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I'm thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend :/

 
Anonymous Coward
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10/21/2014 07:13 AM
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I'm thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend :/
Well, she's 5 years younger than me, she's now 22. And she's great I guess. I love spending time with her, I love her. But the thing is.. she drives me crazy. And I can't stand this anymore. Example? Last Saturday she asked me in the morning if we can meet and I said to her politely 'yes, but not now, I'm going to mobile phone service cause my mobile phone is broke, we can meet in the evening'. And she said 'no, I won't be free in the evening'. I asked her if she will be free on the Sunday - she said NO. So ok.. I made plans for Sunday, I needed to go 100 km to my family home for some documents, I wanted to go about 4 p.m. and stay for the night and go back in the morning to my apartment. And when I was leaving my home my girlfriend texted me 'we can meet in the evening'. I wrote back that I'm going for documents cause she said that she won't be free Sunday.

AND WHAT?

She wrote me freaking long message that she can't stand those situation, that she loves me but I'm hurting her, that she wishes me good life and she wishes me that some other girl would be happy with me...

I ignored it and few hours later she apologized me.

Ok, no big deal. But this happened like fifth time in the last 2 months.. I'm tired of this. This isn't normal. I think that she's some kind of controling woman.

What can I do?
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10/21/2014 07:14 AM
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Re: I'm thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend :/
I'll buy her off you for 3,000 euros, bro. She sounds like a firecracker. You got to handle the chloroform and shipping fees, tho.
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10/21/2014 07:16 AM
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Re: I'm thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend :/
Leave her. My ex said the same shit until one day she just snapped.


Back living at her mothers because that's the only thing she's good at.
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10/21/2014 07:17 AM
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wgaf?
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10/21/2014 07:20 AM
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Most women are fuckin psycho like that. She needs a man who beats her. Dump her and find a woman who is only half psycho
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10/21/2014 07:20 AM
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She will dump you if you don't dump her. Trust me.


It's already over man I'm sorry to say. Be the one to take the initiative and not be left in the dump.
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10/21/2014 07:22 AM
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Yup she is only going to get worse and worse, time to blast inside her one last time and then move on my friend. Woman like this are not worth the trouble and she will either drive you nuts and it will end up with you looking the bag guy or she will use her controlling and obvious insecurties to justify cheating on you.
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10/21/2014 07:24 AM
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Well you are a single successful guy
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10/21/2014 07:27 AM
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Yup she is only going to get worse and worse, time to blast inside her one last time and then move on my friend.
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Tagging the ass right before he dumps her is recommended.
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10/21/2014 07:29 AM
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She should have told you she can/would cancel her Sunday sppointment for you.
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10/21/2014 07:29 AM
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Sounds like.she is planning on leaving you .. I would end it now .. tell her you wish her a good life and you hope another guy makes her happy ..
If your dreams don't scare you.. they aren't big enough.
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10/21/2014 07:31 AM
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Most women are fuckin psycho like that. She needs a man who beats her. Dump her and find a woman who is only half psycho
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I hope a car hits you today .. at least a baseball bat
If your dreams don't scare you.. they aren't big enough.
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10/21/2014 07:32 AM
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its seems she will end it herself very soon. i advice u to break it yourself now. if u love her, its gonna hurt u, but there will be a hope she comes back a better woman when she grows up more. this is life... we live on hopes. love comes and go. hope u find your real lover in near future.
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10/21/2014 07:33 AM
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Re: I'm thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend :/
Well, she's 5 years younger than me, she's now 22. And she's great I guess. I love spending time with her, I love her. But the thing is.. she drives me crazy. And I can't stand this anymore. Example? Last Saturday she asked me in the morning if we can meet and I said to her politely 'yes, but not now, I'm going to mobile phone service cause my mobile phone is broke, we can meet in the evening'. And she said 'no, I won't be free in the evening'. I asked her if she will be free on the Sunday - she said NO. So ok.. I made plans for Sunday, I needed to go 100 km to my family home for some documents, I wanted to go about 4 p.m. and stay for the night and go back in the morning to my apartment. And when I was leaving my home my girlfriend texted me 'we can meet in the evening'. I wrote back that I'm going for documents cause she said that she won't be free Sunday.

AND WHAT?

She wrote me freaking long message that she can't stand those situation, that she loves me but I'm hurting her, that she wishes me good life and she wishes me that some other girl would be happy with me...

I ignored it and few hours later she apologized me.

Ok, no big deal. But this happened like fifth time in the last 2 months.. I'm tired of this. This isn't normal. I think that she's some kind of controling woman.

What can I do?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 64345653


She's bi-polar....and not very intelligent.
Dump her before she makes and emotional mess out of your head....and life.
Accidental Stoner
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10/21/2014 07:36 AM
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Re: I'm thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend :/
1. Take some private time to think about things calmly. Get
some perspective.

2. Have a calm, serious talk with her. Be honest to yourself,
tell her the truth.

3. Learn together, how to leave out unnecessary control
mechanisms, once you have identified them in both of you.

4. Grow together.

:)

Love is precious.
Not always all fun and games, though...but you can reach
that point where you can laugh at yourselves - together.

Ummh...but looking at my personal history, I'm just not fit
to hand out advice...or is that the other way around..?

scratching

Good luck to you, OP.
Just live your truth.
If you love her, you love her.
Read that part in the bible about the true nature of love.
It is good text.
(Not religious meself. That is beside the point.)

bonghit

*cough*

*pass*

peace
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10/21/2014 07:41 AM
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she's a child
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10/21/2014 07:43 AM
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She wants to break up with you but doesn't have the nerve. Just dump her already.
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10/21/2014 07:48 AM
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Her needs are not being met.
Read the book The 5 Love Languages. Learn to speak her love languages and she will be putty in your arms.
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10/21/2014 08:21 AM
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10/21/2014 08:23 AM

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Re: I'm thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend :/
if you really want the relationship then work at it. if you dont which it sounds like you don't then walk away before you invest any more of your heart

the way you describe her - she isn't the love of your life

if another lady came into the room seemed to fit what you are looking for would you consider another? imagine 5 years forward - can your life be without that person? if u can then u need you get out

if you think she is the one then there are plenty of books on relationships. I am reading. "his needs her needs". it will help

good luck
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10/21/2014 08:38 AM
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I'll buy her off you for 3,000 euros, bro. She sounds like a firecracker. You got to handle the chloroform and shipping fees, tho.
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Holy shit! Coffee is all over my computer screen
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10/21/2014 08:53 AM
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This is not a relationship forum. Please use google and put your pathetic life story there and seek their advice.

This is news and conspiracy theories, not 'broken hearts club'.
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10/21/2014 09:12 AM
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See if she has any friends she can introduce you too. Maybe it will work out for everyone.
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10/21/2014 09:20 AM
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Re: I'm thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend :/
It sounds like you both do things on your own that you might better work by doing things together.

Sometimes we all got to do things on our own. Include your girlfriend in what you are doing and encourage her to do the same.

Either accept your girlfriend as she is or move on. A lot of people compromise too much and end up fighting all the time.

If the relationship is manipulative, where she chastises you to get her way then that is not going to change as long as you put up with it.
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10/21/2014 09:22 AM
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Re: I'm thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend :/
I'll buy her off you for 3,000 euros, bro. She sounds like a firecracker. You got to handle the chloroform and shipping fees, tho.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 64345129


Lol
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10/21/2014 09:25 AM
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She wasn't free that Saturday evening or the following Sunday morning because she is seeing someone else.

I have been through exactly what you describe.

She will eventually become more crazy and it will drive you insane. Leave now and don't look back. You deserve better.
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10/21/2014 09:26 AM
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Most women are fuckin psycho like that. She needs a man who beats her. Dump her and find a woman who is only half psycho
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I hope a car hits you today .. at least a baseball bat
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You can drive the car and I'll hang out the window with the baseball bat. chuckle
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10/21/2014 09:28 AM
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Re: I'm thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend :/
she, is trying to train you to obey her. if you do, she will then dump you as a wimp.

it's a no win.
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10/21/2014 09:30 AM
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Drop her like a bag of ebola.
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10/21/2014 09:40 AM
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Re: I'm thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend :/
Well, she's 5 years younger than me, she's now 22. And she's great I guess. I love spending time with her, I love her. But the thing is.. she drives me crazy. And I can't stand this anymore. Example? Last Saturday she asked me in the morning if we can meet and I said to her politely 'yes, but not now, I'm going to mobile phone service cause my mobile phone is broke, we can meet in the evening'. And she said 'no, I won't be free in the evening'. I asked her if she will be free on the Sunday - she said NO. So ok.. I made plans for Sunday, I needed to go 100 km to my family home for some documents, I wanted to go about 4 p.m. and stay for the night and go back in the morning to my apartment. And when I was leaving my home my girlfriend texted me 'we can meet in the evening'. I wrote back that I'm going for documents cause she said that she won't be free Sunday.

AND WHAT?

She wrote me freaking long message that she can't stand those situation, that she loves me but I'm hurting her, that she wishes me good life and she wishes me that some other girl would be happy with me...

I ignored it and few hours later she apologized me.

Ok, no big deal. But this happened like fifth time in the last 2 months.. I'm tired of this. This isn't normal. I think that she's some kind of controling woman.

What can I do?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 64345653


tell her what you just wrote here.
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10/21/2014 09:45 AM
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Re: I'm thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend :/
She wants to break up with you but doesn't have the nerve. Just dump her already.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 64346415


Yes ... she "IS" looking for an escape hatch. The way women like her do it is that they become increasingly unreliable and more critical ... because they WANT YOU to pull the rip cord.

Women do that because they ALWAYS like to FEEL like they are the innocent party in it all. Seen it literally hundreds of times (I am older) with my many friends and acquaintances. It is so common that if you open your eyes, and ears, you can hear the same story come out of a dozen women's mouth in a single day. (

What is always maddening to me is when the Female SLEEPS AROUND and then tries to put the blame on her guy. Telling him time after time to "MAN UP", "BE HONEST" etc. etc., as THEY are the ones cheating and lying (and doing it regularly). Not all women are like that ... it's just that the 90% who are give the rest of the women a bad reputation.

GET OUT NOW.

SHE WANTS YOU GONE.

SHE WANTS YOU TO BREAK IT OFF (so she can go around playing Ms Innocent and Ms Wronged).

When you do break it off though make sure that you are hooking up with another woman within a week. Could be an old flame, a girl doing the same thing to her BF that your GF is doing to you, or just a woman you casually know who has the hots for you.

It drives a woman batty when she wants out ... so it ends ... and KABAMM, within a week YOU have her replaced (even if it is just a hookup).





GLP