard, nice family I can get along with... The last guy I was seeing pretty much hit all of these points even the bonus ones except he had no humility, he is obsessed with posting shirtless pics on facebook for likes... his facebook settings are public, he has 1000+ friends he doesn't know... and he was obsessed with looking at half naked girls on the internet. (it's one thing to appreciate beautiful women - duh he's a man - but to spend all day jerking off to them, telling me what ones you like the best when you already have one at home who bends over backward to make you happy... fuck you). Am I an asshole or am I justified with what I need in a partner? I think it's a good thing to know what you want. Those are not a few but a lot of "must". You'll actually get turn off by some guy who doesn't believe in aliens or hunt and likes to watch TV? I think you putting yourself in a difficult and unrealistic situation to find your dream man. |
Bansheegrrl User ID: 42103340 United States 08/22/2014 09:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Here's a question for all of you...: Quoting: Tell Me Lies If you found someone you clicked with off of this forum, would you consider meeting? Hehe...in the case of GLP'ers, I'd have a list of cannots... cannot be addicted to porn cannot be racist cannot be a misogynist etc... but it would be nice to meet others who think outside the box, one who is spiritually inclined without being a jesus freak and a fellow prepper would be cool oh, and someone who isn't afraid of a little herb or rum from time to time ;) "It's a metaphor, see: You put the killing thing right between your teeth, but you don't give it the power to do its killing." ~ Augstus Waters |
SilverPatriot User ID: 39491380 United States 08/22/2014 09:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We all have our preferred criteria pertaining to a perfect date thus are you both willing to step out of your comfort zone to experience new settings after all it is give and take. You might not be open to a picnic by the lake however would you be willing to opening yourself to the quiet and more intimate conversations. This would save a great deal of time discovering if your beliefs are compatible as opposed to dates in a loud disco or whatever. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 62026800 United States 08/22/2014 09:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We all have our preferred criteria pertaining to a perfect date thus are you both willing to step out of your comfort zone to experience new settings after all it is give and take. You might not be open to a picnic by the lake however would you be willing to opening yourself to the quiet and more intimate conversations. Quoting: SilverPatriot This would save a great deal of time discovering if your beliefs are compatible as opposed to dates in a loud disco or whatever. A disco? Did you just get out of a time machine from the 70's? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30795961 Canada 08/22/2014 09:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We all have our preferred criteria pertaining to a perfect date thus are you both willing to step out of your comfort zone to experience new settings after all it is give and take. You might not be open to a picnic by the lake however would you be willing to opening yourself to the quiet and more intimate conversations. Quoting: SilverPatriot This would save a great deal of time discovering if your beliefs are compatible as opposed to dates in a loud disco or whatever. A disco? Did you just get out of a time machine from the 70's? LMFAO! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 32712483 United Kingdom 08/22/2014 09:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We all have our preferred criteria pertaining to a perfect date thus are you both willing to step out of your comfort zone to experience new settings after all it is give and take. You might not be open to a picnic by the lake however would you be willing to opening yourself to the quiet and more intimate conversations. Quoting: SilverPatriot This would save a great deal of time discovering if your beliefs are compatible as opposed to dates in a loud disco or whatever. Hes right you know. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30795961 Canada 08/22/2014 09:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | All relationships require stepping out of your comfort zone more or less and allot of trust and sacrifice. There is no perfect partner out there for you, just slightly more workable situations. Seriously you could be total opposites or even the worst of enemy's, whats important is healthy communication. "Whats wrong?" "Nothings wrong" ^^^^ The most common exchange of words in a broken relationship. If your someone who jokes around allot (Myself) you may end up crossing your partner 20-30 times a day without knowing. It's healthy to have a sense of humor but you can seriously beat that horse to death and wake up alone. |
love for sale.... User ID: 52258564 United States 08/22/2014 09:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We all have our preferred criteria pertaining to a perfect date thus are you both willing to step out of your comfort zone to experience new settings after all it is give and take. You might not be open to a picnic by the lake however would you be willing to opening yourself to the quiet and more intimate conversations. Quoting: SilverPatriot This would save a great deal of time discovering if your beliefs are compatible as opposed to dates in a loud disco or whatever. Hes right you know. Yeah This. That is what any of us semi-enlightened/awakened spiritually open minded people really want in the end.. that crazy love CONNECTION where (aside from just the physical attraction) you want to be near each other a lot and share in life's experiences. Buuut, to get there is the tricky and often times difficult part. All the B.S in the world right now makes things extra tough for many to find and make that connection either for the first time or 2nd 3rd etc.. |