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2 year old taken away from parents who smoked pot , killed by foster parents!!!!

 
Anonymous Coward
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11/13/2014 11:25 AM
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pot kills again
 Quoting: Michet the Cat


FUCK YOU YOU PATHETIC PEACE OF SHIT!! You read that article and thats ALL YOU CAN FUCKING SAY? If you were in front of me right now I would hit you so fucking hard that when you woke up you're clothes would be out of fashion. Heartbroken for that little angel here, and the parents obviously. Something like this is what will finally set of the well overdue revolution. We need to take the power back people. End of. Fuck this shit I have had it. This system and they're brainwashed dildo population firmly entrenched in its arsehole has to go. Every shill, every cop, every cop lover and agent of any kind PERIOD, has to FUCKING GO!!
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Piece even, and sorry if you really were being sarcastic. Totally flipped there when I read that.
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11/13/2014 11:35 AM
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I was in foster care as a teenager. Had some of the absolute worst FP I ever thought existed. One foster mother sat me down at the dinner table in front of her bio kids and told me what a piece of shit I was and that my parents hated me and gave me up. She forced me to ask her to use the restroom whenever I had to go, and would deny me if she felt like it. I was a good kid. The worst thing I did was smoke tobacco. I graduated high school a year ahead of my class, got a full scholarship to a university out of state and needed permission to leave the state. My case worker and my foster mother made me turn it down and go to job corps. I was so frustrated I literally burst into a tantrum in the courtroom in front of the judge. He pulled me into his quarters and I told him what happened. He was livid. I just wanted to be emancipated. I was a good kid! I had already turned down the scholarship so college was out. The judge told me to go to job corps and he would see what he could do for me. Funny thing is... Job corps was out of state! The day I got there I got a call. My judge called me and asked me what it felt like there. I told him prison. He said I was a fully emancipated adult, and could leave if I wanted. He told me how proud of me he was and wished me the best, telling me if he had known what was going on he would have taken me into his home himself.

I wasn't in foster care because I was an unruly teen. I was there because my father was unmedicated and couldn't cope after 20 years in the military, and a divorce. My mom took off with my sister and left me there with him. We were strangers. He shut down and the state stepped in.

Stories like this make me want to become a foster parent. Give kids a place they can feel safe in while waiting for Mom and Dad to get it together or fight the system. I know what it's like to feel alone and helpless. These stories bring back so much pain.

Last Edited by Brandywine on 11/13/2014 11:35 AM
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11/13/2014 11:54 AM
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If this happen to me I would probably go insane and go kill the Judge or who ever made this decision. It would be worth the jail time or electric chair to get vengeance. Government is in Tyranny.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 58760656


I wouldnt be braking the law if I had children in the first place. These parents are to blame for putting their kids in the hands of these foster parents. If you want to brake the law do it if you dont have children to raise.
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11/13/2014 11:59 AM
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If you want to smoke pot while you have kids move where it is legal.
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I was in foster care as a teenager. Had some of the absolute worst FP I ever thought existed. One foster mother sat me down at the dinner table in front of her bio kids and told me what a piece of shit I was and that my parents hated me and gave me up. She forced me to ask her to use the restroom whenever I had to go, and would deny me if she felt like it. I was a good kid. The worst thing I did was smoke tobacco. I graduated high school a year ahead of my class, got a full scholarship to a university out of state and needed permission to leave the state. My case worker and my foster mother made me turn it down and go to job corps. I was so frustrated I literally burst into a tantrum in the courtroom in front of the judge. He pulled me into his quarters and I told him what happened. He was livid. I just wanted to be emancipated. I was a good kid! I had already turned down the scholarship so college was out. The judge told me to go to job corps and he would see what he could do for me. Funny thing is... Job corps was out of state! The day I got there I got a call. My judge called me and asked me what it felt like there. I told him prison. He said I was a fully emancipated adult, and could leave if I wanted. He told me how proud of me he was and wished me the best, telling me if he had known what was going on he would have taken me into his home himself.

I wasn't in foster care because I was an unruly teen. I was there because my father was unmedicated and couldn't cope after 20 years in the military, and a divorce. My mom took off with my sister and left me there with him. We were strangers. He shut down and the state stepped in.

Stories like this make me want to become a foster parent. Give kids a place they can feel safe in while waiting for Mom and Dad to get it together or fight the system. I know what it's like to feel alone and helpless. These stories bring back so much pain.
 Quoting: Brandywine84




hfhfhfhfhf

I am so truly sorry for you for what you endured as a child and minor, but it sounds like you are truly a wonderful human being, despite your early experiences.

I wish government (both national and state) would listen to people like you and make some REAL changes in the system.
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11/13/2014 02:11 PM
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I used to live with a foster parent that would beat my ass for wetting the bed. I had a freaking disorder and would get my ass beat over it. My dad finally regained custody of us, but to this day..I don't trust any of those assholes. Caseworkers or foster parents. Bunch of fuckin money hungry pieces of shits.
 Quoting: Quetzal785


That's terrible! Probably made your bed wetting issue 100 times worse too. 75% of my clients (we're not allowed to call them "patients") are products of the foster care system and are fucked up beyond belief because of their foster parents and/or the foster parents bio kids doing horrible things to them.

I know a foster family and their real daughter is a felon.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 39993808



Some foster parents are felons themselves. The only charges that exclude someone from being a foster parent are violent crimes or crimes that have to do with children.. like rape, assault, furnishing alcohol to minors etc.
In the state of PA (and most other states) all you need to do to become a licensed foster parent is get a physical from a doctor and a home study... you can have a criminal background, but as long as you are clean through child line (no child abuse) you're golden. Every now and then you have to take an 8 hour class... and if you want the special needs/high risk kids, even more classes.. but that's more money they pay you. No psych evals (unless the courts request one, which is rare).
The going rate in PA is $21 per day per child... which doubles for high risk kids. They get state aid for medical, vision and dental, huge tax write off... plus everyone is always saying what heroes they are. When I hear that someone's a foster parent, I don't get the warm fuzzies.. actually, it makes my spidey senses tingle. Most of them do it for the income, even if it's not that much...
Seriously though.. if you ever run into anyone who's a foster parent, take a peek at their facebook or other online activity and forum posts (ivillage used to be packed with them) and you'll just shake your head. There are a lot of mentally unstable people who shouldn't be allowed to have kids of their own, let alone be allowed to have foster kids! But, the states are desperate for homes, so they really scrape at the bottom of the barrel.


BUT... you do have the good ones. Like these

[link to articles.mcall.com]

[link to news.therawfoodworld.com]

So, it would be unfair for me to say that all foster parents are evil... they're not. Just a huge percentage of them are...
 Quoting: 4xcharmd


Me and my wife are foster parents to a 13 and 9 year old. We became foster parents because gullible "us" (me and my wife), wanted to give this little girl and her brother a shot at a decent life with love and stability. Well to make a very long story short, the 13year old boy is a manipulating, psychopathic, molester of bis own sister and threat to everyone around him. Ive caught this boy masturbating in the living room butt ass naked to cartoons while my wife, his sister, and other family visiting was up and moving around the house. I could not believe it so i started pressing the issues with his counselors. Turns out this kid has been molesting and having sex with his 9 year old sister. After reporting this to the caseworkers, counselors, authorities, the caseworker insisted it was just a phase boys through.

So i installed door alarms and monitor both kids while they are out of their rooms like a hawk. So we had these kids ALSO WITHOUT A HOME-STUDY COMPLETED!! Yes you heard that right, the kids was placed with us as "Emergency placement". The boy was removed from his previous home within 24hrs and placed with us after the caseworkers finished filling me and my wife full of Bullshit about how these kids were. Me and my wife didnt think a thing about what was going on because we didnt know much about the system anyways. It turns out that not only was me and my wife being used by these people to take care of these kids, WE HAVE RECIEVED ZERO $$ to help (as our homestudy STILL IS NOT COMPLETED) and we cant even get the caseworkers to help us get this kid counseling mofe than 1hr a week (WTF). THIS kid has a chance to be the next Ted Bundy and yet we cant even get the kid counseling because dfcs gives 0% of a shit about these kids and we cant even pay for counseling because we cant even pay for it as there is zero $$$ coming in from dfcs to help. Finally i get ced up with the bullshit and called the govenor's offi e and told them everything. 4hrs afterwards i had caseworkers calling me apologizing like crazy and wanting to help us. LMFAO.. I told them to take these kids they lied about with them when they get the hell off my property. It broke me a d my wife's heart to witness just how bad and cruel dfcs themselves are to these kids they are supose to be taking care of. The whole system is a disgrace and should be shutdown.

-Kids lived with us for 7 months with no case study completed.

-kids received ZERO financial assistance.

-Kids received 1hr of counseling a week.

-DFCS wont split Sister (victim) away from a molester (brother) even after the kids admitted to what was happening.

-Dfcs WILL NOT CALL YOU BACK no matter hos urgent the matter after 5pm or on weekends. LMFAO.... NOT KIDDING!!!

-DFCS IS A DISGRACE AND SHOULD BE SHUTDOWN IMMEDIATELY. Not everyone feels this way but i promise you that if you were to have gone through what me and my wife have the past 7-8 months, you would be singing that same song too. Bottom line, never EVER get involved as a foster parent to the state. Go through a outside agency to help if your looking to foster. Also know that YOU will be the only one who gives a shit about these kids or their future beccause DFCS DOES NOT GIVE A RATS ASS PERIOD!! And good luck to you on the journey because you will need it by the truck load. Our kids are gone now and 9 months later we still havent been compensated for anything. So its not ALWAYS about the money but it certainly could have helped in the end. There are some foster parents out there who is making it a business and so.e caseworkers who get kickbacks from them too. Shit needs to be shutdown ASAP!!!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65098554


Oh absolutely, there are people who get into it because they want to share what they have and tried to give kids a good life. These are the ones that the system uses and fucks over.
Are you in Florida by any chance?

Social services and judges usually will not split up siblings unless there are 6 of them and not enough bedrooms in homes to house them all.
The kids I had, the oldest would beat the baby and he strangled and broke his grandmas dogs legs and the crazy part is, it's the great grandparents who are making the kid so screwed up because they spoil him and beg cps to put the baby (not a baby anymore but the younger one) in a different home because he's the bastard child... the older psycho one is the golden child.
It's even more screwed up than drug addicted parents. Grandma uses the kids as pawns to control and get money from grandpa, whom she divorced 5 years ago.
But anyway, it's insane what they did to you... id put them on blast in every newspaper!
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