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Hey guys and girls.
Quick question. I am not a revenge or grudge holding person but I ran across an issue that I need some help on. Yes it is somewhat immature but this is the shit im dealing with.
My best friend that I would put as a brother before a friend crossed a line the other night. He is aware of the girl I am currently seeing, sleeping with and talking too. We have all known ( all 3 of us) known each other since high school. I have known my buddy since I was 13. Anyways he is aware I am talking to this girl. So two nights ago they match on tinder. The girl im speaking with hasn't been on in months and receives a notification that my buddy has matched with her. He continues to send her messages, talking about old memories and ask her to text him. he tells her "fuck this app juat text me." he continues to send her his number and keeps on speaking to her. Asking her what she is doing at 3 in the morning. all in the same night. when I know he has been drinking. this is my best friend from high school we are talking about. im 23 now. I never thought he would cross me but this seemed like a stretch. he has never done this before but I feel like he crossed a line, asking her to text him, sending her his number and asking her what she is doing at 3 am. anyways he has a girlfriend. I told him that I was truly pissed at him and he tried to defend his story saying he was just being friendly. I say fuck that and fuck 9 years of friendship. he crossed me. the girl I am talking to called me immediately the next morning telling me that she thinks the situation is fucked up. cause we were so close of friends. ( me and him.) so yes I gave him the fuck you and fuck off talk but now I am curious if I should call HIS girlfriend and let her know. I am not a revengeful type but this guy has been my best friend and would of fucked me if my girlfriend was a slut and didn't care to tell me. what should I do? should I fuck his world? please help.
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Re: quick advice. need some advice people about revenge
Oh boy...

I wanna say tell her.
Go for it.
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Send him a text. Make it just like this post...no capitalization, punctuation, line separation, poor grammar. Make it long and meaningless, just like this post.

That should do it.
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Re: quick advice. need some advice people about revenge
Send him a text. Make it just like this post...no capitalization, punctuation, line separation, poor grammar. Make it long and meaningless, just like this post.

That should do it.
 Quoting: Louve


lol
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Re: quick advice. need some advice people about revenge
1. Tell your girl how much you respect her for what she did.
2. Distance your self from him.
3. Move on with life.
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Re: quick advice. need some advice people about revenge
1. Tell your girl how much you respect her for what she did.
2. Distance your self from him.
3. Move on with life.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 63891709


I some what agree. I am not a revengeful purpose, but I mean if we he wants to try and fuck me then why don't I send the love straight back?
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Re: quick advice. need some advice people about revenge
Send him a text. Make it just like this post...no capitalization, punctuation, line separation, poor grammar. Make it long and meaningless, just like this post.

That should do it.
 Quoting: Louve


go finger bang yourself. think I care about a damn internet forum to correct my mother fucking grammar. blow me pussy.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29259037


That's what I thought. She's better off with him.
"Standing on a hill in my mountain of dreams,
Telling myself it's not as hard, hard, hard as it seems."

"see, that's there we differ. you can learn a lot more in the journey than in the destination." ~eekers

"Benghazi. We remembered you". ~JypsieWind
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Re: quick advice. need some advice people about revenge
1. Tell your girl how much you respect her for what she did.
2. Distance your self from him.
3. Move on with life.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 63891709


I some what agree. I am not a revengeful purpose, but I mean if we he wants to try and fuck me then why don't I send the love straight back?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29259037


person. my apologies, been drinking to much tonight.
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Re: quick advice. need some advice people about revenge
Send him a text. Make it just like this post...no capitalization, punctuation, line separation, poor grammar. Make it long and meaningless, just like this post.

That should do it.
 Quoting: Louve


go finger bang yourself. think I care about a damn internet forum to correct my mother fucking grammar. blow me pussy.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29259037


That's what I thought. She's better off with him.
 Quoting: Louve


have fun being alone the rest of your life.
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Re: quick advice. need some advice people about revenge
Take this to Facebook and see where it goes...
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Re: quick advice. need some advice people about revenge
I got a better idea.

Hit on his girl.

But do it with your girlfriend present.
You and your girl can do this together and it'll be a bonding event.

Then tell her, "SYKE!" And wait to hear from your boy.
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Do NOT contact his GF, that's some high school level shit that they're still on. Stay chill, we all know shit just happens.. be the first to accept it lol
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What goes around comes around. He will get his. Those kinds of people don't get away with it forever. Just move on and be happy with your girlfriend. Happiness is a better revenge. Plus vengeance eats you up and is worse for you than it is for the perp.
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Re: quick advice. need some advice people about revenge
I got a better idea.

Hit on his girl.

But do it with your girlfriend present.
You and your girl can do this together and it'll be a bonding event.

Then tell her, "SYKE!" And wait to hear from your boy.
 Quoting: geezlouise


But if you play my idea just right, your boy will actually see his wrong and apologize... and you'll take him back. But then you'll have the upper hand.
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Re: quick advice. need some advice people about revenge
If you believe in karma, or that we should "leave vengeance to God", you can always forgive and leave payback to the Creator.

By doing so you get rewarded for your mercy, and will also in turn receive mercy and forgiveness from God.


If you do tell his girlfriend do it with the correct intentions. Don't do it to merely hurt him, but do it to prevent him from possibly cheating on other girls, and hurting his current girlfriend.
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Re: quick advice. need some advice people about revenge
If everyone believed that "what comes around goes around" or that "God's Gonna Getcha" in the end... nothing'll ever get done in this lifetime.

It's a terrible mindset. Just sit around and let shit happen without lifting a finger to attempt to change something. That's slavery.
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Your "best friend" is a dick...
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Re: quick advice. need some advice people about revenge
I sure can understand about wanting to mess up his life as much as he attempted to mess yours up.

But alas.. there is such a thing as karma.

See, for what your friend did, the karma bus will run over him one of these days. Yet if you attempt revenge in any way, the same bus will come for you too. Seems best to leave that bus alone and move on with your life, kwim?

Now, all that said... do I think the dude's gf has a right to know what her bf is up to? Heck yes! But unfortunately, it's not your place to just up and tell her. Nor is it your gf's place.

On the other, IF <------ she should ever come to either you or your gf and ASK wth happened, then <----- it would be your right, and/or your gf's, to tell her the truth. Only if she asks tho.

Who knows what life may bring the way of this dude. You don't need further negatives from him, or from revenge either.

Good luck, it's a tough thing to ignore and move on. Am glad you've told him off tho. :D

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Do NOT contact his GF, that's some high school level shit that they're still on. Stay chill, we all know shit just happens.. be the first to accept it lol
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65258292


thanks for an honest answer. I knew it the whole time but the satisfaction of immediate gratification was taking hold of me. it is high school shit and I have grown out of that. I told my buddy that I was truly baffled and disappointed by his actions but still wanted to screw him more. I am going to take the advice because I am strong believer in karma. cheers to you folks, thanks again.
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I sure can understand about wanting to mess up his life as much as he attempted to mess yours up.

But alas.. there is such a thing as karma.

See, for what your friend did, the karma bus will run over him one of these days. Yet if you attempt revenge in any way, the same bus will come for you too. Seems best to leave that bus alone and move on with your life, kwim?

Now, all that said... do I think the dude's gf has a right to know what her bf is up to? Heck yes! But unfortunately, it's not your place to just up and tell her. Nor is it your gf's place.

On the other, IF <------ she should ever come to either you or your gf and ASK wth happened, then <----- it would be your right, and/or your gf's, to tell her the truth. Only if she asks tho.

Who knows what life may bring the way of this dude. You don't need further negatives from him, or from revenge either.

Good luck, it's a tough thing to ignore and move on. Am glad you've told him off tho. :D

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 Quoting: Myst_Wolfsong


thank you sir, as hard as it is to settle with this I know it is the best thing to do.
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Re: quick advice. need some advice people about revenge
Didn't read any of it but I would suggest you seek revenge on you...you can do a tape talking to yourself so that it could happen in your sleep. You have the control over revenge...never forget that!

Last Edited by LongrodVonHugendong on 11/19/2014 12:08 AM
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What's done is done
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Re: quick advice. need some advice people about revenge
1. Tell your girl how much you respect her for what she did.
2. Distance your self from him.
3. Move on with life.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 63891709


I some what agree. I am not a revengeful purpose, but I mean if we he wants to try and fuck me then why don't I send the love straight back?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29259037


person. my apologies, been drinking to much tonight.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29259037


Ok, OP?

This is not a good idea. You said it yourself that you have been drinking. I suggest that you sleep on it tonight, And then come back in the morning and read what you have written.

And then you should think about it long and hard.

Do you really want to step in this hornet's nest?
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1. Tell your girl how much you respect her for what she did.
2. Distance your self from him.
3. Move on with life.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 63891709


I some what agree. I am not a revengeful purpose, but I mean if we he wants to try and fuck me then why don't I send the love straight back?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29259037


person. my apologies, been drinking to much tonight.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29259037


Ok, OP?

This is not a good idea. You said it yourself that you have been drinking. I suggest that you sleep on it tonight, And then come back in the morning and read what you have written.

And then you should think about it long and hard.

Do you really want to step in this hornet's nest?
 Quoting: SQUIRREL! 26963823


The thing Is that there would be no repercussions. when someone has done you wrong don't you want them to feel the same pain they put you through? I think that is natural instinct and my gut is going both ways. one telling me he will get his and the other telling me, screw him and give him a taste of the same bullshit he fed you. its a hard option. yes in the long run I will be on top but I mean shit. I do care about other people and the people that he is screwing over. but honestly I care more about ruining his relationship than looking out for the girl he is with. but it is still win win.
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Re: quick advice. need some advice people about revenge
it just truly kills me to have buddy this long and then pull this shit out of no where. he has no remorse so why should I have sympathy? yes I am Christian and believe to forgive and forget but I mean this guy crossed me and it hurt more for this guy to try and screw me like this than if the girl cheated on me.
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Re: quick advice. need some advice people about revenge
is it honestly to much to call his girlfriend to forewarn her that he might screw her over if he was able to screw his own friend of 9+ years? that seems more of consideration than revenge. don't you agree?
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Tread very carefully here OP

Do you want to watch him burn?
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Don't bother.

Nobody escapes life.
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Tread very carefully here OP

Do you want to watch him burn?
 Quoting: Astral Goat


what do you mean by "watch him burn?" do I want him to fell the ramifications of his own wrong doing? yes. should his own girlfriend of a year know what he would do to his own friend better yet to a girl he has known for year? I think so as well. I am very torn over the whole situation and I feel like if I could get some true honest insight than it would be here. I just know myself well enough to think if I have a good idea than it probably should be considered by some other people before following through. karma yes, but I feel like he can bite both reality and karma. he is dating someone, that they are already talking about kids. should I let this asshole ruin someone else's life? no my life is far from ruined but if my girlfriend was a whore and wanted to follow through than situation could be a lot more than a paper cut.
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and yes my grammar and punctuation is off due to whiskey intake. my apologies. puke5
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Re: quick advice. need some advice people about revenge
I think his girlfriend needs to know, not as an act of revenge but because she needs to know what kind of person she's dealing with.





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