are young men in USA really giving up on marriage?

Is it affecting society--of course. Look around..Who does anyone trust..as a child you trust your parents..but if your parents end up being selfish, cheating liars and use you like a chess piece, then who do you trust! Look at how people talk on here about their 'Ex's"..Think about what the children of these people hear on a daily basis.. THen what they read on social media and watch on the gloobtube!Just look at reality shows! SERIOUSLY
The Economy--When no one is responsible for their actions and expects someone else to clean up the mess they made. Then YES it effects the economy! I personally can not afford to support the 'welfare breeders' can you? When men and women are not responsible for their actions and choices the rest of the populace is forced to foot the bill!
Look at all the silly lawsuits going on concerning "marriage"...Look at all the programs and medication to fix the 'broken children' --
So, by not getting married or at least staying together with the person you procreated with, you dump your responsibility on the rest of society..and there is a cost to that! Mostly creating more disillusioned welfare offsprings and entitlement junkies!

Not all young people are giving up on marriage, not all are whoremongers or adulteres either.

Many are keeping themselves undefiled, still virgins, serving the living God.

[link to www.kingjamesbibleonline.org]


And No, I'm not talking about pedophiles either. Abstaining from sex, fornication, porn, all of that, means exactly that!

If that can't be done, then better to be married, than to sin.


BTW, Wait till those who rape women and children see what our Father God, in heaven has in store for them.

Anyways, not all Americans are Whores or adulteres.

I'm 26 years old next month and left my recent girlfriend after a year and a half and having a child with her (where we went through a selective semi-open adoption method).

I'm too young to be a father figure... and not to the child, I mean.

Oops.. but why should new life suffer to both of it's parents path of demise?

At least half of the women (and I use the term loosely) I have been with prior to have had some sob song about their life which broke em.

So far from the truth. So burrowed in fear and distractions, looking to support from others.

I mean think about it... who was punished the most?
Adam or Eve?

I know it's not right to base other people's relationships on my own either so I try not to... HOWEVER, almost every couple in my network have fell. High school friends. Co-workers. Neighbors... even my own parents after 30+ years of marriage in where i've been on the side lines of much of their struggle and fights.

However, we can all use the cop out by saying we are all responsible for our own realities, thus, I, am the reason for my recent girlfriend is the me i'm not today.

So...if things are such a mess, imagine THIS dystopian world:

People who want to get married would be required to have extensive testing to prove that there are no STDs or illegal drugs -and- have to take extensive psychiatric tests to determine personality traits -and- take a drug assisted polygraph to add to the psychiatric profile -and- have a board certified psychiatrist evaluate the results and determine if the people seeking marriage are compatible and will be honest and faithful with each other as best as can be predicted based on testing at the time? Just to make things more oppressive, add in mandatory genetic sequencing and testing for compatibility and whatever the lawmakers add to the requirements.

No pass, no marriage. Cohabitation without marriage would be illegal and subject to convoluted and psychotic break inducing laws and penalties. The government would take any resulting children. Couples would be prosecuted for violation of the Mandatory Marriage Act. The neighbors would be afraid for complicity by not informing officials of the suspected violations.

Marital vows, required to be given under oath with a government written and mandatory script and responses with no additions or deletions to or from the official script would have the force of law. No divorce, except in cases where any dependent children are turned over to the government to prevent them from being used as weapons between the failed marital partners with no further contact. The last step would be that ALL assets of both partners be located by a thorough government search, are forfeited to the government. No future contact between the divorced persons, former children and former in-laws would be permitted, with orders of protection forcing a minimum government determined distance between:
- The divorced persons - Continues until death
- Each divorced person and any children from the former marriage - No age limit, continues until death
- Each former in-law person and each divorced person (Both) - Continues until death
- Each child of each former in-law person and the divorced persons - Continues until death
- Each former in-law person and the former marital children - Continues until death
- Each child of each former in-law person and the former marital children - Continues until death

Then, divorce would mean being childless with no posessions and no assets.

Marriage and its vows are not taken seriously. Marriage is treated like a month to month joint family situation rental. If people no longer will use adequate discernment in partner selection and there is no feeling of guilt for breaking vows, then making failure very painful for both partners might, might encourage putting a little more work into the relationship. Equal penalties for failure?

So the next time that you think that divorce is a mess, just think of how bad future law makers could make the experience. It would be almost as much fun as jumping in to a wood chipper.

Not up to the task? Don't have children and don't get married. Just eat grass.

Yep, marriage is yet another form of control.

Fuck freely you fuckers

Most of young men today are absolutely useless. Shit in bed, having grown up programmed by porn. Crappy job, or no job and wasting time playing violent video games. Few social skills and awkward as hell.

And this is why the USA is gonna BURN BABY....

I'm 26 and I want to get married, but it seems like better idea to wait. Personally, I feel more mature than most all of the females and a good part of other males my age. That's my opinion

shurry
i liked your answer..so it seems,feminists have destroyed natural trust between men and women and the children will definitely turn out to be selfish and criminal in future
it is still to be seen what is effect on economy..since USA gets free goods,crude from rest of the world;this wont affect economy but sometimes in future:may be 100 years later,the human resources will become so bad USA may never rise again

this is even better answer
i think marriage is not required now because govt has assumed role of husbands and fathers for women
i wonder how long it will last
govt machinery have habit of oppressing it's dependents and govt bureaucracies do collapse over time
USA have never seen collapse of it's bureaucracy but it might happen in future

Nobody in the US will admit this,
but it's the economy. Childbirth
dropped drastically during the Great
Depression and didn't recover until
after WW2 ended. We're in a similar
period. The bankers have double-downed
on gutting the middle class and so
marriage and childbirth are collapsing
for the middle class. Gov't stipends
are keeping childbirth alive for
lower, i.e. poor class.

Yeah, I said the same thing. But after 19 years of marriage, I had earned a lot for her to steal.

now i get it
it is affecting economy and society but not directly..because US has not seen Great depression like collapse
and i think you are correct:Middle class is going to have low birth rate
so all this marriage strike is affecting middle class,not lower class

Too many women need to "find themselves" which loosely translates into being bored and leaving for the excitement of screwing some guy they meet while clubbing. Of course its not all womens fault... there are guys that dont know how to do the little things that make women feel appreciated but by in large its the biological driven urge for newness and excitement combined with courts ruling in favor of women that make marriage dangerous...

I read that this is happening because too many men watch porn. Their brains get wired at a young age to a certain type of sexuality, that after awhile they prefer their gadgets and loneliness to women. It's not as affective to an older man who has married before watching, since he developed normally. I believe there is some truth to these findings.

does family courts,constant feminist propaganda have no part in this?