Why Do Women Always Ask You To Marry Them?

I think the same thing but I'm not sure exactly why short of being "old fashioned". When discussed with others I was told that changing times meant it okay for a woman to ask to be married.

she can ask him 'why' he hasnt asked her. I agree with that.

but.. her asking him straight out to marry her??
I think that would be dumb or naive on her part.

I would never ask a man to marry me.

To be clear I always believed a man should ask. Which is why I never said yes to anyone. At least I think that's why.

But when I discussed it with others at one point people told me with this new day and age that women could ask to be married just like men can go to a bridal or baby shower when it use to be only women went to those. Or that people can marry same sex even.

I'm not saying I agree with any of that but it was explained too me that way once.

I'm extremely old fashioned so I will probably come across as very judgmental... I think it's weird that any man would go to a bridal or baby shower, let alone want to. I don't find that manly at all, and the men I know, wouldn't be caught dead at one.

I also believe the man should ask. I've never even asked a man out on a date, nor would I ever.

As the way it should always be.

a smart woman should already know what is in his head.
or why he hasnt asked.

its not always a bad thing either. could be he just isnt sure of himself or something similar ..

she should still already know the reason.

if she doesnt know what is going on in his head & why he does or doesnt do the things he does, then the relationship is far from being ready for marriage.

I asked my husband the first time I contacted him, but we share the same mind so it was really him asking himself.

I've never asked anyone else though, I guess a woman just knows who she belongs to. He made me do it.

wow, thats the very first time I have ever heard a man going to a bridal/baby shower. that is pretty strange. times are getting weird for sure

I don't even want to go to showers and I'm a woman. I think they are retarded anyways, I never had one because I think it rude because really it's just a way to get a bunch of free stuff and you get to tell the people what to get you, totally tasteless.

I'm a woman and I have never asked a man to marry me. Certainly not during sex either. That is strange and I have never heard of it until now.


Perhaps that is a request of Mexican hookers.

If they have your real name or can identify you, don't do it. When the baby comes and the bills hit, they'll be after you for child support. If they apply for welfare the state will force them to do it.

I don't know, you may have had it right the first time. LOL

Take it as a compliment. I'm sure they aren't serious.

Me either. My husband asked me six weeks to marry. He said if I did not like him after six months, he would hit the road, no hard feelings.

That makes sense. Girls don't hit on guys for sex.

We don't have time for that shit.

You keep saying yes to the same type of women - crazies.

Because sane women don't bring up marriage during sex.

They want a compensation for enduring your disgusting body on top of them...

Been a bodybuilder for quite a while so that was never it I assure you.

Well I grow a beard in a lame attempt to keep them away these days. But even that doesn't work.

They always dump me after they ask the question because I never immediately said yes. I found any answer other than "yes" immediately after being asked is the end of the relationship. Not sure why I supposed "no", "not right now", or "can we discuss this later" all count as rejection.

No hookers...Mexican or other.

I have been invited to several. Only been to two though.

Well I'm glad they had an idea what was going on in my head...because I haven't the faintest clue.

Stop dating desperate losers!

"Stoop low enough and you can get anyone."

Works both ways.

I never heard this before! Most people running around claiming to be in love are not, most getting married get divorced because they never were in love in first place. If a man or woman says this crap during or after sex, its a power trip she is on. She is wanting to control.

Either way, quit having sex with controlling women, and your problem will be solved.

Because if a woman is having sex with you....she usually assumes you love her and she thinks you want the relationship to evolve to having a family and settling down with kids and stuff like she does....she doesn't want to just date forever.

If you don't want to marry her...then she can assume you're just using her till something better comes along you want to marry and that's just pathetic of you to make her feel that way.

Couldn't tell you, son.

As a woman who was married and divorced and ended up back with the same dude for 16 years POST divorce, I wouldn't have gotten married again to save my fucking life.

Indeed, it is for this very reason that we are no longer together.

He wanted to put a ring on my finger and I told him to shove it up his ass.

IMO, men see marriage as making women their chattel.

And women who want to get married WANT to be a man's chattel so she can reap the benefits of his hard work and achievements.

Personally, I can take care of my damn self.

I don't need to be parented and I don't want to measure the success of my life by the amount of money my dude brings home and how tidy my home is when he gets there.

Silly, archaic shit.

We're all supposed to be adults, capable and intelligent and able to care for ourselves.

I have a feeling you may be dating (or fucking) the type of needy, guilt-ridden girls that think that they have somehow failed if they've given it up without a promise of a long-term commitment.

Beware of these girls.

They want a daddy figure.

I'm not saying you should be spending your free time banging skanks, but FFS at least have some kind of similar life plan and goals.

If you're not the marrying type (now or even ever) have the balls to let the women you go to bed with know your MO so that they can make the decision to go to bed with you knowing that they aren't going to be shopping for engagement rings next week.

And if you HAVE made it clear to your lady(ies) that you aren't about to marry them just because you decide to bump uglies and they STILL try to weasel a proposal out of you (Especially during sex of all times and places) kick that manipulative bitch to the curb as fast as possible. THese are the girls that fake pregnancies and manipulate and contrive to get their ways.

Believe it or not, there are some confident, non-trampy women out there who are looking for a good time and are content taking care of themselves in now and in the future.

Be a little more selective with your lays and maybe you wont be having this problem so frequently.

Hell, take a Psychology or Sociology class - it will give you some insight into the human (and female) psyche.

Ohh...the ring stores... Forgot about those. I've only bought two rings and the last one I think she is still wearing. Not sure how long that's going to last as I have been blowing her off recently.