wife assaulted me and I get arrested and removed from home

That's a long time.

Start carrying a recorder.... and when they are fucking around the police are called to town. Dude been there... protect yourself and get a recorder... saved my ass twice.

What was the purpose of pushing her?

Hassling? Venting? What?

Did she hit or shove you?

If she was going to kill you sure clock that bitch.

Otherwise it's not a fair fight and women know that.

That's why they call the cops - for help.

Men don't see that it's not a fair fight to push a chick.

That's their first mistake.

LEAVE.

As mentioned above ... Liars WILL LIE AGAIN once they get away with it once.

She IS going to LIE AGAIN, 100% guaranteed.

She is going to make further Domestic Violence Charges against you, 100% guaranteed.

If you stick around you WILL be going to jail, even if you get out of this charge.

Time to SAVE YOURSELF ... and get out of your 20 year marriage while you still can do it and are able to make a new life. It is hard to make a new life for yourself from inside a jail cell ... to say nothing of all the rights you lose if you are convicted of a Domestic Violence charge in the US (can no longer own a gun ... plus lots of other things).

As for your kid ... you can only help them ONCE YOU HAVE PROTECTED YOURSELF ... so do NOT stay with her for the sake of the kid since you won't be able to help him from the other side of the jail bars.

No, this girl I was dating was hitting me pulling my hair and scratching me like a witch, while I sat completely motionless, with perfect unflinching posture, when she realized she was hurting herself trying in vain to injure me she ran and called the cop s, I sat calmly where I was, whereupon they came, she was still heated and blurted out that she had been hitting me, as I sat completely motionless her frenzy still on display, and they promptly removed her from her own home leaving me sitting there motionless

The look of shock buddy, as I calmly tell her I'd take care of the dog and close the door behind them as they walk out..

That was 20 years ago

The world isa changin...

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After enduring an hour or two of her lecturing torment, I finally had to sleep. I put my hands on her shoulders and moved her out of the room. There was not fight other than her big mouth. The physical part was not rough or violent. I have never hit anyone in my life, let alone a woman. I am the quintessential non-violent type.

I bolted out of the house. The cops called me, and I told them I am at a motel and will not be coming home. They were satisfied and nothing else was done.

She was a despicable cunt for calling the cops. It was a total breach of trust from which there was no recovery.

Once she called the cops, that is when I bolted.

She was a despicable cunt for calling the cops. It was a total breach of trust from which there was no recovery.

THIS THE WHOLE POINT OF THE THREAD!!! TY Once a spouse calls the cops on the other (giving false witness) they have done the unforgiveable worst thing they can do. Even worse than aduldtery.

Did you read what he wrote?

He pushed her.