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How do women interpret sex?

 
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How do women interpret sex?
I can understand once it's going and she's into it and you're ploughing her, of course she's going to enjoy it and have an orgasm. Physically, she has the parts there to be stimulated that would make it enjoyable.

But outside of that, sex for women HAS to be sort of an "eh" proposition. And as such, it's either something they "give up" to keep a guy happy or to control him.

Men of course are different. We think so differently about it.

Men literally want to fuck every part of a woman's body, all the time. We WANT them so bad on a physical level.

My friend asked his gf what she does to SHOW him she cares about him and she blurted out, sort of not realizing what she was saying, "I give you sex."

I thought that wrapped things up for me. I thought, "Yep... that's how they really see it."

They gotta have a long-term plan in the backs of their minds. Kids? Money? Resources? Safety? Shelter?
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Every woman has major issues with sex.
Guys just want it.
Can't blame the ladies though, finding a non-repulsive male these days must be like finding a needle in a haystack.
Personally I find men repulsive on every level, and I am a man.
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Fools.

They act like its some kind of sacriface for them, while they want it as much as the men do. They just play better, for they know that if they make a demand for their "product" they will get paid in one way or another.

The whole propaganda is that women are the choosers and any guy who turns down a fine lass is stupid. They propagate their wares as of high demand, where male product seems oversupplied.

Then people accept it as reality and it becomes reality.
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I can understand once it's going and she's into it and you're ploughing her, of course she's going to enjoy it and have an orgasm. Physically, she has the parts there to be stimulated that would make it enjoyable.

But outside of that, sex for women HAS to be sort of an "eh" proposition. And as such, it's either something they "give up" to keep a guy happy or to control him.


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cruise If "ploughing" her is the best you can do, then ya, she is probably just giving it up for you..and probably faking it, too
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Women give sex for love, men give love for sex. That's pretty much it, even in a loving and committed relationship. As a woman, sex isn't a huge deal to me, there's plenty of other ways to show affection, however I do love pleasing my husband as much as he loves pleasing me. Happy lovers have a happy home :)
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It's an unavoidable chore that must be performed in the quest for an ultimate reward of greater value.
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It's an unavoidable chore that must be performed in the quest for an ultimate reward of greater value.
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I knew it.

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Western woman are disgusting mostly. They go out and basically have open sex on the dance floor. Yet the next morning they feel as though they are a quality contribution to society.
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Every woman has major issues with sex.
Guys just want it.
Can't blame the ladies though, finding a non-repulsive male these days must be like finding a needle in a haystack.
Personally I find men repulsive on every level, and I am a man.
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You need a sex change.
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I can understand once it's going and she's into it and you're ploughing her, of course she's going to enjoy it and have an orgasm. Physically, she has the parts there to be stimulated that would make it enjoyable.

But outside of that, sex for women HAS to be sort of an "eh" proposition. And as such, it's either something they "give up" to keep a guy happy or to control him.


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cruise If "ploughing" her is the best you can do, then ya, she is probably just giving it up for you..and probably faking it, too
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Women give sex for love, men give love for sex. That's pretty much it, even in a loving and committed relationship. As a woman, sex isn't a huge deal to me, there's plenty of other ways to show affection, however I do love pleasing my husband as much as he loves pleasing me. Happy lovers have a happy home :)
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Does it have anything to do with hormones? Do very 'feminine' women want more sex than women with a beard?
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I read someone recommended this thing called 'maca' that supposedly give women more desire by balancing their hormones better:

[link to www.amazon.com]
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If you don't give your man the sex he needs or wants then he will get it online. The internet is the perfect solution for mens sex drive. He can look at anything he wants and justify it with " she wont give me what I need" and " this really isn't cheating by having a sexual experience because no touching of the visual he is looking at online is involved".

It levels the playing field because good looking women can have sex with an abundance of men in real life...if they choose to.

So women need to shape up and give freely TO THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER... with a WANT TO ATTITUDE.
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If you don't give your man the sex he needs or wants then he will get it online. The internet is the perfect solution for mens sex drive. He can look at anything he wants and justify it with " she wont give me what I need" and " this really isn't cheating by having a sexual experience because no touching of the visual he is looking at online is involved".

It levels the playing field because good looking women can have sex with an abundance of men in real life...if they choose to.

So women need to shape up and give freely TO THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER... with a WANT TO ATTITUDE.
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I am the author of an erotic novel and women get really invested in the right language and approach.
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Re: How do women interpret sex?
I disagree. I think women like sex too. Just depends on how they view their partner.
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I can understand once it's going and she's into it and you're ploughing her, of course she's going to enjoy it and have an orgasm. Physically, she has the parts there to be stimulated that would make it enjoyable.

But outside of that, sex for women HAS to be sort of an "eh" proposition. And as such, it's either something they "give up" to keep a guy happy or to control him.

Men of course are different. We think so differently about it.

Men literally want to fuck every part of a woman's body, all the time. We WANT them so bad on a physical level.

My friend asked his gf what she does to SHOW him she cares about him and she blurted out, sort of not realizing what she was saying, "I give you sex."

I thought that wrapped things up for me. I thought, "Yep... that's how they really see it."

They gotta have a long-term plan in the backs of their minds. Kids? Money? Resources? Safety? Shelter?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 67240765


Next time go for a scorpio woman and there will most probably not be such an issue.
Or make sure she has a moon in an earth sign, or both :)
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I believe women are more inclined to experience it sensually. They seem to put more emotions into the act unlike men. hf
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If you don't give your man the sex he needs or wants then he will get it online. The internet is the perfect solution for mens sex drive. He can look at anything he wants and justify it with " she wont give me what I need" and " this really isn't cheating by having a sexual experience because no touching of the visual he is looking at online is involved".


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Be careful with your conclusion.

It isn't called adultery because adults do it; it's called adultery because it adulterates your heart.
We become like that to which we are devoted. - Choose wisely.
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Sorry, but I can't get into sex with a guy who is fat, bald and hairy with 50 pounds of beer belly and ED issues.
Sorry, it's just a real turn off that way.
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It's not just the act of sex. It's what a man puts into that act. The truth of the matter is men aren't always good at sex. In which case it is very much a chore, and even hurts. If the man is careful, attentive, and makes it enjoyable for the woman, she is far more likely to WANT sex more often. If your woman doesn't want it, you're probably doing something wrong.
If a woman just lays there stiff as a board during sex are you still going to want to have sex with her all the time? No, you're going to get bored. It's got to be some effort put into it from both parties to keep it enjoyable. Women want sex just as much as men. We just want GOOD sex.
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Women give sex for love, men give love for sex. That's pretty much it, even in a loving and committed relationship. As a woman, sex isn't a huge deal to me, there's plenty of other ways to show affection, however I do love pleasing my husband as much as he loves pleasing me. Happy lovers have a happy home :)
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Does it have anything to do with hormones? Do very 'feminine' women want more sex than women with a beard?
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This I don't know as I do not have a beard. I think there are many factors that play into a sex drive, such as hormones, overall well being, emotional needs and age. We're much more complicated than I like to admit but honestly i think men are too.
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I can understand once it's going and she's into it and you're ploughing her, of course she's going to enjoy it and have an orgasm. Physically, she has the parts there to be stimulated that would make it enjoyable.

But outside of that, sex for women HAS to be sort of an "eh" proposition. And as such, it's either something they "give up" to keep a guy happy or to control him.

Men of course are different. We think so differently about it.

Men literally want to fuck every part of a woman's body, all the time. We WANT them so bad on a physical level.

My friend asked his gf what she does to SHOW him she cares about him and she blurted out, sort of not realizing what she was saying, "I give you sex."

I thought that wrapped things up for me. I thought, "Yep... that's how they really see it."

They gotta have a long-term plan in the backs of their minds. Kids? Money? Resources? Safety? Shelter?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 67240765


Next time go for a scorpio woman and there will most probably not be such an issue.
Or make sure she has a moon in an earth sign, or both :)
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 60766354


Some men live to regret that statement. We Scorps are difficult. BUT-if you treat us right, you'll get laid every night. Just gotta get past that pesky sting ;)
"Dependency is commonplace
Easy eradication of the human race"-The Acacia Strain, Wormwood


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It's not just the act of sex. It's what a man puts into that act. The truth of the matter is men aren't always good at sex. In which case it is very much a chore, and even hurts. If the man is careful, attentive, and makes it enjoyable for the woman, she is far more likely to WANT sex more often. If your woman doesn't want it, you're probably doing something wrong.
If a woman just lays there stiff as a board during sex are you still going to want to have sex with her all the time? No, you're going to get bored. It's got to be some effort put into it from both parties to keep it enjoyable. Women want sex just as much as men. We just want GOOD sex.
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And sometimes the woman (ex-whip) is just a money-grubbing, life-sucking bitch that cuts off her husband starting with the wedding night. This man provided everything you've listed + much more and his rewards were deception, hidden credit card debt and infidelity. BTW, in three decades of dating and marriage I've never been so completely deceived, and never needed retraining regarding my technique or ability to give pleasure.
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OP...his question was a crappy one and she should have countered it with how does he show his love. People inlove want/need to share themselves with each other....its the cheapest form of heaven you can find. Just because she couldn't verbalise well doesn't mean she thought that "I give you sex" was a good answer. It is a sign that if she didn't like him she wouldn't want to have sex with him. You are overthinking the situation.

I interpret sex in 3 ways

Making love = I love the man and want it for myself
Sex = sport, prostitution, love the man but not in the mood and do it anyway to please him and because high probability I will enjoy it once into it
Rape = don't like/know/want or have been coerced

I am sure men "in-love" don't use a woman to jack off into.....women inlove don't use men as something to rub against either. You speak as if women and men are on totally different planets.....we are not. All people are individuals....higher/lover drives, higher lower levels of love and so on. Please stop lumping us all in the same basket.
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LEVERAGE
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I claim the fifth !

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but to men usually cleavage is what matters !

LOL !
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Re: How do women interpret sex?
Old enough male to not care anymore (particularly after a bad marriage/worse divorce) ... so I have now been an observer for a few years.

Most older (40+) good looking single women USE SEX as a way to manipulate men. They can still get it anytime they want merely by walking into a high end bar dressed to the 9's, and at some point in time have done that just because of the HUGE EGO BOOST that it gives them.

Those women ALL know how to manipulate men ... and do it withOUT any guilt in order to OBTAIN what it is that they want (usually in the material realm - which can include marriage to a provider type). Sex because of "Love"? Sheesh, rare to non-existent ... SEX is to be used as a tool.

Good Looking Women in their 30's are somewhat different. At that age they are trying to "recapture" their lost youth and CRAVE having the good looking Alpha bed them. They love sexual creativity ... with the good looking hunk type ... and virtually never think about SEX in terms of exclusivity of THEIR bodies towards one man. Their body is to be used for PLEASURE for THEMSELVES, and they will only have sex that is not for that reason grudgingly and for exceedingly practical reasons (ie: so hubby will continue to provide me the big house, expensive car etc., while I go out and FUCK my personal trainer ... the hunk down the street ... or the pickup somewhere).

Women, after they realize the draw of their sexuality (early 20's for most) become very mercenary in their approach to SEX. It is a tool to be used for them to accomplish OTHER goals than pure pleasure ... except for when they can bed their desired HUNK.





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