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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 15201740  Australia09/28/2014 08:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I like to be alone a lot. When I am with people, it's like there is a switch inside of me that goes off when I've reached my limit. Once I'm at that point, I start to get very antsy and uncomfortable. Quoting: AnonymousGirl I get that with a mate. My only friend, these days. It's like I'm glad to see him and talk about the stuff we both like, bla blah and then suddenly I feel the need to escape him. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 62518411  Canada09/28/2014 08:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I like to be alone a lot. When I am with people, it's like there is a switch inside of me that goes off when I've reached my limit. Once I'm at that point, I start to get very antsy and uncomfortable. Quoting: AnonymousGirl I get that with a mate. My only friend, these days. It's like I'm glad to see him and talk about the stuff we both like, bla blah and then suddenly I feel the need to escape him. Haha Exactly. It's really rough when I have people visiting and staying with me because for an extended period of time, there is no escape...other than when it's time to sleep! It's nothing against them though. It's all me. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 7537417  United States09/28/2014 09:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's not so much being around people that bothers me but the noise that comes out of their mouths. My husband just puts headphones on me so it's at least muffled when it starts getting to me. I'm so glad he came up with this solution. Quoting: nahkers ROTFLMAO!!!!! That's telling it like it is, don't tell us how you really feel!  |
cosmicgypsy  User ID: 62521596 United States09/28/2014 09:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's not so much being around people that bothers me but the noise that comes out of their mouths. My husband just puts headphones on me so it's at least muffled when it starts getting to me. I'm so glad he came up with this solution. Quoting: nahkers Even body language can be a challenge for me...words left unsaid and all. You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete. -Buckminster Fuller ...I adapt to the unknown, under wandering stars I've grown, by myself, but not alone... [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] |
| ajk User ID: 29024587 United States09/28/2014 09:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's not so much being around people that bothers me but the noise that comes out of their mouths. My husband just puts headphones on me so it's at least muffled when it starts getting to me. I'm so glad he came up with this solution. Quoting: nahkers that's a good solution. I get it though.....I can't handle so much just well......stupidness. It drives my energy down to be around it, so I tend to isolate myself a lot instead. No one is perfect. A babe before walking will first stumble and fall many times but NEVER gives up until he succeeds. Always remember, ultimately, to never follow any person's belief. Your relationship with God is between you and God. If nothing else, remember this: religion = subservience, control and conformity, the same template as EVERY government "Most believers would kill truth if truth threatened their religion." L. K. Washburn "This crime called blasphemy was invented by priests for the purpose of defending doctrines not able to take care of themselves." Robert Ingersoll "If anyone wants to know how God feels, it's a warm light as if the sun is poking through dark clouds and lifting your spirits with pure joy." |
| ajk User ID: 29024587 United States09/28/2014 09:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I like to be alone a lot. When I am with people, it's like there is a switch inside of me that goes off when I've reached my limit. Once I'm at that point, I start to get very antsy and uncomfortable. Quoting: AnonymousGirl I get that with a mate. My only friend, these days. It's like I'm glad to see him and talk about the stuff we both like, bla blah and then suddenly I feel the need to escape him. Haha Exactly. It's really rough when I have people visiting and staying with me because for an extended period of time, there is no escape...other than when it's time to sleep! It's nothing against them though. It's all me. Oh yeah.....I am the same I need my space bad, I feel uncomfortable not having it, like when people come over unexpected for example, it's like: "okay you can go home anytime" you know what I mean? I need that space to breathe, and I hate being surprised like that too. No one is perfect. A babe before walking will first stumble and fall many times but NEVER gives up until he succeeds. Always remember, ultimately, to never follow any person's belief. Your relationship with God is between you and God. If nothing else, remember this: religion = subservience, control and conformity, the same template as EVERY government "Most believers would kill truth if truth threatened their religion." L. K. Washburn "This crime called blasphemy was invented by priests for the purpose of defending doctrines not able to take care of themselves." Robert Ingersoll "If anyone wants to know how God feels, it's a warm light as if the sun is poking through dark clouds and lifting your spirits with pure joy." |
| nahkers User ID: 59907859 United States09/28/2014 09:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's not so much being around people that bothers me but the noise that comes out of their mouths. My husband just puts headphones on me so it's at least muffled when it starts getting to me. I'm so glad he came up with this solution. Quoting: nahkers Even body language can be a challenge for me...words left unsaid and all. My little boy will shut down and do that. But that's usually a personal problem they have with us. lol. When you find a piece of shit along side the road and you poke it with a stick, what do you expect to find inside of it, gold? No, it's just going to stink more. |
| nahkers User ID: 59907859 United States09/28/2014 09:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's not so much being around people that bothers me but the noise that comes out of their mouths. My husband just puts headphones on me so it's at least muffled when it starts getting to me. I'm so glad he came up with this solution. Quoting: nahkers ROTFLMAO!!!!! That's telling it like it is, don't tell us how you really feel! It took my husband a few years to find a solution for his loud voice. lol When you find a piece of shit along side the road and you poke it with a stick, what do you expect to find inside of it, gold? No, it's just going to stink more. |
| nahkers User ID: 59907859 United States09/28/2014 10:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's not so much being around people that bothers me but the noise that comes out of their mouths. My husband just puts headphones on me so it's at least muffled when it starts getting to me. I'm so glad he came up with this solution. Quoting: nahkers that's a good solution. I get it though.....I can't handle so much just well......stupidness. It drives my energy down to be around it, so I tend to isolate myself a lot instead. It's not the stupidness, we have to have an understanding of how people are because we are all stupid in our own special ways. It's just the sound itself for me. Stupid people don't bother me, I like to interact with them and fuck with them in most cases just for the sake of humor. When you find a piece of shit along side the road and you poke it with a stick, what do you expect to find inside of it, gold? No, it's just going to stink more. |
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