quick advice. need some advice people about revenge | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 64896918 United States 11/18/2014 11:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Louve User ID: 65255777 United States 11/18/2014 11:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Send him a text. Make it just like this post...no capitalization, punctuation, line separation, poor grammar. Make it long and meaningless, just like this post. That should do it. "Standing on a hill in my mountain of dreams, Telling myself it's not as hard, hard, hard as it seems." "see, that's there we differ. you can learn a lot more in the journey than in the destination." ~eekers "Benghazi. We remembered you". ~JypsieWind |
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Louve User ID: 65255777 United States 11/18/2014 11:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Send him a text. Make it just like this post...no capitalization, punctuation, line separation, poor grammar. Make it long and meaningless, just like this post. Quoting: Louve That should do it. go finger bang yourself. think I care about a damn internet forum to correct my mother fucking grammar. blow me pussy. That's what I thought. She's better off with him. "Standing on a hill in my mountain of dreams, Telling myself it's not as hard, hard, hard as it seems." "see, that's there we differ. you can learn a lot more in the journey than in the destination." ~eekers "Benghazi. We remembered you". ~JypsieWind |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 29259037 United States 11/18/2014 11:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 1. Tell your girl how much you respect her for what she did. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 63891709 2. Distance your self from him. 3. Move on with life. I some what agree. I am not a revengeful purpose, but I mean if we he wants to try and fuck me then why don't I send the love straight back? person. my apologies, been drinking to much tonight. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 29259037 United States 11/18/2014 11:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Send him a text. Make it just like this post...no capitalization, punctuation, line separation, poor grammar. Make it long and meaningless, just like this post. Quoting: Louve That should do it. go finger bang yourself. think I care about a damn internet forum to correct my mother fucking grammar. blow me pussy. That's what I thought. She's better off with him. have fun being alone the rest of your life. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 64209875 United States 11/18/2014 11:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 65289429 Canada 11/19/2014 12:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What goes around comes around. He will get his. Those kinds of people don't get away with it forever. Just move on and be happy with your girlfriend. Happiness is a better revenge. Plus vengeance eats you up and is worse for you than it is for the perp. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 64896918 United States 11/19/2014 12:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I got a better idea. Quoting: geezlouise Hit on his girl. But do it with your girlfriend present. You and your girl can do this together and it'll be a bonding event. Then tell her, "SYKE!" And wait to hear from your boy. But if you play my idea just right, your boy will actually see his wrong and apologize... and you'll take him back. But then you'll have the upper hand. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 65184762 United States 11/19/2014 12:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you believe in karma, or that we should "leave vengeance to God", you can always forgive and leave payback to the Creator. By doing so you get rewarded for your mercy, and will also in turn receive mercy and forgiveness from God. If you do tell his girlfriend do it with the correct intentions. Don't do it to merely hurt him, but do it to prevent him from possibly cheating on other girls, and hurting his current girlfriend. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 64896918 United States 11/19/2014 12:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's a terrible mindset. Just sit around and let shit happen without lifting a finger to attempt to change something. That's slavery. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 56086945 United States 11/19/2014 12:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I sure can understand about wanting to mess up his life as much as he attempted to mess yours up. But alas.. there is such a thing as karma. See, for what your friend did, the karma bus will run over him one of these days. Yet if you attempt revenge in any way, the same bus will come for you too. Seems best to leave that bus alone and move on with your life, kwim? Now, all that said... do I think the dude's gf has a right to know what her bf is up to? Heck yes! But unfortunately, it's not your place to just up and tell her. Nor is it your gf's place. On the other, IF <------ she should ever come to either you or your gf and ASK wth happened, then <----- it would be your right, and/or your gf's, to tell her the truth. Only if she asks tho. Who knows what life may bring the way of this dude. You don't need further negatives from him, or from revenge either. Good luck, it's a tough thing to ignore and move on. Am glad you've told him off tho. :D . |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 29259037 United States 11/19/2014 12:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do NOT contact his GF, that's some high school level shit that they're still on. Stay chill, we all know shit just happens.. be the first to accept it lol Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65258292 thanks for an honest answer. I knew it the whole time but the satisfaction of immediate gratification was taking hold of me. it is high school shit and I have grown out of that. I told my buddy that I was truly baffled and disappointed by his actions but still wanted to screw him more. I am going to take the advice because I am strong believer in karma. cheers to you folks, thanks again. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 29259037 United States 11/19/2014 12:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I sure can understand about wanting to mess up his life as much as he attempted to mess yours up. Quoting: Myst_Wolfsong But alas.. there is such a thing as karma. See, for what your friend did, the karma bus will run over him one of these days. Yet if you attempt revenge in any way, the same bus will come for you too. Seems best to leave that bus alone and move on with your life, kwim? Now, all that said... do I think the dude's gf has a right to know what her bf is up to? Heck yes! But unfortunately, it's not your place to just up and tell her. Nor is it your gf's place. On the other, IF <------ she should ever come to either you or your gf and ASK wth happened, then <----- it would be your right, and/or your gf's, to tell her the truth. Only if she asks tho. Who knows what life may bring the way of this dude. You don't need further negatives from him, or from revenge either. Good luck, it's a tough thing to ignore and move on. Am glad you've told him off tho. :D . thank you sir, as hard as it is to settle with this I know it is the best thing to do. |
LongrodVonHugendong User ID: 63894219 United States 11/19/2014 12:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Last Edited by LongrodVonHugendong on 11/19/2014 12:08 AM |
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SQUIRREL! User ID: 26963823 United States 11/19/2014 12:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 1. Tell your girl how much you respect her for what she did. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 63891709 2. Distance your self from him. 3. Move on with life. I some what agree. I am not a revengeful purpose, but I mean if we he wants to try and fuck me then why don't I send the love straight back? person. my apologies, been drinking to much tonight. Ok, OP? This is not a good idea. You said it yourself that you have been drinking. I suggest that you sleep on it tonight, And then come back in the morning and read what you have written. And then you should think about it long and hard. Do you really want to step in this hornet's nest? |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 29259037 United States 11/19/2014 12:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 1. Tell your girl how much you respect her for what she did. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 63891709 2. Distance your self from him. 3. Move on with life. I some what agree. I am not a revengeful purpose, but I mean if we he wants to try and fuck me then why don't I send the love straight back? person. my apologies, been drinking to much tonight. Ok, OP? This is not a good idea. You said it yourself that you have been drinking. I suggest that you sleep on it tonight, And then come back in the morning and read what you have written. And then you should think about it long and hard. Do you really want to step in this hornet's nest? The thing Is that there would be no repercussions. when someone has done you wrong don't you want them to feel the same pain they put you through? I think that is natural instinct and my gut is going both ways. one telling me he will get his and the other telling me, screw him and give him a taste of the same bullshit he fed you. its a hard option. yes in the long run I will be on top but I mean shit. I do care about other people and the people that he is screwing over. but honestly I care more about ruining his relationship than looking out for the girl he is with. but it is still win win. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 29259037 United States 11/19/2014 12:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | it just truly kills me to have buddy this long and then pull this shit out of no where. he has no remorse so why should I have sympathy? yes I am Christian and believe to forgive and forget but I mean this guy crossed me and it hurt more for this guy to try and screw me like this than if the girl cheated on me. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 29259037 United States 11/19/2014 12:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | what do you mean by "watch him burn?" do I want him to fell the ramifications of his own wrong doing? yes. should his own girlfriend of a year know what he would do to his own friend better yet to a girl he has known for year? I think so as well. I am very torn over the whole situation and I feel like if I could get some true honest insight than it would be here. I just know myself well enough to think if I have a good idea than it probably should be considered by some other people before following through. karma yes, but I feel like he can bite both reality and karma. he is dating someone, that they are already talking about kids. should I let this asshole ruin someone else's life? no my life is far from ruined but if my girlfriend was a whore and wanted to follow through than situation could be a lot more than a paper cut. |
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Firestone User ID: 56191653 United States 11/19/2014 12:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think his girlfriend needs to know, not as an act of revenge but because she needs to know what kind of person she's dealing with. Good luck As Mulder once said, "the truth is out there". "We want to be the band to dance to when the bomb drops." - SLB |