Have you ever cut off a relationship without a "goodbye"?

Yep, it hurt for years.

I'm sure that's correlated to how long and how well you knew the person that did it.

All other things being equal, I'd say it doesn't speak well of the person that does it. In terms of their morality and ethics. Do you agree?

I think I'm more in shock than in pain. It will wear off, I've got other things to do.

Would you feel better if I pretended to be that person and told you to fuck off?

7 year marriage with someone i was madly in love with. She was a good actor also, i thought it was mutual. Came home from work all furniture and money in bank gone. Never a goodbye. Wouldnt even look at me at the divorce. No explination. Yes years.

She never spoke to me again, avoided me and our mutual friends like the plague, only was with her one year. I did not do anything wrong, maybe was not the perfect relationship, but our end was too strange.

You must have been a really bad husband... or you got fat and bald.

Please continue in this role-play:

What did I do wrong? Why are you cutting me off?

yep...its like this...

I think she probably never would have shown up to tell
me it was over, unless I had asked her to come and see
me.

Oh well, I don't hold that against her.
Only fond memories, these days.

One sentence of an explanation would give me closure. That's too much to ask?

I did nothing to deserve being treated like that.

You're just not the person my fantasy imagined you to be.Im sorry but somewhere out there my fantasy will appear and set my unsatisfied life of disappoints in order.My satisfaction in all things is the most important thing to me.Feelings are for pleasing and my thoughts grandiose.You just don't measure up.

Fuck, fuck, fuck...


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You can't take 30 seconds to write one sentence to me though?

I really don't care about your rationale. I just want closure.

...or sparked 1 000 000 new questions and riddles.

Just let it go.

It will be alright.

OK fuck off I wasn't really into you...Better?

I agree.

I have been cut off without goodbye after a relationship of 9.5 years.

She's not a good person.

Even one word would do it, "Goodbye" then I'd never have to think about the situation again.

No more questions or riddles or anything like that, just closure.

That would be fine if it wasn't just role play. If you weren't really into me, why did you waste your time at all?

Others things being equal, I'd say that anyone that does this is not a good person most likely. Do you agree?

she did...

still bothers me that someone I thought I knew
well could be so cruel.

Apparently it's a woman thing.

Good discussion thread BTW.

Did you read the heartache in this thread?

How heartless do you have to be to respond like that?

If you just wanted a fantasy, you should have told me that right off the bat.

I could have delivered.

Most likely, yes. Certainly when the relationship is being cut off for no apparent reason.

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Not bald or fat and tried to be a great husband. Traveled alot and had a blast. No matter i ended up with someone much superior to her for the last 13 years.

I can only imagine why. I feel this will not be good for the other person's karma assuming they have a soul.

yes.

girlfriend said she was babysitting a couple cities away.
didnt come back..found out from people she was seeing someone else.

we had been together three years and I had been suspecting things but yeah love makes ya stupid. we had a lot of mutual friends and she turned half of them against me and tells me that Im a selfish fuck for not wanting to be her friend anymore..bitches be crazy.

I just dont understand how people can weave complicated lies and live multiple lives like that. how do they even sleep at night?
(I know this girl is doing the same shit to her new plaything, its just twisted)