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Anonymous Coward User ID: 64870677 Norway 01/23/2015 08:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Fools. They act like its some kind of sacriface for them, while they want it as much as the men do. They just play better, for they know that if they make a demand for their "product" they will get paid in one way or another. The whole propaganda is that women are the choosers and any guy who turns down a fine lass is stupid. They propagate their wares as of high demand, where male product seems oversupplied. Then people accept it as reality and it becomes reality. |
Abi ~ User ID: 63831305 United States 01/23/2015 09:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I can understand once it's going and she's into it and you're ploughing her, of course she's going to enjoy it and have an orgasm. Physically, she has the parts there to be stimulated that would make it enjoyable. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 67240765 But outside of that, sex for women HAS to be sort of an "eh" proposition. And as such, it's either something they "give up" to keep a guy happy or to control him. If "ploughing" her is the best you can do, then ya, she is probably just giving it up for you..and probably faking it, too You accept the love you think you deserve~~~ Love cannot live where there is no trust~~~ Truth has no temperature~~~ Love like it's never gonna hurt~~~ Have no regrets~~~ |
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TheEndIsNigh2013 User ID: 58380079 United States 01/23/2015 09:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I can understand once it's going and she's into it and you're ploughing her, of course she's going to enjoy it and have an orgasm. Physically, she has the parts there to be stimulated that would make it enjoyable. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 67240765 But outside of that, sex for women HAS to be sort of an "eh" proposition. And as such, it's either something they "give up" to keep a guy happy or to control him. If "ploughing" her is the best you can do, then ya, she is probably just giving it up for you..and probably faking it, too "Dependency is commonplace Easy eradication of the human race"-The Acacia Strain, Wormwood I always leave good karma. Leave your name and I will return the favor!!! You have until mid to late 2015. Prepare accordingly. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 17565407 United States 01/23/2015 09:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women give sex for love, men give love for sex. That's pretty much it, even in a loving and committed relationship. As a woman, sex isn't a huge deal to me, there's plenty of other ways to show affection, however I do love pleasing my husband as much as he loves pleasing me. Happy lovers have a happy home :) Quoting: Anonymous Coward 48366155 Does it have anything to do with hormones? Do very 'feminine' women want more sex than women with a beard? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 17565407 United States 01/23/2015 09:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I read someone recommended this thing called 'maca' that supposedly give women more desire by balancing their hormones better: [link to www.amazon.com] |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 41936242 United States 01/23/2015 09:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you don't give your man the sex he needs or wants then he will get it online. The internet is the perfect solution for mens sex drive. He can look at anything he wants and justify it with " she wont give me what I need" and " this really isn't cheating by having a sexual experience because no touching of the visual he is looking at online is involved". It levels the playing field because good looking women can have sex with an abundance of men in real life...if they choose to. So women need to shape up and give freely TO THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER... with a WANT TO ATTITUDE. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 41936242 United States 01/23/2015 09:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It levels the playing field because good looking women can have sex with an abundance of men in real life...if they choose to. So women need to shape up and give freely TO THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER... with a WANT TO ATTITUDE. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 60766354 Sweden 01/23/2015 09:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I can understand once it's going and she's into it and you're ploughing her, of course she's going to enjoy it and have an orgasm. Physically, she has the parts there to be stimulated that would make it enjoyable. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 67240765 But outside of that, sex for women HAS to be sort of an "eh" proposition. And as such, it's either something they "give up" to keep a guy happy or to control him. Men of course are different. We think so differently about it. Men literally want to fuck every part of a woman's body, all the time. We WANT them so bad on a physical level. My friend asked his gf what she does to SHOW him she cares about him and she blurted out, sort of not realizing what she was saying, "I give you sex." I thought that wrapped things up for me. I thought, "Yep... that's how they really see it." They gotta have a long-term plan in the backs of their minds. Kids? Money? Resources? Safety? Shelter? Next time go for a scorpio woman and there will most probably not be such an issue. Or make sure she has a moon in an earth sign, or both :) |
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Life and Love User ID: 66947686 United States 01/23/2015 09:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you don't give your man the sex he needs or wants then he will get it online. The internet is the perfect solution for mens sex drive. He can look at anything he wants and justify it with " she wont give me what I need" and " this really isn't cheating by having a sexual experience because no touching of the visual he is looking at online is involved". Quoting: Anonymous Coward 41936242 Be careful with your conclusion. It isn't called adultery because adults do it; it's called adultery because it adulterates your heart. We become like that to which we are devoted. - Choose wisely. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 61274960 United States 01/23/2015 10:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's not just the act of sex. It's what a man puts into that act. The truth of the matter is men aren't always good at sex. In which case it is very much a chore, and even hurts. If the man is careful, attentive, and makes it enjoyable for the woman, she is far more likely to WANT sex more often. If your woman doesn't want it, you're probably doing something wrong. If a woman just lays there stiff as a board during sex are you still going to want to have sex with her all the time? No, you're going to get bored. It's got to be some effort put into it from both parties to keep it enjoyable. Women want sex just as much as men. We just want GOOD sex. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 48366155 United States 01/23/2015 10:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women give sex for love, men give love for sex. That's pretty much it, even in a loving and committed relationship. As a woman, sex isn't a huge deal to me, there's plenty of other ways to show affection, however I do love pleasing my husband as much as he loves pleasing me. Happy lovers have a happy home :) Quoting: Anonymous Coward 48366155 Does it have anything to do with hormones? Do very 'feminine' women want more sex than women with a beard? This I don't know as I do not have a beard. I think there are many factors that play into a sex drive, such as hormones, overall well being, emotional needs and age. We're much more complicated than I like to admit but honestly i think men are too. |
TheEndIsNigh2013 User ID: 55799184 United States 01/23/2015 10:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I can understand once it's going and she's into it and you're ploughing her, of course she's going to enjoy it and have an orgasm. Physically, she has the parts there to be stimulated that would make it enjoyable. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 67240765 But outside of that, sex for women HAS to be sort of an "eh" proposition. And as such, it's either something they "give up" to keep a guy happy or to control him. Men of course are different. We think so differently about it. Men literally want to fuck every part of a woman's body, all the time. We WANT them so bad on a physical level. My friend asked his gf what she does to SHOW him she cares about him and she blurted out, sort of not realizing what she was saying, "I give you sex." I thought that wrapped things up for me. I thought, "Yep... that's how they really see it." They gotta have a long-term plan in the backs of their minds. Kids? Money? Resources? Safety? Shelter? Next time go for a scorpio woman and there will most probably not be such an issue. Or make sure she has a moon in an earth sign, or both :) Some men live to regret that statement. We Scorps are difficult. BUT-if you treat us right, you'll get laid every night. Just gotta get past that pesky sting ;) "Dependency is commonplace Easy eradication of the human race"-The Acacia Strain, Wormwood I always leave good karma. Leave your name and I will return the favor!!! You have until mid to late 2015. Prepare accordingly. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 66027407 United States 01/23/2015 11:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's not just the act of sex. It's what a man puts into that act. The truth of the matter is men aren't always good at sex. In which case it is very much a chore, and even hurts. If the man is careful, attentive, and makes it enjoyable for the woman, she is far more likely to WANT sex more often. If your woman doesn't want it, you're probably doing something wrong. Quoting: DontBeSuchAGiantWeiner If a woman just lays there stiff as a board during sex are you still going to want to have sex with her all the time? No, you're going to get bored. It's got to be some effort put into it from both parties to keep it enjoyable. Women want sex just as much as men. We just want GOOD sex. And sometimes the woman (ex-whip) is just a money-grubbing, life-sucking bitch that cuts off her husband starting with the wedding night. This man provided everything you've listed + much more and his rewards were deception, hidden credit card debt and infidelity. BTW, in three decades of dating and marriage I've never been so completely deceived, and never needed retraining regarding my technique or ability to give pleasure. |
Red Red Whine User ID: 63178517 Australia 01/23/2015 11:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP...his question was a crappy one and she should have countered it with how does he show his love. People inlove want/need to share themselves with each other....its the cheapest form of heaven you can find. Just because she couldn't verbalise well doesn't mean she thought that "I give you sex" was a good answer. It is a sign that if she didn't like him she wouldn't want to have sex with him. You are overthinking the situation. I interpret sex in 3 ways Making love = I love the man and want it for myself Sex = sport, prostitution, love the man but not in the mood and do it anyway to please him and because high probability I will enjoy it once into it Rape = don't like/know/want or have been coerced I am sure men "in-love" don't use a woman to jack off into.....women inlove don't use men as something to rub against either. You speak as if women and men are on totally different planets.....we are not. All people are individuals....higher/lover drives, higher lower levels of love and so on. Please stop lumping us all in the same basket. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 52154903 United States 01/23/2015 02:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Old enough male to not care anymore (particularly after a bad marriage/worse divorce) ... so I have now been an observer for a few years. Most older (40+) good looking single women USE SEX as a way to manipulate men. They can still get it anytime they want merely by walking into a high end bar dressed to the 9's, and at some point in time have done that just because of the HUGE EGO BOOST that it gives them. Those women ALL know how to manipulate men ... and do it withOUT any guilt in order to OBTAIN what it is that they want (usually in the material realm - which can include marriage to a provider type). Sex because of "Love"? Sheesh, rare to non-existent ... SEX is to be used as a tool. Good Looking Women in their 30's are somewhat different. At that age they are trying to "recapture" their lost youth and CRAVE having the good looking Alpha bed them. They love sexual creativity ... with the good looking hunk type ... and virtually never think about SEX in terms of exclusivity of THEIR bodies towards one man. Their body is to be used for PLEASURE for THEMSELVES, and they will only have sex that is not for that reason grudgingly and for exceedingly practical reasons (ie: so hubby will continue to provide me the big house, expensive car etc., while I go out and FUCK my personal trainer ... the hunk down the street ... or the pickup somewhere). Women, after they realize the draw of their sexuality (early 20's for most) become very mercenary in their approach to SEX. It is a tool to be used for them to accomplish OTHER goals than pure pleasure ... except for when they can bed their desired HUNK. |