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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 31274333 United States 12/08/2014 09:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Doesn't this guy have better things to do besides befriend my wife? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31274333 lol... soo, your wife is not a person whose friendship would be positive and enriching to another person? Well I don't want her being friends with younger men. That's odd. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 55584899 United States 12/08/2014 09:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No person should have any damn say over who another person's friends are, marriage or not. Love should be about freedom, not restriction. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 55584899 But what do they have in common? He's younger. and?? C'mon, age is relatively trivial in the grand scheme of things, I have friends much younger and friends much older - they may have plenty in common, not knowing them I have no idea. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 31274333 United States 12/08/2014 09:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No person should have any damn say over who another person's friends are, marriage or not. Love should be about freedom, not restriction. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 55584899 But what do they have in common? He's younger. and?? C'mon, age is relatively trivial in the grand scheme of things, I have friends much younger and friends much older - they may have plenty in common, not knowing them I have no idea. They like the same things and seem to get along real well. It annoys me. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 55584899 United States 12/08/2014 09:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Doesn't this guy have better things to do besides befriend my wife? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31274333 lol... soo, your wife is not a person whose friendship would be positive and enriching to another person? Well I don't want her being friends with younger men. That's odd. Ok... and why is this? It's one of those reasons. A) You don't fully trust that this is just a friendship or will remain just a friendship. If it's not that, then it's B) Your ego. Either way, the answer comes down to... it's something you need to discuss with HER, in a completely open and honest way. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 34455019 United States 12/08/2014 09:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As Chris Rock said men don'y have women friends, we have women we haven't fucked yet. If a decent looking woman has a male friend he wants to fuck her. I am friends with the secretary at work. I really want whats in her panties and deep down we both know that. We don't get together 1 on 1 though because I'd probably give it a try just because I want it. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 31274333 United States 12/08/2014 09:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Doesn't this guy have better things to do besides befriend my wife? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31274333 lol... soo, your wife is not a person whose friendship would be positive and enriching to another person? Well I don't want her being friends with younger men. That's odd. Ok... and why is this? It's one of those reasons. A) You don't fully trust that this is just a friendship or will remain just a friendship. If it's not that, then it's B) Your ego. Either way, the answer comes down to... it's something you need to discuss with HER, in a completely open and honest way. I have tried to tell her. And she just ignores my wishes. What's worse is we live close to BIM so I can't prevent them from running into each other, which they do all the time. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27568205 United States 12/08/2014 09:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | To be friends of a friend, or an acquaintance, or part of a group of friends. isn't a big deal. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27568205 But for your wife to be friends with this guy 1 on 1, and hang out with each other and spend time together, just the 2 of them. No, this is not appropriate or respectful. If she pushes the issue, just find a young, sexy woman to start spending time with. She knows that's not right, but maybe there are deeper issues. She says its innocent and no feelings because he's younger. I don't know why he would want to hang out with her. He could be with younger women. Well what do you think she's going to say? "I am turned on and get excited because this younger guy wants to be around me". Use a little common sense. But if you have exclusive female friends that you spend time with, then she should be able to do the same...I guess. I don't think married women should have male friends That's what we've been telling you. It's not respectful or appropriate. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 31274333 United States 12/08/2014 09:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As Chris Rock said men don'y have women friends, we have women we haven't fucked yet. If a decent looking woman has a male friend he wants to fuck her. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 34455019 I am friends with the secretary at work. I really want whats in her panties and deep down we both know that. We don't get together 1 on 1 though because I'd probably give it a try just because I want it. Yeah, I get that. I have a bunch of women friends at work, too. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 55584899 United States 12/08/2014 09:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 55584899 lol... soo, your wife is not a person whose friendship would be positive and enriching to another person? Well I don't want her being friends with younger men. That's odd. Ok... and why is this? It's one of those reasons. A) You don't fully trust that this is just a friendship or will remain just a friendship. If it's not that, then it's B) Your ego. Either way, the answer comes down to... it's something you need to discuss with HER, in a completely open and honest way. I have tried to tell her. And she just ignores my wishes. What's worse is we live close to BIM so I can't prevent them from running into each other, which they do all the time. Perhaps she ignores them because your wishes are not reasonable? She doesn't have to do something just because you want it that way. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 55584899 United States 12/08/2014 09:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You have a few, but you don't think it's "okay" for her to have any? My wife was a virgin when I married her. I'm worried she is curious. So ask her if she is. And don't freak out if the answer is yes. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 55584899 United States 12/08/2014 09:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Don't be a pig, let her enjoy life a little. Be happy that she has a libido and wants to fool around some. If she finds it exciting, why try to spoil it? She said his name one night in her sleep. She almost said it when we were making love. Hahaha... I think you are making this up as you go along. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 31274333 United States 12/08/2014 09:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31274333 Well I don't want her being friends with younger men. That's odd. Ok... and why is this? It's one of those reasons. A) You don't fully trust that this is just a friendship or will remain just a friendship. If it's not that, then it's B) Your ego. Either way, the answer comes down to... it's something you need to discuss with HER, in a completely open and honest way. I have tried to tell her. And she just ignores my wishes. What's worse is we live close to BIM so I can't prevent them from running into each other, which they do all the time. Perhaps she ignores them because your wishes are not reasonable? She doesn't have to do something just because you want it that way. I just don't get why the younger guy wastes his time with her, he could get much hotter women and younger. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 38297734 United States 12/08/2014 09:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Don't be a pig, let her enjoy life a little. Be happy that she has a libido and wants to fool around some. If she finds it exciting, why try to spoil it? She said his name one night in her sleep. She almost said it when we were making love. :urabadman11: |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 31274333 United States 12/08/2014 09:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Don't be a pig, let her enjoy life a little. Be happy that she has a libido and wants to fool around some. If she finds it exciting, why try to spoil it? She said his name one night in her sleep. She almost said it when we were making love. Hahaha... I think you are making this up as you go along. Nope. Serious as all fuck. And pissed off. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 55584899 United States 12/08/2014 09:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 55584899 Ok... and why is this? It's one of those reasons. A) You don't fully trust that this is just a friendship or will remain just a friendship. If it's not that, then it's B) Your ego. Either way, the answer comes down to... it's something you need to discuss with HER, in a completely open and honest way. I have tried to tell her. And she just ignores my wishes. What's worse is we live close to BIM so I can't prevent them from running into each other, which they do all the time. Perhaps she ignores them because your wishes are not reasonable? She doesn't have to do something just because you want it that way. I just don't get why the younger guy wastes his time with her, he could get much hotter women and younger. Uhh, maybe because, he values her friendship? Or her personality appeals to him? I don't know, could be a million reasons... your thinking is superficial on every level. |
4thhorseman User ID: 15383548 United States 12/08/2014 09:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ^^^^ this... they are not just friends and he is definitely hanging out with her to fuck her.. nothing else.. that's all he wants.. SICSEMPERTYRANIS Si Vis Pacem, Para Bellum Vi veri universum vivus vici "There is nothing more deceptive than an obvious fact". Arthur Conan Doyle "Once you eliminate the impossible, whatever remains, no matter how improbable, must be the truth". Arthur Conan Doyle MOLON LABE [link to www.usavsus.info] |