how would you feel and react if your spouse of 10 years forgot your wedding anniversary?

1 . women love anniversarys, and there can be so many;

anniversary of when we first met,
anniversaryof first date,
anniversary of first kiss,
anniversary of first sex,
ect.

2. is your internet still on ?
how about the water ?
and the electricity ?
or the phone ?
is the car being repo'ed?
are you getting eviction / foreclosure notices ??

if he is paying the BILLS on time,
that is a little more IMPORTANT.

3. YOU,

GOT,

EXACTLY,

WHAT,

YOU,

WANTED.

so, BE HAPPY ABOUT IT, dumbass.

you knew / suspected he would forget,
YOU COULD HAVE easily reminded him,
IF it was SO IMPORTANT, TO YOU.
but,
you SET HIM UP FOR A FALL,
INSTEAD.

now, YOU ARE ALL HURT,
because,
HE FAILED YOUR STUPID TEST.

RE; I just wanted that love from him on this day.

NO, YOU WANTED TO TEST HIM.
YOU SAID SO, YOURSELF.
THAT WAS OBVIOUSLY, MUCH MORE IMPORTANT TO YOU.

OP's quotes; "if I have to drop hints, well to me that defeats the purpose of it all."

"See to me the whole idea of him remembering, without hints from me, is the key point."