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saviour12631 User ID: 26390203 United Kingdom 10/06/2014 11:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Del Boy: All the things that we've ever got out of life have come from my intelligence and my foresight Rodney: Well, I'm glad somebody's owned up, ....He who dares wins Rodders ...eekerstard also |
anonymous sun User ID: 2698905 United States 10/06/2014 11:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes, but bf and I are old and don't need it anymore, although we are still in love more then ever. Quoting: anonymous sun If either of us needed it we would still turn to one another.We are both highly attracted to each other. i would imagine that your partner is fine with it, because that is how you feel. if he can still get a proper erection, then he probably wouldn't mind a roll in the hay every now and again. unless you have really let yourself go? Everyone is different.I think we both have low testosterome levels because of our age.If he showed any desire,I would be at it.At age 51,he still tells me I look in my 30's.I have not let myself go.I weigh about 120, very long blonde wavy hair and take care of my skin.I have practically no wrinkles.Young guys still stare at me.LOL, if they only knew my age. Last Edited by Anonymous Sun on 10/06/2014 11:12 AM |
Mickeyblue User ID: 9806228 United States 10/06/2014 11:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Earth Daughter User ID: 59811970 United States 10/06/2014 11:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Like someone you have been with for over a year or two. Quoting: dayzd1410 and then out of the blue they say something like... "Well its been over a month because I dont like sex and I could live my whole life without it." I would say that it depends if you are alright about going without sex. One person shouldn't decide how the relationship is going to be and automatically expect the other to be alright with it. If sex is important to you, and she tells you that she doesn't want to have it anymore, she is basically ending the relationship in my honest opinion. Knowing that it is important to you and deciding not to provide what is important to you is a deal breaker to me. I would first find out why they feel that way, though. Is it unexciting? Painful? etc... To rule out any other problems. Could be the libido is diving because of poor health habits. Could be too much stress and fatigue in their daily life. Find out and see if they are willing to rectify the problem with whatever is needed. "Arrows of hate have been shot at me too, but they never hit me, because somehow they belonged to another world, with which I have no connection whatsoever." - Albert Einstein |
Hardwired User ID: 63542597 United States 10/06/2014 11:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Currently in an LDR and she travels, so not a lot of action there. It is an open relationship in that we both have "flings" from time to time. She likes older men and I like younger women, and we pick flings that have zero chance of commitment. We are honest with the flings about our relationship. When we do hook up there is sex involved, but it's not the most important thing. We're comfortable together and we're not 19 anymore. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 63597691 Taiwan 10/06/2014 11:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes, if never had sex again (which I hope never happens, cause we have great sex life) I would still feel the same for my hubby, I love him unconditionally, without reserve. I don't care if he is BROKE, BALD, FAT, OR UGLY, OR CAN'T HAVE SEX, it does not matter to me, I would not leave him and will love him until my last breath. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 61108810 +1 for you. |
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anonymous sun User ID: 2698905 United States 10/06/2014 11:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes, but bf and I are old and don't need it anymore, although we are still in love more then ever. Quoting: anonymous sun If either of us needed it we would still turn to one another.We are both highly attracted to each other. Don't need it anymore? LOL, My bf is still hot for 51 yrs old.In fact I have never seen a better looking guy in all my life.Hes a total hottie. |
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Lil Sis User ID: 28157433 United States 10/06/2014 12:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Or a long term marriage in which one of the partners opts out of the sexual part? People have mentioned reasons behind one marriage partner's lack of interest, or performance. Men lose potency with age, with porn usage, with prostate problems. Women lose libido or develop problems with painful sex as they age into menopause. So what to do? Divorce may be much more problematic than staying in a sexless marriage. Having developed enough unselfishness to stay in a long term marriage, both partners would consider what it would do the family. Neither wants to live in the house alone. Sell it? Sure, in today's market that can take so long one of you might die in the interim anyway. Both partners are experienced enough to know what happens to friendships when a fun couple becomes 2 singles. There goes the friendship. The companionship goes with the divorce. Vacation time? Maybe a tour... So for many couples, the answer is a clear "Certainly! I don't want to give up the rest of the marriage." ************************************************************************ Corruptisima re publica plurimae leges. ~ Terence |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 61108810 United States 10/06/2014 12:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have another TAKE on Sex and Marriage, again my sex and marriage of 18 years is still good, although we have had our up's and downs too. Sex is for reproduction of our species and all species. Women become fertile very young as nature intended it to be,yada yada yada. Sex eventually will decrease with All animals, because of the aging factor. So a relationship built on sex and looks WILL FAIL EVERYTIME. Also, men and women who think the grass is greener on the other side are in for a rude short term awakening. If you have someone who loves you, then cherish it, if you don't then you are not in the right relationship. Sex is Sex, love is real!! |
Norml85 User ID: 12287288 United States 10/06/2014 12:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have another TAKE on Sex and Marriage, again my sex and marriage of 18 years is still good, although we have had our up's and downs too. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 61108810 Sex is for reproduction of our species and all species. Women become fertile very young as nature intended it to be,yada yada yada. Sex eventually will decrease with All animals, because of the aging factor. So a relationship built on sex and looks WILL FAIL EVERYTIME. Also, men and women who think the grass is greener on the other side are in for a rude short term awakening. If you have someone who loves you, then cherish it, if you don't then you are not in the right relationship. Sex is Sex, love is real!! Married to a ginger |
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Anonymous Coward 10/06/2014 02:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Like someone you have been with for over a year or two. Quoting: dayzd1410 and then out of the blue they say something like... "Well its been over a month because I dont like sex and I could live my whole life without it." No, fuck no. Not gonna go without sex unless it's for medical reasons... which is legitimate. "Could live my whole life without it" doesn't fucking fall into the 'legitimate' category. Sounds like she's just being a cunt, on top of not being attracted to you/happy with you anymore. Run like hell. |
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QCluminati User ID: 53232708 Canada 10/06/2014 02:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Haha! I have 4 uncles younger than I. Grandpa had 14 children with 5 different women. He was a wild one. His heart exploded in 2005. God bless his ornery horny ass soul. Yeah i guess it would have been the same for me however my dad was the 16th child so I dont have younger uncles. I do have very old ones though haha Last Edited by QCluminati on 10/06/2014 02:32 PM Unvaxxed because fuck you |
artemis133 User ID: 59810801 United States 10/06/2014 02:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes. Crazy cat lady in training... "Society always honors its live conformists and its dead troublemakers" ~Mignon McLaughlin "The lost child, crying, crying, but still catching the fireflies." ~Ryusui "Oh, yeah, life goes on, even after the thrill of livin' is gone..."~John Mellencamp |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26044837 Croatia 10/06/2014 02:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Let me tell you one thing: One week of good sex is worth 10 years of blabing and masterbating on internet.Platonic internet relationship with person you can barly meet once a year is not worth a crap.You ll only get fat from it. Now I claim persons of an adult age such as myself are less horny then teens and youngsters but if you PHYSICALY(I mean physically not in fantasy on internet) do some other PHYSICAL things with your partner such as shopping going on beach in summertime or taking a walk in park you dont really have to sex so often to have a good relationship. Just sitting at home on internet and masterbating HELL NAWH !!! OH MY did I tell One week of sex is worth 10 years on internet? PARDEN ME WHAT I MEANT WAS One Night of Sex is worth of 10 years of blabing on internet!Esp if that night is Italian... |
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nahkers User ID: 59907859 United States 10/06/2014 02:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Haha! I have 4 uncles younger than I. Grandpa had 14 children with 5 different women. He was a wild one. His heart exploded in 2005. God bless his ornery horny ass soul. Sounds like my dad, we always suspected he had another family with children. When you find a piece of shit along side the road and you poke it with a stick, what do you expect to find inside of it, gold? No, it's just going to stink more. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 63498038 United States 10/06/2014 02:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sex is only for reproduction in you think like an animal. That is the only reason animals do it. We are the ones who do it for reasons other than reproduction. Buncha obackwards ass Neanderthal in here who think they are enlightened because they mimic animal behavior and don't even know it. |
nahkers User ID: 59907859 United States 10/06/2014 02:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sex is only for reproduction in you think like an animal. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 63498038 That is the only reason animals do it. We are the ones who do it for reasons other than reproduction. Buncha obackwards ass Neanderthal in here who think they are enlightened because they mimic animal behavior and don't even know it. [link to www.sciences360.com] "When people speak of animals mating only for procreation, they are expressing views, not facts, often with the underlying idea that sex for pleasure is somehow perverse. Sex for pleasure is natural, and occurs to that life itself occurs." Last Edited by nah-t on 10/06/2014 02:49 PM When you find a piece of shit along side the road and you poke it with a stick, what do you expect to find inside of it, gold? No, it's just going to stink more. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 63498038 United States 10/06/2014 02:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sex is only for reproduction in you think like an animal. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 63498038 That is the only reason animals do it. We are the ones who do it for reasons other than reproduction. Buncha obackwards ass Neanderthal in here who think they are enlightened because they mimic animal behavior and don't even know it. [link to www.sciences360.com] "When people speak of animals mating only for procreation, they are expressing views, not facts, often with the underlying idea that sex for pleasure is somehow perverse. Sex for pleasure is natural, and occurs to that life itself occurs." I agree that is natural and to be enjoyed. Those who can not enjoy sex have a problem and should not pretend it is a virtue of some kind, it is not. I will check out the link. I have seen it be treated like scientific fact in science articles numerous times. Sitting for instance a dog's tendency to bump anything when Randy, it is an instinct they can't control therefore they don't have free will over it. |
anonymous sun User ID: 2698905 United States 10/06/2014 02:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes, but bf and I are old and don't need it anymore, although we are still in love more then ever. Quoting: anonymous sun If either of us needed it we would still turn to one another.We are both highly attracted to each other. Don't need it anymore? LOL, My bf is still hot for 51 yrs old.In fact I have never seen a better looking guy in all my life.Hes a total hottie. 51 and he doesn't need it? No offense...but I call bullshit. By Grandfather had children until he was 68. Yeah...68. Well good for him! But my bf is NOT your grandfather nor you.Everyone is different.Just because YOU needed at 51 doesn't mean everyone should. |