List of things that turn on American women... | |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 67240765 United States 01/22/2015 10:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Right. My point is, these are the men women are turned on by. There will always be losers like the ones listed above, it's just that in the past few generations, these are the lumps women have been choosing to sleep with and find attractive, whereas 20-30 years ago these men were NOT valued by and large by women. Dysfunctional, screwed up women in the past would go for guys like this. Now it's the universe norm. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 8333482 United States 01/22/2015 10:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Right. My point is, these are the men women are turned on by. There will always be losers like the ones listed above, it's just that in the past few generations, these are the lumps women have been choosing to sleep with and find attractive, whereas 20-30 years ago these men were NOT valued by and large by women. Dysfunctional, screwed up women in the past would go for guys like this. Now it's the universe norm. Someone hasn't been laid in a while! |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 67240765 United States 01/22/2015 10:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Right. My point is, these are the men women are turned on by. There will always be losers like the ones listed above, it's just that in the past few generations, these are the lumps women have been choosing to sleep with and find attractive, whereas 20-30 years ago these men were NOT valued by and large by women. Dysfunctional, screwed up women in the past would go for guys like this. Now it's the universe norm. Someone hasn't been laid in a while! It's been too long. The depressing thing is seeing what I have to BECOME to get laid, how I have to change myself. How what I'm valued for isn't for who I am. When you live in a toxic culture, you are valued for toxic qualities by the Matrix-drones. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 67240765 United States 01/22/2015 10:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why is it so difficult for men to better each other? It's not. There are good men everywhere. Everywhere. Good, decent men with morals, who make effort in life, who are humble, who don't play games, who are genuine and don't look at a woman as a piece of meat, but instead have genuine intentions (these are now called "beta" males). But the subset of idiots are the ones getting laid, the ones women can't resist. Dysfunction begets dysfunction. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 67240765 United States 01/22/2015 10:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I apologize for using the crude term "get laid" in context to myself, because I do not think that way. My intention is not to "get laid" or think of a woman as a means to an end of my own need to "get off" or indulgence. It's sad this term is used so frequently. "OH, YOU NEED TO GET LAID." Sheeple spew this without thinking. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 66808428 United States 01/22/2015 10:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's not. There are good men everywhere. Everywhere. Good, decent men with morals, who make effort in life, who are humble, who don't play games, who are genuine and don't look at a woman as a piece of meat, but instead have genuine intentions (these are now called "beta" males). Quoting: Anonymous Coward 67240765 But the subset of idiots are the ones getting laid, the ones women can't resist. Dysfunction begets dysfunction. A decent men would never fowl the gender of which they would betroth. Excuses excuses. |
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SHTF participant User ID: 66740156 United States 01/22/2015 10:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wait around a little while, this is gonna change real soon. Women are natural survivalists.They always look for the Alpha male to keep guard on her and the family unit safe. It's not that a woman likes being treated bad, but unfortunately that is a secular trait of an Alpha Male. Many of the things that Alpha Males posses make them front runners in survival and safety, other traits are not so much conducive to a stable and fair relationship. I personally don't hit or intimidate women, I see them as equal and there fore should carry half the load. The problem is men and Women don't look at relationships as they once did. It seems that hot sport sex is all everyone dreams about. Although this is important, there is much much more to making 2 people work, marriage or not. Just Sayin' |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 67240765 United States 01/22/2015 10:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's not. There are good men everywhere. Everywhere. Good, decent men with morals, who make effort in life, who are humble, who don't play games, who are genuine and don't look at a woman as a piece of meat, but instead have genuine intentions (these are now called "beta" males). Quoting: Anonymous Coward 67240765 But the subset of idiots are the ones getting laid, the ones women can't resist. Dysfunction begets dysfunction. A decent men would never fowl the gender of which they would betroth. Excuses excuses. A decent man is simply honest about the cultural mindset. He does not make compromises out of some politically-correct deference to women. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 67240765 United States 01/22/2015 11:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A decent man is simply honest about the cultural mindset. He does not make compromises out of some politically-correct deference to women. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 67240765 It would be more of an advantage for you to improve your own gender, or do you really dislike a good competition? You seem to be missing the point. It doesn't matter how "improved" a man is in U.S. culture, he won't be valued here. In other cultures, yes, of course he would be valued or more valued (Western culture and feminism's tentacles now reach everywhere and its poisoned every corner of the globe, so even then a decent man is not as valued as he once was). You have to seek the lowest common denominator here, because we are a lowest common denominator culture. If I wanted to "get" women or become attractive to women, I would basically become all of the awful qualities I listed in my post. Easy. I'd probably have to lose about 30 IQ points in the process, and totally hollow myself out as an individual, too. I would then be compromising who I am in the process. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 67259478 United Kingdom 01/22/2015 11:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | In 30+ years of working with Americans the only thing I have noticed is that they seem to go weak at the knees when treated decently, as equals and with respect.. but then that might be the type of Americans (from the South) I have worked with in that time. |
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jonk754 User ID: 1506442 United States 01/22/2015 12:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That is not what is happening. Women are attracted to self entitled over confident men that know what they want. The traits of the men you described, just happen to be traits that most self entitled over confident men share. Initially this will be attractive to a women, but will not keep them happy. Its our job to show confidence right off the bat to attract them, and then show discipline and caring but not too caring tendencies while making them laugh and they will be happy forever. Often times they become attracted to the over confident jerk, but when he doesn't show discipline later on, they lose attraction and interest and either stay with them because its easier or they are afraid of being alone. They will not be happy with that man for long though. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 7020803 United States 01/22/2015 12:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | None of the things on this list are representative of Manhood. They are representative qualities of boyhood or child minded individuals. Grown adult males who never grew up and matured into manhood. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 54775395 So things like playing a fucking instrument are considered immature? What in the shit are you fucking tards on about? Please enlighten me on what things you do that are so grown up and benefits society. |
Fafhrd User ID: 59096514 United States 01/22/2015 12:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That is not what is happening. Quoting: jonk754 Women are attracted to self entitled over confident men that know what they want. The traits of the men you described, just happen to be traits that most self entitled over confident men share. Initially this will be attractive to a women, but will not keep them happy. Its our job to show confidence right off the bat to attract them, and then show discipline and caring but not too caring tendencies while making them laugh and they will be happy forever. Often times they become attracted to the over confident jerk, but when he doesn't show discipline later on, they lose attraction and interest and either stay with them because its easier or they are afraid of being alone. They will not be happy with that man for long though. Sounds about right. Those types have good bait but no hook. That’s the thing about progress; all the word means is “continued movement in the same direction.” If the direction was a bad idea to start with, or if it’s passed the point at which it still made sense, continuing to trudge blindly onward into the gathering dark may not be the best idea in the world. Break out of that mental straitjacket, and the range of possible futures broadens out immeasurably. John Michael Greer |