would you stay in a relationship without sex

The only one subject I am an absalute expert on .... Yes there is more to life than just sex , I used to enjoy it and have it regular very regular in the past ,new fiancee doesn't like it and that's why she split with her hubby as he couldn't handle it , I can see past that and see her for the beautiful person she is, so sacrificing the one problem in our relationship is just that I miss it but she is worth it ..........

Everyone is different.I think we both have low testosterome levels because of our age.If he showed any desire,I would be at it.At age 51,he still tells me I look in my 30's.I have not let myself go.I weigh about 120, very long blonde wavy hair and take care of my skin.I have practically no wrinkles.Young guys still stare at me.LOL, if they only knew my age.

Last Edited by Anonymous Sun on 10/06/2014 11:12 AM

I know a lot of people who do. Often husbands have prostate surgery and they cannot have sex anymore but their wives remain with them,

I would say that it depends if you are alright about going without sex. One person shouldn't decide how the relationship is going to be and automatically expect the other to be alright with it. If sex is important to you, and she tells you that she doesn't want to have it anymore, she is basically ending the relationship in my honest opinion. Knowing that it is important to you and deciding not to provide what is important to you is a deal breaker to me.

I would first find out why they feel that way, though. Is it unexciting? Painful? etc... To rule out any other problems. Could be the libido is diving because of poor health habits. Could be too much stress and fatigue in their daily life. Find out and see if they are willing to rectify the problem with whatever is needed.

Currently in an LDR and she travels, so not a lot of action there. It is an open relationship in that we both have "flings" from time to time. She likes older men and I like younger women, and we pick flings that have zero chance of commitment. We are honest with the flings about our relationship.

When we do hook up there is sex involved, but it's not the most important thing. We're comfortable together and we're not 19 anymore.

Yes, if never had sex again (which I hope never happens, cause we have great sex life) I would still feel the same for my hubby, I love him unconditionally, without reserve. I don't care if he is BROKE, BALD, FAT, OR UGLY, OR CAN'T HAVE SEX, it does not matter to me, I would not leave him and will love him until my last breath.

+1 for you.

it called marriage

LOL, My bf is still hot for 51 yrs old.In fact I have never seen a better looking guy in all my life.Hes a total hottie.

Yeppers!

So what kind of relationship? Where you are young, just shacking up together, no kids, no assets, no commitment?

Or a long term marriage in which one of the partners opts out of the sexual part?

People have mentioned reasons behind one marriage partner's lack of interest, or performance.

Men lose potency with age, with porn usage, with prostate problems.

Women lose libido or develop problems with painful sex as they age into menopause.

So what to do?

Divorce may be much more problematic than staying in a sexless marriage.

Having developed enough unselfishness to stay in a long term marriage, both partners would consider what it would do the family.

Neither wants to live in the house alone. Sell it? Sure, in today's market that can take so long one of you might die in the interim anyway.

Both partners are experienced enough to know what happens to friendships when a fun couple becomes 2 singles. There goes the friendship.

The companionship goes with the divorce. Vacation time? Maybe a tour...

So for many couples, the answer is a clear "Certainly! I don't want to give up the rest of the marriage."

I have another TAKE on Sex and Marriage, again my sex and marriage of 18 years is still good, although we have had our up's and downs too.

Sex is for reproduction of our species and all species. Women become fertile very young as nature intended it to be,yada yada yada.

Sex eventually will decrease with All animals, because of the aging factor. So a relationship built on sex and looks WILL FAIL EVERYTIME.

Also, men and women who think the grass is greener on the other side are in for a rude short term awakening. If you have someone who loves you, then cherish it, if you don't then you are not in the right relationship.

Sex is Sex, love is real!!

A pussy is like an exer cycle facing the women's yoga room , if you aint' using it , sure as fuck someone will jump right on dat shit

No. Why would anyone do this?

damn Chip! 68? I just spit up my coffee

No, fuck no.

Not gonna go without sex unless it's for medical reasons... which is legitimate. "Could live my whole life without it" doesn't fucking fall into the 'legitimate' category. Sounds like she's just being a cunt, on top of not being attracted to you/happy with you anymore. Run like hell.

Thats fucked up!!

What's better.
Blowjobs or Sex?

Thats called being married.

hell no

Yeah i guess it would have been the same for me however my dad was the 16th child so I dont have younger uncles. I do have very old ones though haha

Last Edited by QCluminati on 10/06/2014 02:32 PM

Yes.

Let me tell you one thing:
One week of good sex is worth 10 years of blabing and masterbating on internet.Platonic internet relationship with person you can barly meet once a year is not worth a crap.You ll only get fat from it.

Now I claim persons of an adult age such as myself are less horny then teens and youngsters but if you PHYSICALY(I mean physically not in fantasy on internet) do some other PHYSICAL things with your partner such as shopping going on beach in summertime or taking a walk in park you dont really have to sex so often to have a good relationship.

Just sitting at home on internet and masterbating HELL NAWH !!!

OH MY did I tell One week of sex is worth 10 years on internet?
PARDEN ME WHAT I MEANT WAS One Night of Sex is worth of 10 years of blabing on internet!Esp if that night is Italian...

nah any of that would be REAL SEX...Americans dont do REAL SEX no more ... they got a hand phone and internet...

So I would guess HAND JOB is defo a winner in developed countries...

Sounds like my dad, we always suspected he had another family with children.

Sex is only for reproduction in you think like an animal.
That is the only reason animals do it.

We are the ones who do it for reasons other than reproduction.
Buncha obackwards ass Neanderthal in here who think they are enlightened because they mimic animal behavior and don't even know it.

[link to www.sciences360.com]

"When people speak of animals mating only for procreation, they are expressing views, not facts, often with the underlying idea that sex for pleasure is somehow perverse.

Sex for pleasure is natural, and occurs to that life itself occurs."

Last Edited by nah-t on 10/06/2014 02:49 PM

I agree that is natural and to be enjoyed. Those who can not enjoy sex have a problem and should not pretend it is a virtue of some kind, it is not.

I will check out the link. I have seen it be treated like scientific fact in science articles numerous times. Sitting for instance a dog's tendency to bump anything when Randy, it is an instinct they can't control therefore they don't have free will over it.

Well good for him! But my bf is NOT your grandfather nor you.Everyone is different.Just because YOU needed at 51 doesn't mean everyone should.